First of all: No, this isn't some bullshit about some gamma male who is supposed to be a lone-wolf alpha who choses to not be "part of the pack". I don't believe in that. What I'm talking about is men who are aggressive, which is an alpha trait, but are easily emotionally manipulated, which is a beta trait.

I've had the misfortune of having to go through a lot of court cases in relation to domestic violence in my work and I've come to this conclusion. AF/BB is not entirely right, rather it is this:

• Alpha fucks
• Savage breeds
• Beta bucks

When I write "savage" I don't mean it in any good way. These guys have no control over their actions, they are losers who will end up dead, in jail or living in misery. Using violence in a controlled manner is an alpha trait, but letting women or children make you lose your cool and turn to violence is not.

Some of you will think it's bullshit moralizing to say these guys aren't alpha, but they flat out aren't. These guys do not have a lot of partners, they get chosen by a woman who wants to breed and she manipulates him for frame control by arguing and he loses frame and beats her, threatens her or rapes her. Many women chose not to breed with alpha men because even if he doesn't care and comes inside her, she knows she can never break his frame and manipulate him. He has options so he will leave her if she tries any shit. Many of you here who don't wrap it up are still childless even though you have many sexual partners, and for those who are still on the SMV journey, if you think about the most sexually active guys you are familiar with chances are high they are childless.

Women go to alpha men for sexual pleasure and since they are very aware of their own relationship market value, many won't give in to their primal urges to carry his child and instead settle for the next best thing in their mind, which is not a harmless beta, but an easily manipulated savage. From the woman's perspective it makes sense, the alpha man is both physically and spiritually superior, she will have to completely trust his benevolence if she breeds with him. She feels more equal with a savage man, because even though he is physically superior, he is spiritually inferior and his frame is easily broken by her. It gives her a sense of control. The beta man has the lowest value to her as he can't even fend for himself. To her it is better to stay with a guy who beats her than being alone with her children or with a guy who can't defend them.

For those who disagree with my division into three instead of two, I'd like to ask two questions:

1. Do you know any man who cannot control his rage and constantly gets into fights who has no woman to fuck? I don't.

2. Do you know any man who fucks a lot of women who cannot control his rage and constantly gets into fights? I don't.

What can we do with this knowledge? Right now I don't know. We know a woman'd rather be fucking murdered than bored with a beta, but this reproductive strategy doesn't make too much sense, because she's not getting the best genes. My suspicion is that women today have such low actual confidence that many of them daren't even try to breed with an alpha and do what it takes to keep him around.

(To any women who might be reading this: You have no idea what kind of torture and humiliation you and your children will endure if you shack up with that "passionate" middle eastern or northern African man who is keen on creating a family with you. We're talking broken bones, knife slices in your face, your children stabbed to death, rape etc. This happens much more than the media reports about.)