6/10/23, 10:30pm start time These sets are great because they have higher concentration of hot women.

Set: bar with large outdoor patio.

1) Hb7-late 20s # yes, no reply In a bar that just got extended to a patio area. Warmed up socially by chatting with security. Approach a late 20s hb7 who’s with her hb6 friend. Opened with a smile and said how her shoes (open toe heels) may stop her from dancing that night. She’s smiling back to agree while also adding that the shoes are her friends. Some talk about what we both do, I guessed her occupation several times. Could tell that was getting her more engaged. Memory is not clear as this was 2 weeks ago. When she said her line of work it was something that I used wordplay with to also get her to keep her talking. Got their names and they asked back.

I’ve included the friend in the conversation from the start, so when the hb7 is interrupted by someone else, I’m not left looking alone and silly. I say that the hb7 has her shoes, and that you’ll be having fun dancing since yours are closed toes. More talk about that, and shoe sizes. Of course I try to steer conversation back to something more fun. Talking to them both again. There was a good vibe, I had their attention and I didn’t feel like I was forcing anything. Closed on hb7 to get her # and she mentions that she “doesn’t give it out anymore.” I playfully said “I don’t want it anymore” and she laughed as we parted ways.

2) Hb6.5-early 20s # yes, no reply Opened a cute, fake blonde hb6.5. Said her hair looks nice and asked when she got it done. Joked saying how I got mine done a couple months ago and she was surprised. Doubled down saying the eyebrows are my giveaway (since they’re not blonde like my hair). Topic was relevant and could see her getting more engaged. I used that to break the ice then said I’m a natural. Transitioned and asked what she likes to do for fun. Told me kayaking, some talk about that then closed by saying it’s about time to meet my friends. I did double text just now (2 weeks later) telling her I’m going kayaking and that she should join me. Had to try once more, now it’s back to forgetting.

Set: hispanic club

3) Hb5.5 # yes, no reply Now I hate bar/club game because the women there screen filter more strictly than a street cold approach. That’s because the club music volume usually makes having a conversation impossible amongst other things. I decided to try it though. Dancing through various circles and having fun. Still no alcohol in my system. I go up to this group of 3, and dance with them. Talk to this 5.5 a little. Super noisy so use notepad on phone to get basics such as name. Got # and moved on.

In between that close and my next one I find 2 more girls to dance with (5.5 and 4). Am behind the 5.5 and she’s dancing on me now. She tugged at my shorts when walking to get me to make sure I followed her. She looked mid to late 20s, not my type and I didn’t get hard from her grinding. Couple songs later she says her and friend have to go to the bathroom. Doubt I’ll see em again, but hey it was for fun. Did see them again, and she didn’t dance on me lol.

4) Hb7 # yes, "hello" reply Walked by the bar and saw 2 more girls looking in their late 20s. She was with a friend and I opened by asking if they were in line for drinks, then stayed there to chat. Got their names, little bit of convo but we’re mostly just subtlety dancing. Got their names. Hb7 has that 1000 cock stare look with tats all over her arms. Looks fun, but also maybe a bit crazy. I’d definitely hit. She was grinding on me on and off while her friend would occasionally just reach out and feel my arms. Loud music coupled with my lack of experience, I just didn’t know how to escalate or what I should do. I wasn’t going to invest tons of effort though, so I got hb7’s # and dipped.

2am Set: the streets in downtown where it’s back to cold approach.

5) Hb8 # yes, no reply Group of 6 girls walking down the street. Opened by congratulating the birthday girl for turning 21. Small talk about bars, and she said if I was having a party because everything’s shut down and she wants to keep partying. Said no and mumbled a weird white lie about how I just cleaned up my place from last week. Was talking with about 2-3 girls from the group and the birthday girl sat down. A couple moments later a few more were sitting down so I opened the big tittied hb8 friend. Little bit of talk with her, she said she's 21. She looks mid twenties already, must be all the clubbing. I got her # to close then told them all to take care of the birthday girl.

6) Hb6 # no She was drunk and walking down the street, stopped her and opened with I think something she was wearing. Proceeded to tell her a story about how when my night started walking down bar street a white guy called me a “white classist douchebag” for not buying him a beer. She was captivated and walking with me, I switched directions to walk back down the street and she followed. Walked by this skinny 5’9 black dude sitting and he said “hey, I know you.” He was running some weird game where you just repeat “I know you” to the girl. She kept saying no he doesn’t. I began positioning myself between the guy and her when she asked “why is he talking to me.” We were about to walk off when my dumb ass answered “he’s trying to take advantage of drunk people.”

I was tired and it was very uncalibrated. He immediately got up flexing his puny traps and arms to say “what the fuck you mean man?” I was caught off guard, I just answered in a dumbass way to diffuse the situation “drunk people are funny.” I’d lost the lady's attention and she was walking away quickly. Dude kept prancing around saying “man get the fuck outta here” “I’ll beat your ass, get the fuck outta here.” I turned my back on him (big mistake). But then I coincidentally saw my 5’11 bodybuilder friend (drunk I think) walk up to the guy and his group of 3 dudes to tell them to cool it.

I’m saying let's go but he won’t listen. There was like 3-4 of em in total and my friend told them to cool it and be nice. He put his hand on the guy's chest when he said that and a black friend said “get your hands off my boy.” He left after that with me and we walked while he was lecturing me about leaving the girl if a guy with his friend tried to swoop in. We discussed cold approach and he told me don’t do it unless you and the girl make eye contact. I disagreed with him because that severely limits options with lots of women not paying attention, having their backs turned, or not expressing initial interest.

7) Hb6.5 # yes, no reply Walked past a busty girl in red track pants and I said I’ll approach her, he’s like “go for it, I’ll watch.” Opened by saying I never see many people in track pants these days. She excitedly told me she got them thrifting online. Some talk about thrifting before I mistakenly made a small reference to the online sweatshops, and she seemed confused. Brought it back to the topic of clothes. 6’3 black dude in a blue suit walks by and says I look familiar. I say he might and try to go back to conversation. He apologizes for interrupting and insists he knows me. I see the lady losing attention so I just say he might and I’m pretty active. Said he had a good suit and went back to convo.

Went to close on a girl and she offered snapchat. I said I don’t do that and then she typed in her number. After she’d type it, my dumbass said something that caused her to shit test me about the snap. I’m struggling to say something about how I don’t enjoy streaks or some weird answer. I’d forgotten my basic response of “it’s just basic” or “not my thing.” I took too many words to say that, none the less I closed.

Analysis:

  • Lead an interesting, fun life and share that instead. Stay away from topics like work and career. They’re boring and it forces me to answer people when they in return ask about what I do. I hate telling people I’m in community college. Don’t try to backpedal interest after I get rejected from a close. It was a bad attempt at getting her to chase.
  • 2) was solid, but numbers don’t mean anything. Time to start pushing for instant dates.
  • Game hotter women.
  • I’m not completely helpless when it comes to club game, but I don’t know how to build more interest from girls who are already grinding on me.
  • Say less and don’t say retarded shit. Take control and physically escort (hand on back) the girl out of situations where guys are tryna swoop. Just keep walking.
  • Need to plan dates in person. Whether it’s an insta date, or something a couple days out. These numbers are leading me nowhere. Also, say less.