Email from my ex

Retspihi · 2016-12-04T23:49:49+00:00

LMAO she wants closure. Do not

DO

NOT

REPLY

This is so insanely manipulative it's disgusting. You left this woman because she's disrespectful and likely was a cheater. This is her attempt at closure and getting you to crawl back.

If you do decide to reply. Send a pic of you and a new woman.

Edit: if the bitch cared an ounce about you and the relationship, the exes would've been cut off the instant you brought it up.

RedBomba · 2016-12-05T00:28:53+00:00

On top of the disgustingly manipulative suicide threat that others have mentioned...

Notice she says nothing about doing what you asked, or about doing anything that would make her worthwhile to you. That right there is the clearest indicator that all she wants is closure, which for her would become a way to justify her behavior to herself, and make you into the bad guy. Do. Not. Reply.

ImTheMVPBRAH · 2016-12-04T23:59:57+00:00

Why do you care if it’s from a month ago? She’s obviously one of the crazy ones trying to manipulate you by saying she’s going to kill herself.

Pity the man who ends up marrying her and move on to new bitches.

Edit: I would’ve called the cops on her, not because I’d think she’d actually do it, but the cops surely would after reading that shit.

rp_southsider · 2016-12-05T03:09:49+00:00

Crazy manipulative bitch. Run as fast as you can. There are shades of BPD in this letter, read some of the horror stories about BPD women on this sub and learn from them.

GeorgeBushIV · 2016-12-05T00:31:06+00:00

damn she sounds nuts. nice job not replying, id keep it that way

NightwingTRP · 2016-12-05T14:38:25+00:00

This belongs on AskTRP. I'm going to leave a reply but you need to learn to follow the rules around here. You're fortunate I'm in a good mood, any hardass or guy in a bad mood would not tolerate your not following basic rules, so get yourself in shape and follow the rules. If everyone acted like you this place would be a total mess.

A significant part of me wants to die because I don't want to feel the way that I do now ever again, and for the past 2 weeks I have felt like this is the only way to prove to you how much you meant to me because if I died now then I'd die as I am, as the girl who loves you now and for eternity, time wouldn't exist anymore and it'll mean something.

This doesn't even mean anything. It's purest emotional manipulation bollocks... and this chick isn't very good at emotional manipulation. She wants attention. Don't give it to her. Ignore the entire thing.

Why the fuck do you care about some chick you dropped months ago? She was being melodramatic and hinting at suicide to try and emotionally manipulate you to go back to her. MASSIVE red flag. Very low value chick. Move the fuck on with your life. And delete this stupid fucking email.

BluestBlackBalls · 2016-12-05T08:55:00+00:00

Brah, she threatened suicide.

Like come on!!!

Edit:

U r responsible for feels
She feels like killing her self
Therefore you are responsible for her (possible) suicide

Luce_Bree · 2016-12-05T03:24:11+00:00

Self-involved, unstable, attention-seeking, manipulative cunt.

Stop dwelling on what's going on in her mind, or what her intentions are--stop trying to understand her. You won't. Even if you did, it's not like you could readily apply that knowledge to every woman that you meet.

You already dodged a bullet, now move on until you're completely out of the line of fire. Stay away from her.

harkrank · 2016-12-05T17:02:48+00:00

So since it's been a month and she's still alive, this advice doesn't apply to you OP, but I wan't to give it to other men who might be reading.

Threatening suicide after a break-up is quite common with girls. Don't even think for a minute that you're such a special man that a woman would kill herself for you. If you were such an incredible guy, why would she have acted the way she acted leading up to the break-up? This is one of the most classic, most ridiculous and most pure female manipulation tricks.

Here's how you deal with it. Call the police in her city and tell them you're concerned about a friend who is threatening suicide and ask them to go check up on her. You can make an anonymous phone call. Then tell her you've called the police and they're on their way to help her.

goldnhorde · 2016-12-05T17:53:41+00:00

My vote for Do not reply.

Either she is serious ... in which case no response you give her will help.

Or this is a manipulation ... in which case, she is almost as mentally damaged to use this as a manipulation and any response you give her will not help.

SComm · 2016-12-05T19:07:52+00:00

You have to assume that every girl is taking to at least 5 guys behind your back, and if she admits to 5 than it's 10. They will never love you as much as they love attention & validation.

ecosci · 2016-12-06T22:32:32+00:00

Just in case chad bumps and dumps she wants to see if your gonna be her back up beta bux by manipulation your emotions dont fall for this bitch trap.

Ledhabel · 2016-12-05T02:39:08+00:00

Talk to her. Don't give her false hope; just do. Not for her sake, but for the sake of her family who'll be hurt when and if she kills her self.

If she's just hamstering, and looking for attention, then fuck it, you still did the right thing, and you have nothing to lose.

MarauderFH · 2016-12-05T21:51:45+00:00

Dated a girl like this. She was a serial cheater. Manipulative. Controlling. Codependent. Slept with my best friend and God knows who else. The suicide shit is on her. Not you. Don't let her manipulate you.

I don't see her offering to ditch her exes anywhere. Odds are you were cheated on too. Use that as fuel to burn this email and never look back.

I fear for the poor dude who marries this girl.

All-Things-Geek · 2016-12-05T07:31:36+00:00

It's fair to have boundaries, and you are under no obligation to take her back at all...but I don't think being cruel is the right thing to do.

tarajay_89 · 2016-12-06T22:32:22+00:00

I know this sub hates the whole 'as a woman' line, but as a woman my advice is run, and don't look back. I guarantee you this email has been sent to every guy who had ever broken up with her. She's 'in love' with the drama, not with you.

TACTICALBLONDEBIMBO · 2016-12-05T03:44:39+00:00

If anything I would try and fuck her OP and leave it at that. Everyone has issues but I dont think you want to ever be in a relationship with a girl like that ever again. Some girls have serious fucking issues, and I mean serious fucking issues. Like the girl hoping you get her pregnant a few times so you can never leave her type issues. If you ever around a girl and her friends when they really talk and are vulnerable and drunk. Some of the stuff these girls say makes me really wonder what in the actual fuck is going on. I heard this girl and her mom talking about this sucker ass mother fucker she I guess wants to fuck or be her boyfriend. Ay dio mios bro. Basically her mom was like do you want him to fall in love with you?

Title	Email from my ex
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	53
Date	December 4, 2016 11:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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