This actually is my first FR, everything just went as described in the posts I've been reading on here for quite a bit so I thought this was worth sharing with you guys. I'm still learning so don't hesitate to share some tips.
Set up of the date & frame. Matched that girl on tinder, conversation wasn't even really flowing, still got her number. After a bit of chit-chatting, I told her to meet and have a couple of drinks as well as proposed a place (near to my appartment) and a time. Since I set the date up a couple of days before we met, I avoided texting her too much so I was mostly just asking how she was doing once a day in order to make her feel a lil comfy with me. The day we had agreed to meet, we also texted a bit and I managed to steer the conversation towards something sexual. So far, so good.
First shit test. So she went with it for a bit and then hit me with "what are you looking for on Tinder?". Since I don't know anyone who's looking to join a book club on Tinder (correct me if I'm wrong), I basically just took something sexual we were talking about before and amplified that (told her something like "I'm looking for a girl that will tie me up"). Afterwards, I told her it was actually the first time I was going out on a Tinder date and after having told me a friend of hers set Tinder up for her, I went with that as well, both lies obviously, just wanted her to feel she had something in common with me (necessary, dumb or okay?).
Date. The date itself then actually just flowed. It was really easy maintaining a fairly interesting convo with her, she seemed honestly interested in me, touched me over and over, laughed at my jokes etc. I had picked a place and after 45 minutes to an hour maybe, she wanted to go to some Irish Pub. Since I knew one close by, I went with it and let her have her will. We roughly spent half an hour at the pub, I started making out with her at some point, teasing her a bit more, intensifying kino as well as pushing and pulling a bit.
Last shit test and close. After having finished my beer, I made out with her once more, suddenly stopping after just a bit and telling her I wanted to leave. She then asked where I wanted to go (code for "let's fuck"?), I then told her my place was really close and we could just have a beer there. She just laughed what I took as a yes. My place was probably one minute away and after thirty seconds she hit me with "just because I'm coming to your place doesn't mean I'm gonna sleep with you, you know?". I, in return, asked her who had said anything about sex (read that one on here), obviously that one worked 'cause she didn't come back on the topic. At my place, I pushed and pulled for a bit, intensified making out and finally banged her.
Aftermath. After I had slept with her, she came at me with, supposedly, another shit test asking me if I had known we were gonna have sex when we went up to my appartment and how she actually planned on not having sex before the date. I straight down told her I wasn't gonna answer a question like that.
Learned RP truths/TLDR. I kept texting funny and sexual, set up the time and place of the date, teased her throughout the whole date, slowly escalated involving kino etc. and solved her shit tests (at least I think so). Eventually ended up banging her and most certainly gonna do it again in the not so distant future.
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