It's been 6 months since I've swallowed to pill. I never expected this. After 2 months, I was making double what I was and had a girl invite herself to my place and ask to become my fuckbuddy. I am 27 and had never realized my potential. Neither have you.

If you are just starting out, or if you are having trouble committing, this post is for you. I am still not where I want to be, but I am so much happier than before. I am going to share with you the things that have changed about my life. But mostly, I am going to share how people treat me now vs how they used to treat me.

People used to be polite to me. They would make some small talk and then leave. Now they respond with a warm welcome, and tell me something that happened to them recently. They also are interested in what I'm doing. Sometimes they seek me out to talk to me. It's a really weird thing to get used to.

People used to forget to invite me to things. It would really upset me that every single person from work was at a party but myself. I figured they must hate me. Now people invite me to things, and make sure to mention that people I don't like are not invited.

People used to make fun of me or put me down in front of the group for social points. Now they tease me (important to know the difference here) and smile when I tease them back.

People used to tell me to do things for them. Now they go out of their way to make sure I am comfortable.

When I did not have success, people did not care about my goals. Now people try to help me achieve them without me asking them to.

When I had little money, nobody cared. Now that people see my income expanding, they are doing their best to get me more clients and more money.

Woman used to ignore me (unless they had just met me and not seen my poor behavior yet.) Now they fight for my attention and sometimes speak over eachother.

There are two things at play here. One: People lack empathy for those at the bottom. They are far more likely to care about or feel sympathy for someone they think of as high status. It makes sense on an evolutionary scale. Those that already had resources were more likely to survive, so they got more resources given to them. With limited supplies, humans could not afford to prop up a male who could not provide for a family or offer something valuable to the society.

And two: People will do anything for someone that makes them feel happy, confident, safe or secure. By becoming an alpha male, you offer your protection, your humor, your wit, your intelligence, your insight, and your resources. You portion them out to those who you like.

Living like this is so much better. You may not be capable of becoming a millionaire or having a different woman each night, but common, you can get people to treat you right. You can walk into a room and feel like you own it. You can look at the perfect 10 and hold eye contact and smile without the slightest sense of fear. You can walk down the street and have people move out of your way. You can go into work and have the woman smile and make eyes and the men nod their heads or shake your hand. You can be the man you were meant to be.