Finding good attributes in women

MattyAnon · 2017-04-02T00:52:47+00:00

They simply have a different sexual strategy than us in a culture that protects them to the utmost and tells them they are victims.

It's also deeply exploitative of us, and fundamentally dishonest.

And let's face it if women could have a logic based philosophy like ours they could rip us apart as well for our sexual strategy.

Yes, damned men for having mutually satisfactory sex with women and then settling down to support them for life in a loving relationship that we pour heart and soul into... damn us and our evil strategy! If only they knew!

nicetimeisback · 2017-04-02T11:49:52+00:00

The only good attributes i can see is their body

-uftw- · 2017-04-02T12:30:32+00:00

Some of them are so fucking hot
Some of them indulge me in my twisted sexual perversions

When a girl has both, fireworks!

88Will88 · 2017-04-02T11:51:14+00:00

You are a fucking troll, you got called out on MRP and here you are on TRP. You are as blue pill as they come. This is a shitpost. u/MattyAnon is spelling shit out for you and your comments reek of whiteknighting. Just fuck off to TBP or relationships or wherever else you want to pedal your christian morality. Fucking bitch, you do not belong here.

WolfenSnappingTurtle · 2017-04-02T01:04:05+00:00

If you are a high value man, there is much to enjoy. If you are low or no value, like me, then there ain't shit to enjoy but to be happy that life will end one day.

KennyF91 · 2017-04-02T13:00:01+00:00

Makes sure she does not frustrate you too much. If she is a 7 blowing you off as if she is a 10 and has no legitimate excuses, don't make her a priority continue to spin plates until either you conveniently link up or find someone else.

I game 3 girls per class and let it be known someone by blatantly flirting plans giving rides home to each to push them to be jealous. I'll charge for gas if I doubt they like me, or show inconsistencies but I'll balance off slightly by getting them a cheap value meal. I doubt they'll admit they paid me for gas because they aren't friends nor do I care because if Im not getting sex, they're getting bashed in by someone who isn't me.

I make it further than most guys by their own admittance but due to spinning plates, I still get sex so I never get angry or frustrated because the girls are slow or inconstant but from my perspective I've made it pretty far in my month, after 3 months I'll drop em anyway so there is that.

Moral don't over invest, especially if you won't get a return on investment. Have 3 7.5s and bang one or two in a 3 month span then fixate on a 9 who is always busy but she's slurping someone up because she's mad her other plate is chasing girls

TheLaughingRhino · 2017-04-02T07:20:01+00:00

Best way I've found to see women in "context" is to have specific fun activities in your life.

For example, rock climbing or dancing or hiking, something where you can participate as a group, the focus is not on each other, but a specific goal or destination and shared attrition/work bonds the group together.

It often deescalates the "sex" angle a bit and just allows you to see people in all kinds of circumstances. People you might not meet or talk to otherwise.

Context is a huge thing when interacting with people. The person or woman you can get along with because you both are in the same rock climbing group might be a person you would want to punch in the face if you worked with her, or if she was the GF of your buddy, or you knew her as a neighbor, etc, etc. I mean she might go home and treat her husband like complete shit, but the social context means she might actually be tolerable to you. ( i.e you can be a girl slut or a guy douchebag or anything really, and still have one or two good qualities in you)

Statistically, studies say couples who go to church together are more likely to stay married. I'm sure there are all kinds of offshoots to that, and I'm not trying to push a religious discussion here, but maybe taking the focus and shifting it elsewhere is simply good for a relationship.

Something Rollo said once, that I think helps, is guys who naturally keep women off balance tend to have more even experiences with them. I can't speak for anyone else, but sometimes I can be a truly moody hard edge person. Being moody sort of keeps women on an uneven keel around me, which I think helps the push/pull where some are never quite so comfortable as to keep pushing to see how much they can get out of the situation. While it would seem counter-intuitive in some ways, if a woman has seen you commit an act of violence, it's almost like a calming effect for them. I've seen it happen before, guy gets into a fist fight, girl sees it, and her mood and demeanor around him becomes naturally supplicating. I recognize many here see the act of violence as losing frame, but that looming "threat of violence", not necessarily to her, but to the general world around you, that just seems to declaw many of them.

What I'm saying is you are more likely to see a woman's one or two very good attributes if there is something about your way and manner that puts a check on her typical and likely transactional "What Can I Get Out Of Him?" mentality. I don't think most women will naturally just hang that one good attribute out there naturally all the time to everyone.

I don't know what works for everyone else, I'm naturally a "boundary pusher" I'll invade people's personal space, I'll touch people ( pat on shoulder, lead by lightly touching the hip, etc), I'll ask invasive questions. I don't go out of my way to seek confrontation, but I deep down kind of enjoy it when it happens. I find women respond very well to it when it's balanced with a "gentleman" side that flip flops. If women see you know everyone, can talk to anyone, and you are almost savage with other men, but very old fashioned with them, that just seems to light them up to my observation. Key to note here is I think to get the best out of a woman, you have to avoid the advice the bullshit advice most women will give you ( which lines up to make the woman feel as comfortable as possible), my advice is make her feel uncomfortable about upsetting you in any way, but comfortable in that you hold to a code in how you live your life and that means you are going to take control.

Don't hold open a door for a woman and imply you are doing it so she can walk through, hold open the door and hold the tone where you aren't giving her a choice, you are holding it open because you want to, and she's gonna walk through and that's her only option on the table.

Title	Finding good attributes in women
Author	RedPillRobin
Upvotes	5
Comments	60
Date	April 2, 2017 12:37 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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