I'm in TRP for myself. For self-improvement. I love making progress, physically, mentally, intellectually, socially, I love developing myself as a human being and when I don't I get clinically depressed.

So what if I don't WANT the hottie. What if I simply want to fuck as many chicks as possible -- build an arsenal of girls who crave my dick, my own set of "orbiters"?

I can't. Well -- technically I can, but I can't without consequences. When a woman has a whole arsenal of orbiters to fulfill her desire (commitment), that's fine. Society won't judge her. Society won't feel any remorse for the beta orbiters that have to tug one out at night.

But when a guy has an arsenal of orbiters to fulfill his desires (sex), suddenly he gets labels. Playah! Douche! Asshole!

That doesn't seem fair.