Ok, got a question for you guys -

Lately I've been less interested in sex and more interested in conversation. Many of you have just stopped reading. Keep reading lol.

Anyway to continue - I had this girlfriend recently that was an all you can fuck buffet. It was too much tho. She wanted sex more than I did. And it was really weird. So at some point, I lost interest, and dumped her because I wanted to talk/flirt with other girls.

In my frame of mind, I've had very little desire for sex/hookups, etc and more desire for building relationships with multiple girls at a time. They're all kind of like 1-on-1 friendships in an early phase. They're sort of... roasting, slow-cooking.

Now here's the thing. Most of these girls probably take me as a beta because I am into talking about stuff. I like doing that. It makes it easier to converse with other girls and possibly set up other good situations. I like to build them up to a certain degree as well. It just feels good to do that.

Sometimes I think they take this as beta behavior because DHV's will sometimes occur after I talk good stuff to them. Many of the relational manipulation tactics that follow are recognizable and easy to dismantle.

So when their tactics don't work, what occurs next? At that point, this puts me in a place of having the upper hand. I like to make love passionately, and am wondering if attraction on their end does/can still occur if they are seeing consistent alpha behavior even though "false beta" behavior was previously displayed. This is kind of a fine-tuning thing that I'm trying to get down. I wanna get that mix of primal sexual attraction and relational emotion just right.

I do this because to me, quality is way more important than quantity (although I've got about 10-15 on the line) and I like the slow-rolling component.

I basically got bored of being alpha all the time because it only led to primal sexual attraction (which was cool, but too front-loaded with low-quality sex for me after a while). I like doing shit like writing and talking and sharing conversation. I've been having great conversations with the girls I talk to. And I want relationships where both of these things can intertwine.