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Fairly Redpill Article: 101 Things I Will Teach My Son (Because I Want Him To Be A Man And Not A Pansy)

Hlewagastiz

April 10, 2014
151 upvotes
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Title Fairly Redpill Article: 101 Things I Will Teach My Son (Because I Want Him To Be A Man And Not A Pansy)
Author

Hlewagastiz

Upvotes 151
Comments 31
Date April 10, 2014 10:37 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
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Comments

[–]epic_pig 38 points39 points40 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Alternative title: 101 things my father didn't teach me.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 23 points24 points25 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Indeed. It's no secret or surprise that nearly all of the men who frequent this subreddit had an absentee father (either physically absent or absent in spirit).

The Red Pill community and the Manosphere is like a crowd-source solution to fatherlessness. Here, we take turns providing fatherly insight, and rediscovering the secrets of real masculinity.

That's why newbies should never feel ashamed to ask questions here, and also why veterans would do well to have patience. We all began as welps.

[–]mccdizzie 17 points18 points19 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is my true RP pickle--one one hand the get huge fuck bitches get money track is awesome and I love bachelordom and serial womanizerdom but...part of me fuckin demands to find that unicorn, tie the knot, and be the father I wish I had. Nothing really against my dad, just we have had...philosophical differences since like age five and I feel I've been taking notes for my son for the longest time. I don't know. Marriage is a gamble and women are fickle but the call of fatherhood is strong.

[–]Condorman80 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

LOL, right there with you brother.

[–]ThisShitRules 15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Having to rely on substances to feel good is a weakness.

This one's gold.

[–]Bro-ku 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If only my father had taught me that before I left for college... it's a miracle I graduated.

To bad he doesn't even know it himself.

[–]FinalEquin0x 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Some high quality stuff in there. A very good basic outline of RP actually (leaning away from the PUA side of things)

[–]musicvita25 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think TRP exists purely as our fathers were blue pill as shit.

Mine is, its why he clashes. Claims he "doesn't know me" then gets all giddy when he see's me flirt with a girl and succeed.

Sidenote - 36. Respect your elders.

What if they are a fucking mess? Dont agree with that.

[–]mccdizzie 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Be polite, be professional, and have a plan to ignore everything they say.

[–]newpopehere1 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I dont agree with

  1. A good woman can heal your deepest battle wounds.

  2. Rest your head on the bosom of a woman you love after a tough day.

[–]Prattler26 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

The most painful aspect of the red pill. That's why people refuse to take it, they keep clinging to these.

Perhaps something like this is true:

  1. A good woman can help you while you yourself heal your deepest battle wounds.

  2. After you've given her multiple orgasms, enjoy what you've earned - rest your head on the bosom of a woman you love - but not for too long!

[–]TRP Vanguardss_camaro 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

  1. Marry a good woman (they’re rare but they do exist).

There's NAWALT stuck down at 45. Nope.

[–]TRP VanguardCyralea 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

A better version would be, "If you must marry, make sure she is a good woman. You will likely fail to find her, so keep your standards very high"

[–]TRP Vanguardss_camaro 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Do not marry, AWALT" is the post-1975 version.

[–]Desteroy 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There's 102 things 21 is repeated

[–]Toof 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

9 is repeated, too

[–]TRP VanguardCyralea 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

These two are my personal favourite. They are the hallmark of a strong man.

  1. If you’re not good at something, accept the fact and don’t blame others.

  2. If a bigger man knocks you down, get back up and work on improving yourself.

You're never going to be #1 at most things, accept it, and learn from those who rank higher. You will climb faster than those who wallow in their inferiority.

There is another one I caution against:

  1. Help those weaker than yourself help themselves to become stronger.

Do this from a place of strength. If you have accumulated wealth, use it to better those closest to you. Until that point, don't waste your resources. Resources beget more resources, you need to work on building your empire first. Don't waste what little you have.

[–]vpwnz 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't know if a N things X will Y a Z is a good thing to post.

Don't get me wrong, I don't mean that it's a bad thing to post to this sub, I just mean that it's a bad thing to post anywhere, assuming you want to create a community where submissions matter.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Realise that you don’t deserve anything by virtue of existing.

This was my favorite.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Ethan47 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

try harder

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

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[–]sweetleef 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Trolling.

[–]Hardparty 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

not being a faggot that's what

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Hardparty 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

enlighten us O' laureate of cum

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

lmao

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh look, here's the troll for the thread.

[–]pralinematchbox -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucking beautiful, turned my day around. Motivation is what this is

[–]sniperhiding -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

  1. Never settle settle for second place.

Also known as.... Don't be a beta bux backup plan.

[–]mescalinejasp -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good list, but most of these 'things' can be boiled down to one statement.

'Build High Self Esteem' - that's going to be the greatest gift that I give my boy.

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