Dating and the Alpha Single Dad

beastmoderage · 2015-02-18T01:42:39+00:00

The fastest way to get a "next" from me on any online dating site or app is to not have a profile picture and then play coy about giving me one. It either means the person is in a relationship and doesn't want the SO to know or the person is ugly as hell. I don't want to deal with any of that.

machimus · 2015-02-17T19:08:29+00:00

Nice. Wait...temporary tattoos? Are you fucking kidding me?

MattyAnon · 2015-02-18T15:28:34+00:00

Temporary tattoos = makeup

I'm gonna try this. I wanna see what happens. (Tattoos I mean. I already know what happens when I wear makeup)

rocklion200 · 2015-02-20T00:58:15+00:00

I think I'll just keep rocking my real tattoos.

Ex-AlodianKnight · 2015-02-17T18:07:54+00:00

This is actually helpful. My current profile on a dating site have photos of me in selfies.

When I posted a picture of myself on my motorcycle, there were responses from girls.

Posting moments help and I'll keep that in mind.

williamwilliam2 · 2015-02-17T20:15:58+00:00

Nice, but balance online with day game.

Don't assume young hotties won't party with someone their daddies age. They fantasize about landing their 'professor', 'the ceo', the 'club owner', etc, etc.

tombreck2 · 2015-02-17T17:47:23+00:00

online Alpha game

Men do online dating because it's easier and a shortcut to talking to women compared to doing approaches. There is nothing alpha about it.

Ovadox · 2015-02-18T00:10:02+00:00

Thanks for posting. There is some good info in here.

colombianguy · 2015-02-18T02:33:01+00:00

Great post, man. It was detailed but not longwinded, and included field reporting, analysis, lessons learned, and recommendations/tips.

Make sure you are always dating at least 2 women. If you are dating one, and she starts using mood weapons, sad clown tactics because you aren’t spending enough time with her, you will have scarcity mentality and fall for it. It’s a trap. Odds are she is dating a guy or two on the side anyway.

This point seems so obvious now but in hindsight I used to believe that to do this was dishonorable, and that women believed as I did. In my more naive and idealistic days, I used to believe that whenever you got involved with someone, there was an unspoken understanding of exclusivity, of not active or passively getting involved with anyone else while we went out during the "courting" phase. In my mid-twenties I learned that I could not have been more wrong. Girls/women juggled multiple men and dates with them until finally choosing to go exclusive with one, and often they did it so well that I always believed I was the only one they were being intimate with. So, yeah, nowadays, I'm always juggling at least two women, usually a new one I'm going out with as well as a returning FWB, to avoid oneitis and because they're also doing the same thing as I am.

TrenAcetate · 2015-02-17T22:37:54+00:00

LMAO at temporary tattoos, you have to be fucking kidding me.

Upvote_To_The_Left · 2015-02-17T22:36:27+00:00

man, I cant help but voice my disapproval of fake tattoos. Granted I am but a stranger online but fake tattoos are not cool. seriously, you're cooler without them at the very least.

I have a bunch of them, so I would recommend either dont get them, or dive in and get something small and see how it feels on you. Get your kids initials written, or a small object that you identify with,. I have a guitars pick, and bird, and flowers on my arms.

Trust me on this dude. fake tattoos are lame. you're better off getting a stylist haircut, killer mustache, and a slick fitting sports jacket with some cool subtle shoes.

when I think older dad cool-as-fuck dude, I picture Scott Holiday from Rival Sons. He's a dad in his early 40s

http://thumb7.shutterstock.com/display_pic_with_logo/91466/153602705/stock-photo-lincoln-ca-september-scott-holiday-of-rival-sons-performs-in-support-of-sammy-hagar-s-forty-153602705.jpg

http://bluesrockreview.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/holidayrivalsons-300x200.jpg

Title	Dating and the Alpha Single Dad
Author	Spyderla
Upvotes	39
Comments	71
Date	February 17, 2015 4:26 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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