The way people speak is how people interact with the world or how they view themselves. When you write a self-help post, you will get a lot of comments telling you how you're wrong or how something won't work, when in reality it has worked for millions or even billions of people.

I will hear about stats over and over that about 10-20% of the men are sexually active. I will hear stats that the average man is invisible to the average woman. I will hear things like women want to fuck the Alpha all through their 20s and marry the Beta when she's "had her fun".

What is 10-20% of 3.5 billion? 350-700 million. Keep in mind "not sexually active" doesn't mean virgin. A man might have a period of time where he's fucking women every week and then he will have a period where he hasn't fucked in months or even a few years consistently.

How many average women were invisible to you because you weren't attracted to them? I'm betting almost all of them unless you had to ask them a question or you needed them specifically.

If you're an Alpha, wouldn't you have a fresh supply of 20-somethings every decade the older you get? If you take care of yourself, you can sleep with hot 20-somethings well into your 60s or until you get tired of women in that age bracket. Isn't it beneficial to be an Alpha if being a Beta means you're marrying a woman who doesn't have an interest in fucking you? I mean, she's only getting with a Beta because her looks are fading and she can't attract the Alphas because he has a new batch of 20-somethings to replace her.

If you're an Alpha, all of these things mentioned is not a problem to you. You actually benefit from these things. Alphas (or "Select men" as Rom Wills calls them) are the men that women want to fuck. This doesn't mean that women want to fuck all Alphas. Alphas get rejected too, but Alphas understand that dating and relationships are a number's game, meaning they want the number to work in their favor, not against them.

Lets say you have a beta who approaches 1,000 women and an Alpha who approaches 3,000 women. Let's say the beta got a 3% (or 30 women) success rate and the Alpha got a 1% (also 30 women) success rate. The beta will think of himself as a failure because he only had a 3% success rate. He would think he's a failure. The Alpha, on the other hand, had a lower success rate, but he will be jumping for joy. He has 30 women he can fuck for each day of the month. He has a 30-woman rotation. If a woman flakes on him or acts like a bitch out of the blue, he won't have a problem dumping her... he has 29 more women left. A beta will focus on the percentages instead of the actual numbers. The beta may be trying to narrow down which girl is gonna be his one true love while the Alpha is just fucking as many of these women he can until they either leave him or he replaces them. The one who becomes his girl is the one who likes him the most and is the most cooperative and submissive. He may like all of these women equally so the one that likes him the most is the one who wins him over. Hell, he might find an actual girlfriend outside his rotation, but his rotation is more of an insurance policy if his girl leaves him or he gets tired of being in a relationship with her.

When it comes to getting laid, an Alpha will leave pussy on the table because the woman is not dealing with him on his terms, but the Beta will try to pander to the woman and deal with her on her terms because he doesn't want to leave pussy on the table. By leaving pussy on the table, the Alpha will have more women trying to deal with him on his terms because pussy is not good enough for him. The beta, on the other hand, gets skipped over and looked as a last resort because women know that all they need to do is dangle the pussy in front of his face and she can lead him like a mule with a carrot on a stick. Women will tolerate cheating from the Alpha because she feels she can't find another man like him. A beta cheats and the woman is happy because she finally has a reason to leave him because he has been treating her like a Disney princess for so long. An Alpha wants his woman to defer to him when it comes to decisions. A beta defers to his woman to get her permission because he sees her as "the boss".

For a lot of men, The Red Pill has been a safe haven for betas. It has been justification that they're not the problem... it's these damn women. For other men, The Red Pill has been something that holds men accountable for their lot in life with women. They talk about the burden of performance and you can either be the Alpha Fucks dude or the Beta Bucks dude. These men aspire to be Alphas and understand female nature better, which gives them a step ahead of the average man that the average woman finds invisible. Are you a Red Pilled Beta?

What are your thought?