My first post is required reading for this. That’s the ‘Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategy’.

Edit: too many people are getting hung up on my use of Beta. That's why I said my first post is required reading.

I want to start off by returning to the point that men who understand female sexuality through a Beta Prism work under the assumption that Beta Game works as a means for attaining sexual access. It works, kind of. Women have a sexuality tied to their comfort and security being served, but it’s about getting them in the mood for starfish sex. This is how most women even understand their own sexuality. It’s why they give such bad advice to men about working on their Beta Game. Wives say the same to their husbands. We know here, of course, it’s not the same sexual access as what Alpha Game gets. The result is a common misconception here I mentioned in the beginning of my First Post that Beta is bad. Beta isn’t bad, it’s still important. Beta Game is for yourself and building a rapport with other men.

Beta Game relates mostly to your own personal development and self-actualization. That’s what it means to be in your own mental point of origin - to be on your square – to be chasing excellence. These phrases you hear in the manosphere are about doing what’s right for you. You are doing this for you. You pursue Beta Game for your own purposes so you are happier with yourself as a person and with your own accomplishments. So at the end of each day you can sit down and relax and know you're on the right path. The reason for studying in college, attaining that status job, getting money, doing good deeds and being helpful, is because it makes you happier about yourself, you can own nice shit if you want it, and you can have a positive role in whatever little community or hobby/interest group you're involved in. Most people find some reward out of being helpful and kind, it brings a personal satisfaction. Those are the reasons you pursue Beta Game. You do as much of it as you feel you need to.

People get the wrong idea out of the alpha / beta dichotomy and develop an aversion to Beta because the first thing you'll figure out in Redpill Theory is that Beta Game does not get you the sexual access you wanted out of women. You were operating under false assumptions. You will just end up getting used. Becoming strictly Alpha is not your goal though. Only dark triad men can operate naturally in this state because going pure Alpha will make you feel unfulfilled as a man. It’s a shit way to live. You have no incentive to accomplish anything because all those traits assigned to Beta are traits you’ve defined as a weakness. It’s within Beta Game that personal development and accomplishment happens. This makes you more attractive (beta) to women, but women are not the purpose for why you work on Beta. It’s for yourself, and it’s for applying on men (no homo lol).

Beta Game towards men makes allies. It’s because men pigeon hole other men as ally or outsider (anything from neutral to enemy). Beta Game towards men has been perfectly outlined in Dale Carnegie’s book “How to Win Friends and Influence People”. Dale Carnegie created this doctrine from studying hundreds of world history's most successful political and business leaders and how they interacted with others as a norm. The doctrine he outlines is fundamentally about putting yourself in another person’s frame and mental point of origin - the result of this consistently produces new friendships and an exchange in good faith. There’s a key detail in this. He created this doctrine and first published the book back in 1937. Up until this era, all the key leaders in politics and business were men. Dale Carnegie was studying men interacting with men. There were a handful of women but they all operated in a masculine framework to fit into their environment and era. Beta Game between men is a cross-cultural thing. Anyone with familiarity with Islamic or Far Eastern traditional cultures know their reputation for the vast hospitality they subject their guests to, as a foundation for anything social and business related. That's a form of Beta Game. It’s all about building rapport.

Don’t forget, wherever your common space is (ie. work, college, hobby), you want to make friends with dudes. Go shake their hands when you haven’t seen them in a while, be friendly, do some kind gestures, get them talking about their hobbies and interests. Show an interest in them. You’ll build some rapport and they’ll have your back afterwards. When you think about Beta and what Beta Game is for, think about yourself and think about maintaining good friendships. It doesn't get you laid though!