I always believed in my opinion developing your body(physique/health) is the key to opening doors in your life. But I am curious as to what is the best plan of action for each person to achieve optimal fitness. I myself have never really been bulky. I have a short compact frame, think like attacking soccer player type(5'8" 145-150, visible abs, and leg muscles) but not the showy muscles like back and biceps. I have felt a bit of ridicule for this by peers as people often judge you off the frame you give off with showy muscles. Because of this I worked more on game, and talking girls up, but still most want you to just be a Johnny Bravo Looking ass boy. But personally I feel good doing cold showers, eating healthy, and working on tone rather than size. I go to the gym but the idea of becoming a meathead seems stupid and if the only reason is for respect(or fear) why not gain that the right way with your health and activities. I got no hate for people who make gains and get swole, I just don't think that every guy should strive for this. Am I missing out or focusing on something useless?