So I have been thinking about projection lately, and mainly how woman project their feelings on men and I was just looking to the RP's thoughts on this.
On Cheating
Before I knew about TRP, I would often ask woman if they were ever cheated on, would they rather the other woman be uglier or more beautiful than them. All of them said uglier. This struck me as odd because I asked my friends the same question (would you rather the guy be better looking/more attractive) and they all said if they had to choose they would prefer that the other guy be more attractive. Their logic being , that it would make more sense to them if the guy was a better option, but that they would be more pissed if the guy was uglier/less attractive. I shared the same mentality. If the guy is just flat out better than you, then it makes sense.
Then I found out about hypergamy.
Now those answers made more sense. Woman often fly off the handle with cheating because they project their reasons for cheating on men. In order for a woman to sleep with a man, she has to want the other person, and in order for her to want that other person there has to be an attraction there. She has to feel that the other guy is better than her current man in some way, otherwise it wouldn't be worth it. Thats why the other guy is (usually) either; more attractive, better in bed, making more money, or more successful. Something, anything, because of that certain threshold of attraction she has to have in order to sleep with someone.
What they don't understand is that we don't have the same threshold in order to get our noodle wet. We will fornicate with uglier and fatter chicks if it means getting action (See all of Tiger Woods' mistresses, Monica Lewinsky, AHHnold's maid, Your father/uncle/brother's side chick). Thats why they are plates because they don't have what it takes to be main chicks.
It is this difference that makes me believe that female cheating is worse. There is never just sex in a woman's mind, she most likely feels that it can go further and it usually does.
Woman however don't see that, from what I can tell it seems that they ASSUME that the other woman is better in some way (because of her own hypergamy) and it makes her go crazy to think you're with someone better than her. Which is why she is relieved when you are cheating with someone uglier, it validates her and makes her feel better about herself, and makes you look like the "fool" (See Jesse James).
I'm probably just rehashing stuff that has already been said here, but this has been swimming in my head for a while and needed to write it out.
TL;DR Wimminz mad at you for getting some box because it implies upgrading (DEM HYPERGUMMIES).
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