Hey guys,

Lurked on the TheRedPill out of curiosity a while back to see what the concepts and the community is all about and then stopped because i understood the concepts but could never relate to them.

But today i experienced first hand one of the most important concepts of TheRedPill : AWALT

I've been away from the country I live in for a few months and just got back last week. So I took the time to schedule some get togethers with friends to catch up with everybody. Tonight, I got to see friends from the university around a barbecue I set up at my house. Everybody from great friends to a girl( let's call her Emma) that wanted to date me last year ( It didn't happened, not my type) was there and was enjoying the food and hitting it off.

At one point in the night, me,Emma and another female friend ( let's call her Sally) are chatting about how great my experience in Germany was and started talking about the dating scenery in there and then I asked them how's their dating life going which I assumed was great because why wouldn't it be ? Wrong, aside from a few hook ups, these girls claimed that the only men they met were not up to their standards.

Sally told me the story of a guy she knows from way back in High School that drove 3 hours from his place and took her for a nice vacation for 3 nights in a 4 star hotel. In the last night, he went for the kiss and got denied. He texted her the next day apologizing and they are back on "good terms". I couldn't fathom the idea that a guy could do this for a girl no matter how bad he wants her, let alone Sally who's an average girl by every standard.

My story with Emma is a long one, but basically I don't find her very attractive because of the fact that she acts needy af around me and wants commitment which I am not willing to give at this period of my life and that's a turn off. She's been almost begging me to date her which I didn't do but we are still on good terms. Anyway, she too has a beta who is willing to go to the lowest of lows to get ....nothing in the end. The guy who asked her out and was denied still likes and comments every one of here Instagram pics and was even doing her groceries at one point in time, while I tease her and are playful with her every time we see eachother. Today, she went and grabbed my ass out of the blue to see if I am "training that part of my body", I slapped her hand (gently) and told her here's how it's done while slapping her both her ass cheeks. It kind of makes me feel bad for that guy honestly.

All of this to tell you guys, to never ever ever exchange your dignity for pussy because you are the one losing out on that deal and you won't get anything in return. Also never pay for a date, at most split the bill in half. I've always done it and it works just fine if she's into you and you maintain your frame.