A sexual hypocrisy

razor5151 · 2014-10-19T18:13:45+00:00

In other news: The sky is blue, water is wet.

BrunoOh · 2014-10-19T18:21:20+00:00

It appears unfair that women don't have to put in work, while men do.

But your perspective is flawed. A woman being hot is like trailer trash winning the lottery. Sure they are rich now, but you and I both know they'll be bankrupt within ten years. You don't want to be like them. Instead be the smart guy starting businesses and making a lot more money in the long run.

At 20, a females smv completely blows a 20 year old male's out of the water.

At 30, they're about equal.

At 40, assuming you aren't a loser and work out, you blow them out of the water, and in other news 20 year old women are still 20 years old.

At 55...well, 3/4ths of 55+ on dating sites are women. Let that sink in for a while.

Usain Bolt may outsprint everyone here, but he'll stand no chance in a marathon.

And I'm not allowed to think you're a slut for it either. I'd get so much shut for seeing a prostitute.

Why the fuck do you care? They don't need to know either.

I wish I could like women

I like being around women. That they're different than us is not a reason to hate them. You need to discover the Indifference setting on your care-o-meter.

oceanlifetime · 2014-10-20T05:27:40+00:00

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rangamatchstick · 2014-10-19T19:55:48+00:00

"slut" a term used by men jealous of womens natural ability to have sex as they please with almost whoever they please. Yes it sucks, but why should you shame them for it? Better yourself and stop complaining.
Why are you on here if you wont even go out to do game? Thats a huge part of TRP, learning pickup (TRP version anyway) and getting better with women, so why are you complaining about not having women around you if you wont even go out in any form to pickup? On top of that having a go at everyone who does! Dick move.
game/pickup allows you to pickup girls who arent trying to get picked up, the better you are at it the more girls you can pickup and the better you will do with them.

themoor · 2014-10-19T18:40:48+00:00

"Fairness" has nothing to do with it.

Think in terms of humans as a species and the reproductive strategies AT THAT LEVEL. It is an excellent strategy to have the male part of the species ready, willing, and able to mate many times, with lots of females.

The female, because of limited eggs, danger in child birth, and the need for provision and protection, to be more choosy. Still, they have to be made horny regardless in order to be receptive of suitors.

Stir in a couple hundred thousand years of fucking and reproducing and what do you get?

Men going about trying to get into women's pants and women simply doing the choosing when and where they feel like it.

And we're not the only species that does this.

Evolution is an uncompromising bitch, ain't it?

Unequal between them? Sure. But "fairness" is a societal notion, not a biological one.

IVIaskerade · 2014-10-19T18:54:42+00:00

Sure, but think of it this way: The woman spends her evening in a bar. How long does the guy who picks her up spend there? How much effort and time does he put in to get her to bed? Well, what if you could pay to reduce the time required to get her into bed? That's what prostitutes offer.

Your first time with one will be nerve-wracking, but then it clicks - it's no different to any other sex you've had (well, all sex is different, but you know what I mean), and from then on it's "do I want to spend time or money tonight?"

Next up:

I really don't even want to have to be that PUA guy hitting on girls either.

Well, as you've already stated, you can't just sit there, so if you don't want to approach and don't want to not, how do you think you're going to find a girl? You don't have to be a PUA to succeed - just be reasonably good looking, be confident (or fake it - she can't see your hand shaking when it's around her waist), and don't be too desperate. I expect to get rejected a good 10-15 times at the start of a night because I hit on pretty much every girl nearby, just to warm up.

If I feel lonely or horny I can't go out and pick a girl up.

If you feel lonely or horny, going out and picking up a girl is pretty much the only cure. Here's the thing - when you approach, you're thinking "holy shit, she's hot, she won't want me" and that shows. You can't hide it. Just tell yourself "She wants to be with me. She doesn't want to go home alone." over and over until you believe it. Then, when you approach, she'll take notice. Yes, you might still fuck up, but it's better than not ever having a chance.

Also,

I'm sure I'm just a bitter nerd. I wish I could like women

Don't worry buddy, that passes. You seem to be in the denial phase right now. You'll hit anger (I hate women) and searching (why can't I find a single NAWALT?) before you get to acceptance (AWALT, but it doesn't matter), and once you get there, you'll like women again, because you don't blame them anymore.

relationshipdownvote · 2014-10-19T19:06:57+00:00

I really don't even want to have to be that PUA guy hitting on girls either.

That's like saying "I want to be rich, but I wasn't born rich and I don't want to work for it". Sorry bud, the world isn't fair, some people were just given shit and some people have to work for it or live without it.

Transmigratory · 2014-10-19T23:38:23+00:00

You're in the shock part of ingesting the red pill.

It should pass. It will pass shortly if you had a distrusting view on human nature to begin with. It may take a longer time if you had a more optimistic view on human nature.

flubberskin · 2014-10-20T03:01:32+00:00

How do people know who you do or do not pay to fuck?

If you are smart and keep your mouth shut...nobody does.

If you are a man and just want a fuck..pay for it.

Hookers are fun.

sirmadam · 2014-10-20T13:09:21+00:00

If you want it, see a hooker. AWALT. Pay in your time (which does hold value) or pay in cash…I bet you'd spend a lot more of your time getting a lay that it makes economical sense to go to a hooker…and they're usually hot.

RedPillSafe · 2014-10-20T16:20:13+00:00

If a woman notices that you demonstrate Alpha traits (extroversion being the #1 most likely to induce arousal) then she will clearly show she is receptive if you look closely enough.

So it's more like:

Extrovert
Observe
Approach

...the nerdy introvert sitting in the corner with grand delusions that PUA will give them tons of women will be disappointed.

You have to be ACTIVE in social situations.

Women have a built in radar and get excited when they see animated extroverts working a room. If you focus on your extroversion things become easier because you "exist" on their radar.

Until you extrovert you don't "exist"... you are just another passive beta.

Title	A sexual hypocrisy
Author	sweeptheleg55
Upvotes	8
Comments	13
Date	October 19, 2014 6:04 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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