So I have been reading about TRP and trying to put it into practice lately. I have started spinning a new plate, happened to be a chick who JUST was dumped by her boyfriend of 3 years about a week before I met her. I was able to demonstrate value and F-close that night. (It helped that it was my birthday party at my place).

Anyways she made it clear she was not looking for a relationship when we first met, "lucky me" I thought "nether am I!".

So for the last month we've been meeting up 2-3 times per week to hang out and have sex.

I know she is getting attached though, but it makes it hard that she is a 21 year old with no car who just moved back into her parents place and lives across the city (gas ain't cheep!)

Any ways last night I got the first shit test from her. Hadn't texted in 2 days, hadn't seen each other in 5. At 12 at night she texts me; "FIVE DAYS?!?". Old beta me would've said "sorry babe, been busy, I really care about you, lets hang out tomorrow". Obviously defeating any sort of advantage and frame I would have in the relationship.

But this time, my reply; "...till what?"

She obviously didn't know how to respond as it took her a good 15 minutes, and when she did;

"Till steak and a blowjob day, silly"..

Really I think she realized she was being irrational for expecting someone who she isn't dating to succumb to any sort of time frame. And all she could think of was some way to get me to come see her again, (which I am, because I mean, I've never actually had a chick want to spend S&BJ day with me).

So thanks, TRP, for helping me retain frame, deal with this shit test, and come out better for it.

This. Shit. Works