TL;DR: I was an overweight beta in high school and early college. Lost a ton of weight and became the alpha I always wanted to be and people took notice; especially the women.

Body: For most of my teenage life I was overweight. I was always active but looking back I had a horrible diet. I hovered around 220 pounds for most of high school despite being quite active. I was quite athletic for my size and I played many sports including football, soccer, tennis, and baseball. I got along well with everyone for the most part in school and was not considered “popular” but I was friends with a good amount of the popular guys in school through the sports I played. Despite being friends with a ton of people I was always a bit awkward around women. I had friends that were girls but never a girl friend. I would always get incredibly self conscious about myself around girls that I liked. I was just some blue balled bitch that put pussy on a pedestal. Being an overweight beta sucked.

Going in to my third semester in college I was at my heaviest. I wasn’t playing sports anymore and working out was never a big part of my life so I packed on the pounds. At 6’1” and 250 lbs, I was disgusted at how much I let myself go. Then one day something just snapped in my brain and I told myself I would get in to shape or I would die trying. I think I was just tired of being fat and everything that came along with being overweight. Now I would be lying if I didn’t say that part of me wanted to lose weight just so I could be more attractive to women but it was more of a secondary reason. I really just wanted to be more healthy and feel better about myself.

So I started in March and for the next year I worked out regularly (at least 5 times per week starting with Insanity then later I moved to weights), ate a healthy diet, drank a ton of water, and really concentrated on crafting my ideal body. I want to stress that I concentrated on MYSELF. I basically took an “I don’t give a fuck about you” mentality about women and relationships and along with losing the weight, I became a much more confident person. I dropped about 30 pounds in the first 2 months and by May I really started to notice changes in the way people treated me. It seemed like everyone was treating me with more respect. It’s as if I was wearing a scary mask my entire life and I had now taken it off. Out of nowhere people I had never talked to before started striking up conversations with me, complimenting me, and showing me more attention than ever before.

Now to the main reason I posted this on TRP. After a few months and about 45 pounds lost, I noticed the huge difference in the way women treated me. My goodness the comparison is night and day. This is when I learned that women are just as superficial as men. My overweight self could never get anywhere with women. But losing weight was like changing the game from hard to easy. I couldn’t believe it. Everywhere I went I started to get significantly more attention from women. I started catching women checking me out frequently and I noticed a huge jump in women flirting with me. Women even started approaching me!

I especially took notice of these changes after I went to a few parties. When I was overweight I would always have to be the one to initiate any conversation or encounter but now it was the other way around. I would go to parties or go out and have no less than five women try to hit on me that night. That NEVER happened to me. I even had women come up to me just to tell me that I was hot. This was insane to me! For the first time in my life I was getting the attention (and much more) that I wanted from attractive women. And I’m not talking about 6’s and 7’s. Were talking 9’s and 10’s; women that I never dreamed I could get with. If you were never overweight then you might not see the significance of these changes but for someone who grew up overweight and unattractive, the change is unbelievable.

So to all my overweight friends out there, I have a message for you: DO IT! Seriously! Get up and start working out and eating healthy now and you will thank me. Losing 75 pounds was the greatest thing I have ever done for myself and the benefits are endless. And I’m not saying that you should lose weight just to get women. No, I am telling you to do it for yourself. You will be more confident, healthy, outgoing, and attractive. Many areas of your life will be greatly improved by just learning to discipline yourself and work towards your goal of losing weight. Having women practically throw themselves at you is a great side effect from getting in shape but honestly creating a stronger, healthier, more confident, and more disciplined version of yourself is much more satisfying and will help you out in the long run. Not only will you get all those great benefits but it will help you greatly with your transition to an alpha to. Trust me, you will thank yourself for getting in shape.

Lessons Learned:

Getting in shape yields numerous positive results and will help you transform into the alpha you want to be.

Women are very superficial. They always say that looks don’t matter but they do. They 100% do. The way women treat you when you’re in shape versus overweight doesn’t even compare. They go from cold, distant, and seemingly repulsed to warm and friendly and riding your dick. AWALT and it’s sad and quite hypocritical.