Eat, Prey, Love

BudapestPUA · 2015-06-26T00:15:19+00:00

Don't forget to click the last link.

el_nikon · 2015-06-26T00:24:44+00:00

This is the first time I felt the need for a spoiler tag.

Possible spoilers below.

I love the comments in the NYT article.

You have the predictable people defending the NYT article author. However, as of this time, the most upvoted comments are:

cboy nyc 1 day ago

Normally the mere mention of this writer's name is enough to send me fleeing in the opposite direction, but I figured I'd give this short piece a try. I guess I am left wondering why someone thought this solipsistic drivel merited publication in a national newspaper.

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huh Upstate NY 1 day ago

And this woman is a guru of sorts to millions of women? Featured on Oprah and subsequently a best-selling author as I recall. Not much to look up to here, particularly as she's recounting events that happened decades ago.

What has she learned lately? She still seems needy; seeking approval is paramount. Only this time it's by potential buyers of her next book. Seducing still.

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Nice Marmot Seattle 1 day ago

If a man had written this, wouldn't we call him a sociopath?

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Black-Pill · 2015-06-26T00:44:35+00:00

A decidedly thoughtful, incisive (and devious) script flip Rollo .... I will be curious to see who and how many get the conundrum and the actual gist of this post

Relevantex · 2015-06-26T15:45:56+00:00

There's so much we can take away from this it's mind-boggling.

Open Hypergamy. This article is in a major news publication where we can see her natural dualistic sexuality in full effect - with one of the most popular authors amongst women. If anyone is still refusing to swallow the red pill - society is figuratively shoving it down your throat at this point.
Power - not Equality. A famous woman can write a story about the dozens and dozens of relationships she's ruined and people she's hurt - and be considered brave, honest, and have it all considered a part of personal growth - by both men and women today. A man writing the same story? I'm sure in the comments there would be a petition for his castration - signed by both men and women today.
Female Nature. Feminism has completely opened the door for women to flaunt their psychology and true nature in the face of men. The solipsism, opportunism, preselection of the males she wants, the frivolous version of female love, feels before reals, etc. etc. ad nauseam and it's all laid bare before our very eyes.

Two years ago an article would have made me nauseous in disbelief. Now - it's more like a jaded disappointment knowing that this is the rule rather than the exception: AWALT.

suloco · 2015-06-26T07:17:51+00:00

That was fucking great. I won't spoil anything but make sure to click the link in the last sentence.

Anyone can be a whore. I had a player friend during high school and honestly, this guy was the slut-pleaser. Would collect them all. But he never earned respect among his bros (other than players) for being of what he called 'fluid character'.

RedPillDad · 2015-06-26T04:21:02+00:00

Reminds of a guy I used to work with at a hospital. He would keep going after the married chicks, pulling them into all-consuming romances that would leave their marriages in tatters.

The guy was good looking and the women were dogs. It was pathetic.

I called him Desperado, like the Eagles' song, because he only wanted the ones he couldn't get.

It really pissed him off when I explained the only reason he was chasing these uglies is because they were taken and that romance thrives on obstacles. He denied it with some "I'm really in love" BS.

But soon after, he finally came back to his senses, cleaned up his act, and thanked me for helping him see the truth.

Romantic love is an addictive drug. Stay away from that shit.

NeoreactionSafe · 2015-06-26T01:00:26+00:00

There are two mindsets:

Lust ----- Chaos ----- Romance

Love ----- Power ----- Order

This guy was clearly in the first group.

Seduction is the art of coercing somebody to desire you; playing on someone else’s longings to suit your own agenda. Seduction was never a casual sport for me; it was more like a heist, adrenalizing and urgent. I would plan the seduction for months sometimes, picking the target, looking for openings. Then I would break into her deepest vault, steal all her emotional currency and use it myself.

Seduction creates Chaos in the mind of the target.

Example: Eve was seduced to eat the Apple.

Both men and women are vulnerable to Chaos (Romance) but it is actually Beta males who are the most easily seduced. To seduce women is a skill and actually rare in men.

Civilization is when the second group oppresses the first group. (Order over Chaos)

Degeneracy is when the first group dominates the second. (Chaos over Order)

Open Hypergamy is pure Chaos.

It's usually the women inflicting this upon the men, so it's interesting to see the tables turned in this guys case.

The lessoned learned is that the Chaos group never creates a situation that permits Love.

Betas never permit Love, Seducers never permit Love, Sluts never permit Love. (all Chaos types)

Love and Power are directly related as you cannot maintain Love within Chaos.

Order never exists in the vacuum of Chaos, so Power is necessary to guarantee a place for Love.

Update: I finally read the last link to learn it was a woman who did this, not a man.

Funny how what I wrote was correct. (like I could sense the feminine skill)

Women are Chaos, Men are (ideally) Order... since the dawn of time this has been true.

redpillbanana · 2015-06-26T16:02:25+00:00

SPOILERS below:

I don't consider myself especially prescient but I somehow knew that the genders have been switched. Maybe it is a sign that I've been on TRP for too long, but while I was reading the story, I visualized a woman being the serial relationship-destroyer.

james-watson · 2015-06-26T17:47:42+00:00

Rollo, when are you gonna start banning the trolls on your comments section? I read a few comments and there's a chick completely derailing all discussion by drawing attention to herself. You and the rest of the commentators continue to pile attention onto her.

There's a reason Roosh bans females posts. They contribute nothing, and just troll for attention.

full_package · 2015-06-26T13:04:02+00:00

Sorry, but no, I figured what it is from the first sentences. I wasn't fully certain, since it wasn't a word for word flip, but a man can't write bullshit like that.

eatingonthetoilet · 2015-06-26T21:26:23+00:00

All's fair, the only rule is to not be a chump.

AureliusThunderkok · 2015-06-25T23:35:57+00:00

It seems to run counter to the "sexual strategy is amoral" thesis does it not?

Example: it just made me a needy coward

thick_knees · 2015-06-26T16:57:19+00:00

at first I was like who is this tool? Addicted to seduction? What bullshit is that? Most of us go through all this effort to fuck as many wet holes as possible. The seduction is the boring, painful part before the prize and not the prize itself. God this fucking guy really pissed me off. Why is he trying to justify his need for pussy by putting in all this fluffy bullshit in between? And finally, therapist? To find himself? Are you fucking kidding me? Is this what some men have become reduced to? Then i realised it's a role reversal and I was like ahhhh ok

the99percent1 · 2015-06-26T01:13:57+00:00

I don't get this post from you, Rollo..

Sexual strategy is amoral. More power to him for deciphering the code that unlocks women truest desires.

Since he was a natural, he never understood the underlying principles and subsequently fell for the counseling and guilt inducing act of our BP world that we live in.

Is there a moral to this story? Are there any lessons to be learnt? Can you really blame the author for being amoral and unethical? Nope.

Title	Eat, Prey, Love
Author	Rollo-Tomassi
Upvotes	117
Comments	31
Date	June 25, 2015 11:27 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3b4r3u/eat_prey_love/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/eat-prey-love.34084 https://theredarchive.com/post/34084

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