How to totally wow a man

_Pumpkin_Muffin · 2025-05-04T17:30:27+00:00

Make small gestures to show that you think of him, like baking cookies.

Show appreciation and enthusiasm for anything he might do to please you. Invites you for a coffee? Yes! Wants to watch a movie together? Yes! Helps you reach a jar on the high shelf? Stools and ladders were never invented and he just saved you from going without peanut butter for your whole life! Be playful. Be a joy to be around.

When you see him, smile like he's the one person you waited all day to see.

RedPillDad · 2025-05-04T18:28:30+00:00

I hesitate to share on this topic. The machinations of 'how to make a man fall for you' is similar to 'how to get a woman to sleep with you'. Might as well ask 'how to fake it until you get the ring'.

It shouldn't be a question about 'what bait do I use to entrap him'. I'm all for becoming the feminine goddess every man wants and flowing into a man's life to support him in every way. However, how to become a chameleon to lock him down is right up there with how to baby trap a man in the Gold Digger Playbook.

Ask yourself? What does he want beyond sex? As with many women, you might find yourself struggling to answer that. Why? Because a typical modern woman doesn't care what a man wants, it's all about her needs.

If you're willing to pay more attention to what a man wants from a woman, here's a head start... Fit, fun, friendly, feminine, respectful, loyal, cooperative, supportive, domestically skilled and generous in bed are all positive traits.

OP, if you're paying close attention to his needs, you're already putting yourself far above your competition.

Golden Rule: Treat others the way YOU want to be treated.

Platinum Rule: Treat others the way THEY want to be treated.

Diamond Rule: Treat others BEYOND the way they want to be treated. Anticipate needs. Surprise, delight and exceed expectations.

serene_brutality · 2025-05-04T18:36:26+00:00

In my opinion or at least for me this is a “dress for the job you want” type situation. If this guy seems like a keeper it’s now on you to act like a keeper. You start taking on, in small ways, roles or acts that are the realm of long term partner or doting wife. Whatever that means to you, but for me it’s like homemaker type stuff. Being that in my experience women don’t do it much anymore little things like sometimes making my lunch for work tomorrow, or doing a little cleaning around my house really floor me. Again in my experience most women take the “I ain’t doing wife shit until I’m a wife” attitude, which I can understand, but yet expect a man to display husband qualities before he’s a husband.

Flaccid_Nutsack · 2025-05-05T13:43:19+00:00

Be positive, attentive to him, be interested in him and make his life easier. Cook for him, be playful, sex is a given. Cuddle and touch him as much as you can.

Average-drug-enjoyer · 2025-05-04T17:49:59+00:00

From my experience - show him that you love, care, and think about him even in his absence by maybe cooking him a meal or surprising him with a gift to show you’re interested. For me, I like to make him feel like a man and feel good about it too. I compliment him on his masculine qualities, especially the physical ones because those make him feel very very loved. Make it known that you want to be with him and have genuine love for him, that you’re not using him for something

HereForaRefund · 2025-05-05T17:57:38+00:00

I was a machinist in a past life. A guy's wife cooked for the guys on the shift. People started asking if she had a sister. Cooking for your husband and his coworkers gets your sister married!

YoyoPeaches · 2025-05-04T21:49:23+00:00

Show genuine interest in his likes, if he likes baseball for example learn about his favourite teams etc. This always worked well for me. You can always get him to explain the sport (if you are not into sports)

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Right_Apartment3673 · 2025-05-06T09:51:45+00:00

Why not just be yourself? Learn to make a unit.

This is same as how to catch a man / how to get the woman in bed is yuck. Doomed from get go.

What's the point in doing things that you don't like, to please him and if he isn't pleased, then you annoy him with all the efforts you put in assuming that would make him feel good since it did last time.

Be natural. If you don't know healthy relationships, read up on them rather than using tactics to grab him/her by love bombing.

TheBunk_TB · 2025-05-04T17:44:37+00:00

Smile? Laugh?

midnight_blue77 · 2025-05-05T04:20:58+00:00

My gf wowed me first by just asking me out. But before that and the reason I started to get a crush on her is that she was just approachable and did little things to catch my attention and notice her which made me lose all doubt that she was interested like getting physically closer to me whenever we were talking and being interested and curious about my life in general and not just superficial stuff. I think most guys will always notice when girls do "extra stuff" that makes a loud message that he's an exception and stands out from all the other guys.

_Pumpkin_Muffin · 2025-05-04T17:30:36+00:00

Make small gestures to show that you think of him, like baking cookies.

Show appreciation and enthusiasm for anything he might do to please you. Invites you for a coffee? Yes! Wants to watch a movie together? Yes! Helps you reach a jar on the high shelf? Stools and ladders were never invented and he just saved you from going without peanut butter for your whole life! Be playful. Be a joy to be around.

When you see him, smile like he's the one person you waited all day to see.

yktvvvvvvvvvv · 2025-05-07T02:25:06+00:00

Men are the ones that move the relationship forward. There's nothing you can 'do' to wow him, that's very masculine thinking. Your being, your essence, your nature, the way you speak, your femininity; all things that he fell in love with from the beginning, are wowing him. Do you feel you match up to him? If you're with a man that's a catch, do you also feel like the catch? I'd suggest journalling on this. Your presence is a blessing to the right man without any extra.

Title	How to totally wow a man
Author	smartblackbeauty
Upvotes	24
Comments	16
Date	May 4, 2025 5:00 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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