Another person is hard to hear: Low SMV leans in. High SMV leans back while using face to communicate he doesn't hear. Other person attempts a joke or insult at his expense: Low SMV tries to respond or defend himself and High SMV smiles in a bored way, ignores the remark, or shrugs and turns his attention elsewhere or deflects the shit test. In Conversation: Low SMV uses long verbose stories and statements while high SMV speaks speaks concise and to the point. In movement/ positioning: Low SMV moves around a lot, fidgets, remains in uncomfortable positions (more effort) High SMV relaxes and gets himself into the most comfortable position.

Eye contact: Checks others and environment constantly, hoping for eye contact and seeking a reaction (more effort) High SMV is often lost in their own world or otherwise is focused intently upon the person he's speaking with and ignoring all else or seeming to be.

Attention: Low SMV seeks others attention while High SMV is good at effortlessly commanding it and having others fight for his. (less effort) Girl asks question: Low SMV answers question satisfactorily. High SMV manuevers around the question like a politician, asks a question back or deflects it.

On a topic: Low SMV tells everything he has to tell or gives a full back story with nothing left to the imagination. High SMV tells a story mentions some things in passing and leaves others hinted at but not fully fleshed out to activate the hamster.

On relationships: Low SMV makes his relationships crystal clear while high SMV is vague and non-committal about relationship status with the frequent use of "girl" and "girlfriend" in a somewhat ambiguous way. In a relationship, he has his own life and his partner is along for the ride.

Tips: *Tease *Get small investment- Ask her to move with you to a different spot etc. *Use interesting words *Wear smaller clothing and wear interesting accessories. Don't make your outfit loud though you could but it must stand out. *Ask her questions and don't talk too much about yourself. *Push-pull *Chase framing: subtly frame her chasing you. Girl: "I really like your eyes". Guy: "Thank you. I hope you're not trying to get in my pants...(smile and wink). Change the subject before there's a protest or play with it. *Get in a positive mood. Conversation topics for women: *Emotion *Drama and fighting *Relationships *Danger *Excitement *Predictions, destiny and coincidences *Adventure and the Exotic.

Give Social Value: “Here are some relatively universal traits of an attractive man.

*Pre-Selection – a man is desired by other women *Social Proof – he is sociable and draws people and friends to him and around him *Protector – he has the ability and inclination to protect those around him *Social Grace – he holds his own in social situations and gets what he wants *Resourceful – he has exclusive knowledge and resources *Witty – he’s able to make clever remarks without being goofy or over-the-top *Fashionable – he dresses attractively *Confident – he’s self-assured and knows he’ll get what he wants *Successful – he’s staked his place in life and has achievements *Comfortable – he’s relaxed and in control of the situation around him *Effortless – he seems to get what he wants with a minimum amount of effort.” *Provide positive emotions, be warm and sexual, be busy, be picky or seem to be, he dates around or gets seen with lots of female friends. *Passionate, spontaneous, adventurous. *be in the goldilocks zone of attainability: make them fight for it but not so much they give up. *be edgy and aggressive. *Be irrationally self-confident.

*independence in thought, will, values and action. * attractive male physique.