Cheatcode alert: Women are like dogs.

Docbear64 · 2016-12-10T08:51:22+00:00

I think I was 14 when my uncle explained this to my mom and my Aunt - to - be( his eventual wife). It was so outrageously appalling to me that he would say such a thing despite the fact I had seen him with Dimes and attractive women all throughout my teens and childhood. Sure enough now I couldn't disagree if I wanted to .

The point whether you say women are children or women are like dogs is that women need to be lead , they openly express all the time how they want a guy who can make plans for a good date , They ask what to wear , what they should do , etc. Embrace the desire they have to follow and lead them , you may just find you enjoy it after a while.

Heathcliff-- · 2016-12-10T16:15:27+00:00

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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^0.6563

What is this?

CioranVlad · 2016-12-10T10:43:15+00:00

Women act like cats, hard to get, they want to be like cats, doing their own way. Men act like dogs. Every gender, want the oposite. Mens turn into cats. And women actually love it, they are trying to get your atention, and from time to time tou give a little something and they go craxy. On the other hand women want to be dogs, just deprive them of affection, and when you meet then they will be running to you. I curently have a cat, and a kinda LTR with a chick who has 4 cats. I learned a lot about women just by looking and observing my cat. For example, if i don't show her attention at all she will come to me, bite me, anything just to pet her. As soon as i pet her she start purring. Same goes with women. If my gf annoys me i ignore her, and she will come begging to me. But i have to hold me.frame and not fall back into being a BB. C Gentlemen, don't give then almost nothing. Even the smallest things. They will be thrilling for the smallest things.

MattyAnon · 2016-12-10T19:57:55+00:00

(2-negative) treat her harshly and she'll find this as an excuse that "it was you who started it," believe me brothers.

Yes, because negative attention is still attention. You still care. So she manouvres herself out of responsibility. The more you try to make her responsible, the lower your status, the higher her status, and the more she feels that as a superior creature everything must be your fault.

That said next time she treats you like shit, ghost

This is literally the only thing that women respond to. Completely withdrawing both your attention and your presence. Without this option (eg married or cohabiting) your lovelife will be miserable.

throw17453 · 2016-12-10T09:00:10+00:00

I remember making a similar point in the first post I made here, here's the extract:

A couple of times with the guy I’m currently seeing I’ve acted in a way, or said something, that could be taken as disrespectful or a “breaking” of the dynamic. The motivators for me doing so were, a situation i was in the right over, and two, an insecurity over whether i could trust him. His response both times was actually quite brilliant.

Silence

From a frame perspective this was the best response. The outcome both times, was essentially the same. I later apologise to him for my tone, try to very briefly explain the thought process or emotional factors that had led me to act that way, and politely and enthusiastically talk normally. He either accepts or ignores my apology, and then talks as if nothing had happened, or in the case where I was in the right, he briefly apologised and explained too.

But he did so on his own terms, at a time that suits him, when we are back within a dynamic of his choosing and when I was behaving well.

You could also see this from a pavlovian perspective, I’m feeling anxious or confused or some other whimsical emotion often disparaged here, and act out. He removes his presence, and only returns it when I am behaving as he would like. I am then conditioned to not do so again, or be less likely to.

I also ultimately feel more drawn to him and respectful, because our interactions are on his terms, and that kind of independence and control in a guy is very attractive.

That post is old, I was transexual at the time, dating men, and am now living as a guy, but your post reminded me of my own observation.

ChiangRai · 2016-12-10T11:20:11+00:00

I am a little annoyed on that you'd say that about dogs. Rude.

DigitallyDisrupt · 2016-12-10T15:55:46+00:00

Pavlov, Pavlov's dogs, pavlovian

aazav · 2016-12-10T20:53:02+00:00

Pavlovian*.

If you're going to use a term as a reference, learn how to spell it before trying to use it.

ReddittFeist · 2016-12-10T17:51:45+00:00

Actually, one of the most important sayings of all is: "Women are like cats, men are like dogs."

It's great and all to use the metaphor of dog training for building a better girlfriend, but seriously, they really are like cats, with all that that means. AWALT.

Now this doesn't mean one shouldn't train one's GF/wife.

And the single most reliable guide to maintaining relationships I got from some dead bedroom site was: "Reward the good and never reward the bad."

Pavlovian conditioning/operant response training is important, but results require a lot more outcome independance than most guys understand when transitioning from beta to alpha.

But seriously, think about how you raise a devoted cat as opposed to an obedient dog.

Andgelyo · 2016-12-10T19:12:45+00:00

did you mean pavlovian? lmao surprised nobody caught that

KolaDesi · 2016-12-11T16:26:55+00:00

I'm shocked you even got a girl, wow.

I guess you woudn't mind if your girlfriend started to consider you like a dog.

Sweedie · 2016-12-11T01:50:17+00:00

Hi, Sheldon.

"Anyway, lots of similarities between women and dogs. Desired copulation position is another one, among many more." - From what I understand doggy style sex is more popular with men than women. Does this mean men are also dogs?

"...and they never complain." - Yes, because dogs can't speak and haven't developed complex thought processes.

RedPistola · 2016-12-10T17:56:31+00:00

More specifically, you weren't very detailed on how you carried it over to plates.

The_BitterTruth · 2016-12-10T14:43:51+00:00

Title is kind of misleading - otherwise decent post.

CAinCa · 2016-12-10T16:53:47+00:00

OP mentions Pavlov but what you should really look at is behaviorism and applied behavior analysis. JB Watson, and BF Skinner truly figured out how to get people to do what you want (Watson left academia to work in advertising- he basically invented the idea of a 'coffee break'). Look at casinos and how they manipulate schedules of reinforcement and learn the perils of providing non-contingent reinforcement with females. Keep them always working for your attention and the resources you're willing to share.

readgrid · 2016-12-10T21:14:20+00:00

Thats why I cant get rid of one poor woman. I ignore her too much.

lqtys · 2016-12-10T23:00:55+00:00

But ghosting wouldn't be interpreted by her as (2-negative) attention? It's like a punishment you are doing for her, her hamster will interpret it as you are angry at her and thus are ghosting her, and it will reinforce the bad attitude because she knows now that she can hurt you that way.

Title	Cheatcode alert: Women are like dogs.
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Date	December 10, 2016 8:27 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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