First situation like this, did I practice TRP or TBP?

Bostonsboy306 · 2014-03-15T16:11:46+00:00

Real talk, if I had been hooking up with a girl to the point that I'm rubbing my monster cock on the outside of her snatch, then just stop cold and leave, my nuts would be reaching critical capacity. That's some serious self control.

Thing is, if she did this with 99% of other guys they wouldn't have objected at all to sex. The fact that you negged her ass last second makes you stand out.

Thing is though, if she openly admits to enjoying fucking tons of other dudes, she isn't worth dinner, or any of your money. My play recommendation would be plate conversion with emphasis on investment on her part. If you try to peruse LTR with this girl you're a chump.

But yeah you should have pounded that.

jacobman · 2014-03-15T18:42:54+00:00

I would say that it was the wrong choice. She knows you want sex. You're not tricking anyone. Also, you've just broadcast to her that she's on a pedestal. You're saying that just hanging out with her is so great and important to you that you'll even forgo sex. I think you just put yourself in the beta/provider/whatever you want to call it role. She thinks she's got you by the balls. I think the better way to go about it would have been to have sex, and then poke fun at her about how it was her choice to not to hang out while seeming fine with her decision. She'll both feel like she needs to prove that she's not a slut and that she can attract you. Withhold attention, not sex. At the very worst she really doesn't want extended contact and you'll have a good fb.

mercuryg · 2014-03-15T19:49:14+00:00

Honestly i'm puzzled, why would you do that?

If it's about that hobby she has about fucking guys and never talking to them again, i wouldn't buy it. It's bullshit, hypothetically if the guy is alpha, the sex is good, and she has access to him, you can bet your ass she will be back for more.

IMO it definetly was a shit test, she dread gamed you, she tested to see if you were phased by "never talking to her again".

With this..

I just tell her I don't care and her never talking to me would be a favor, so we keep making out

I'd say you passed the test, i wouldn't know for sure though cus i wasn't there.

But by walking out on her afterwards my guess is that you just confused the fuck outta her, yeah sure maybe you boosted your value a little, she might be even more eager to fuck next time, but she was already DTF so i don't see the point. If i were you i'd go for the bang as quick as possible.

Bottom line is, playing with girls like this, is risky, you can't be certain how they'll react. Sexually frustrating a girl on purpose is fun during foreplay, but i wouldn't keep it up until the next day "at 7", she might be in a completely different emotional state of mind the next day and not DTF anymore, you just never know.

z_omg · 2014-03-15T17:18:06+00:00

Shit. The only way I see you coming out of this as a winner is if you can convert her into a fwb. Or if she buys you some seriously meaty lobsters for dinner tomorrow.

logically_ · 2014-03-15T17:38:04+00:00

I would have just fucked. I honestly don't see any reason to not do so at that point. If you end up fucking her once and that's it, that's cool. But nothing about fucking her that night precludes you from fucking her again in the future, the least of which being some shit she said. I tend not to believe half the shit women say regarding their sexual proclivities. Just last week I had a girl tell me she doesn't like giving head, yet she does it like a goddamn pro. Imagine that.

If you fuck this chick right and lay down proper game after, then she becomes a girl you don't date, just someone you're fucking. I would wager that fucking her then and there increases the odds of pulling this off.

da_voodoo · 2014-03-16T22:31:55+00:00

These guys are missing the point. Did you get what you want? If so, you did good. Obsessively chasing sex isn't RP, it's just being horny. RP is getting what you want out of life. If you're not getting the results you want, then try something different.

mrust · 2014-03-16T01:27:21+00:00

OK, you did the perfect set of moves if your goal is to have a relationship with this girl. But based on what she told you, she is not relationship material. What's your end game?

Honestly, she is not even plate material. Just indulge her hobby and move on.

Peter044 · 2014-03-15T21:33:25+00:00

Yeah ... My advice .... you acted like a kid.

I would have said "cut the chit chat", two hours is about an hour and fifty minutes too much already. Then I would have fucked her, no tricky moves, just a solid pounding. Then told her I had a similar hobbie, then got up and left.

As for dinner .... Really? Breaking bread with a girl who makes being a slut her hobby, and tells you that while arranging the DINNER!!! Holy shit. Get a grip man, have some self respect. What were you gonna chat about ... Her hobbies? Hahaha.

If this was a shit test, you should have told her to go fuck herself. Real men don't get sucked into childish games by bitches.

LordXerces · 2014-03-16T09:33:02+00:00

Um ... It was neither TRP or TBP. It was just ... Weird.

wall-of-meth · 2014-03-16T11:28:49+00:00

/r/asktrp

2014-03-16T13:52:29+00:00

and as soon as we are about to initiate sex I pull up my pants and say "see you at 7 for dinner tomorrow" and leave.

that seems to me (i know its not an adjective) but a little bit ...autistic....

BluepillProfessor · 2014-03-17T05:01:33+00:00

Let me translate this for some of the critics: She told him he could fuck her once and never speak again. He chose to not just fuck her once (and thus not speak to her again) in hopes of getting to fuck her more than just once. Logical.

I think it is an amazing move that is probably exactly what she has been looking for with this fuck me or have a relationship conversation starter of hers. On the "date" I would put her on the defensive about her slutty behavior. Take over the position of her "boyfriend" and start telling her what to do and I will bet she falls in line.

averagecycle · 2014-03-17T16:26:11+00:00

Update on this OP? Curious how it turned out

2014-03-26T21:04:36+00:00

You are taking red pill too far. You sound angry. Here's an analogy:

You want someone to give you $10. You use all your eloquence and they agree to give you the $10. As they are about to hand you that $10 you say, "Never mind, see you later."

They continue to call you everyday. "Hey man, you still need that $10? Let me drop by and give you this $10."

"You're a dick for offering me that $10, go fuck yourself."

Take the $10 man...wtf are you doing at this point?

2014-03-15T21:49:45+00:00

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knoebber · 2014-03-15T16:35:13+00:00

You did good. make her want what she cant have

Title	First situation like this, did I practice TRP or TBP?
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Date	March 15, 2014 3:56 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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