Introduction:

From answering questions on askTRP about daygame and how to handle cold approaches, here's yesterday's experience with a breakdown for newbies. I was at the airport yesterday and ended up chatting up a 23 (10+ years younger) grad school HB6.5 (tight body, plain face). I'm really sick and more interested in healing up than fucking her while she's in town for the holidays. However, ended up talking to her anyways, it's automatic at this point.

 

Scene:

I'm sitting at the airport in those row chairs, there are a few scattered open seats. Immediately to my left is my pack on the chair and to my right is an open seat, followed by some lady in the next seat over to the right.

 

Interaction:

  I'm waiting for my flight and the 6.5 looks around and sits to the left of my pack. I don't acknowledge her or move my pack for her. Shortly after a grandma with a fresh baked pepperoni pizza sits next to me.

  • alarm bell from an employee entering the terminal rings right as the lady opens the pizza box
  • me: grinning, hey you're going to get us into trouble with that pizza.
  • gma: haha, they can smell it!
  • me: yea, you better get to it before it gets confiscated

(theme: I talk to other people, I'm comfortable in my own skin, I'm not just staring at some hb with her headphones on)

few minutes go by...

  • gma: "hey do you want the last slice?"
  • me: "no thanks, I already ate" (chicken Mediterranean salad)
  • me: "let's see if that girl wants some"
  • I move over my pack and lead with the pizza carton
  • me: to hb6.5, "hey free slice of pizza from this lady, as in absolutely free"
  • her: "free pizza? hell yes"
  • her: moves to the seat next to me and chomps down
  • her: shows positive body language, knees pointed to me
  • me: "you're lucky I declined that pizza, I had first dibs ;)"
  • her: mmhmmph :)

so we start talking, she had just been to europe for 2 weeks

  • her: "yea I just got back from europe and visited this guy friend of mine, it kinda sucked" IOI#1 when a girl tells you it sucked, she wishes she had been fucked hard in a foreign country
  • me: "hey now, europe doesn't suck, it's awesome" I drop some cool stories about traveling through europe to show value, I then sexualize the conversation by telling her how when I was in europe staying with a girl and her family, we'd have sex at night in the living room, next to the kitchen, with her bro and parents upstairs.
  • me: "so did you show them your appreciation and clean up/cook for them hosting you?"
  • her: "of course I would, I love to clean!" (translation: no I didn't do shit for these people but I care about what you think) IOI #2 she's qualifying herself to me

we BS a bit, she brings up a story about game of thrones and knowing someone who works on set, at this point I could have said I know Brianne of Tarth's bestie, but I don't say shit, why? because I don't care, I'm not trying to show her I'm like her. Like her friends, whatever.

throughout the conversation I stop talking, a minute or so later she resumes talking to me IOI#3

I then tell her she's made me proud with her desire to continue traveling and finding free accommodations, we should exchange contact info so I can score free places to stay.

at this point I'm very aware of the situation, I observe carefully and notice she whips her phone out to get my info IOI#4 I put my first name and a funny last name in her phone, she texts me, we stop talking and continue waiting for the flight

  • flight boarding. I get up and go stand in line, I don't wait for her or circle back to her, this is important, if you don't show independence in this way you give off a needy vibe that girls don't like.
  • me: "hey looks like we're going to sit in different areas, so let's say goodbye here"
  • her: "ok, be sure to keep in touch!" IOI#5

I did see her later but at that point just headed to my ride and took off. Be brief, be bright, be gone. A BP move would have been to run after her to talk about some other BS, don't do this. you have the number, good vibes, move on.

 

Keys to Success:

  • don't be needy, creepy, talk to everyone
  • sexualize the conversation early
  • tease her
  • STFU, keep your energy lower than hers and be quiet
  • if you're older don't be afraid to approach younger women, they like older guys, it's women approaching the wall that try to shame us with their "you're sick for dating girls in their 20s".

 

Conclusion:

I met a girl who just got back from a trip that wasn't fun, and here she meets a guy who seems fun and fucks. Tingles ensue. She's going to be in town for a limited time which is perfect, she can meetup, have sex and not feel any pressure.

As for me, I would just rather rest up. So I may ping her to keep her in orbit till next time. Every once in a while I get girls to travel to me, doesn't hurt to live in an awesome place.