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Girls suck

prettylatebloomer

December 15, 2014
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Title Girls suck
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prettylatebloomer

Upvotes 0
Comments 16
Date December 15, 2014 2:17 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2pcz8f/girls_suck/
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Comments

[–]themoor 3 points3 points3 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Just another newb using this forum as their own personal diary and sounding board.

Though I sympathize with your struggle, please try to (1) keep the whining to yourself and (2) add some value to the board if you must post.

You are only adding to the noise to information ratio.

[–]5 Endorsed ContributorStayinghereforreal0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

My pet peeve is the whole "monk mode" thing. That sounds like guys trying to rationalize hiding in their apartment and pretending like they are undergoing some sort of chrysalis experience, before reemerging as a beautiful, beautiful alpha butterfly.

Leave that fairy tale crap to kung fu movies, guys. There is no monk mode, there is only dealing with the world or hiding from it.

[–]smokingmonkey420 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

BULLSHIT.

Been monk mode for past 4 months, got 4 more to go. I'm improving my focus and body. Getting a good nights sleep and saving my money. Reading TRP daily and not distracting myself with women so that there is no regression. Go into monk mode beta and come out Alpha. It's worth it to sacrifice a few months to get your shit together than to compromise or possibly fall back to beta.

[–]themoor 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

"Go into monk mode beta and come out Alpha."

Talk about bullshit.

I'm not dissing taking time to work on yourself, get fit, get your head right etc. Do it. Good for you. Learn some discipline, etc.

But fucking monk mode is not some magic elixir.

It's a holding station. And that's not a bad thing, just don't kid yourself.

Alpha is forged in the crucible of experience.

Accomplish some shit. Once your pecs and bicep are in order, climb a mountain, write a book, learn an instrument, hit on the hottest milf at the fancy wine bar... what ever. Fail, get back up, brush yourself off, and get back at real world experience.

If you ain't a "natural alpha" (whatever that mean... like the famous line, "I don't know what obscenity is, but I know it when I see it"), you are only going to get there in fits and starts. And that requires the school of hard knocks.

And monk mode ain't it.

[–]smokingmonkey420 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

You know what Batmans superpower is?

He is always prepared.

That's what monk mode is about. Getting your mind, body, and affairs together so you can go out and play the game the way it's supposed to be played.

For some of us, TRP does not just 'click.' We have to consistently read the lessons taught here before they start to sink in.

How long do you think it takes your average joe to get over the idea of marriage? A LONG FUCKING TIME. At least in my case.

If you only digest this pill halfway, and pull some fine ass, you might be inclined to think you "found a unicorn" when it's really a donkey and that's because you weren't prepared.

[–]1Dev_on1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

when I've been talking to girls, it's been with the intent of seeking out a purely platonic friendship

I don't think you are there yet man. I know they can happen, but you're not there yet. Also, when women use the word 'friend' they mean 'aquaintance'... It's only when guy say 'friend' do they actually mean something more than the superficial

[–]prettylatebloomer[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You're right, I haven't been seeking the true friendship of these girls. It can be possible, I've had good friends who were girls in my past. This red pill reality hits you like a ton of fucking bricks though. The truths are finally starting to sink in and I guess I'm finally going through my anger phase. The red pill is amazing, nobody upvote this post, I'm going through my anger phase.

[–]1Dev_on1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The realization is as important as you want to make it. I never had that angry moment, but taking life with a shrug Congress naturally I guess.

Either way, take solice in how the things that used to make no sense make perfect sense... Just have to have the right assumptions

[–]scarletspider31 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

wtf are u even babbling about?

[–]5 Endorsed ContributorStayinghereforreal1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Growing up, I always heard girls complaining about how guys didn't want to be their friend....Girls are the ones who have no desire to be in platonic relationships with men they deem to have a high enough SMV.

Imagine a gal knowing Ryan Gosling, and just wanting to "be his friend", without more. The idea is preposterous, of course. She would be staring at him like meat the whole time, thinking of how she was going to get him.

And if he friendzoned her, do you think would she be chipper about it? Would she say, "Yeah, I wanted more, but his gift of friendship means soooo much; it is a really great thing"?

Nah. She would either be pissed at the rejection, heartbroke at the disappointment, or only pretending to accept the answer, while she continues to work on making sure no other nasty slags get him while she is in the picture.

In short, they would respond just like guys do when friendzoned by a hot chick.

I'm in monk mode

Quit pretending this is anything except hiding mode.

[–]prettylatebloomer[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You're right. The past couple months, I've been rationalizing me being a pussy as me being in "monk mode." I had begun to accept red pill truths but never had a full understanding of them. It's a different journey for us all. Knowing what I know now, I decided yesterday to begin my true monk mode journey. Giving up cigarettes, alcohol, pot, wallowing in self-pity and begin focusing on myself (school, fitness, career goals). Taking a break from using my reddit account as well. Thanks TRP.

[–]AlcohoIicSemenThrowe0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

To most women a "friend" means orbiter. Don't even bother.

[–]twistedbrother2-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

unfortunately I'm not gay

I doubt that. I also doubt that this sub is in the right direction with nonstop fagstories on the daily.

[–]contrafagotto-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think there's a lot you don't know about men. Deal with it.

[–]twistedbrother20 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No, there isn't, and anyone saying unfortunately they're not gay is really gay.

[–]Ghost_Ghoul_Guy-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Or maybe these people just don't want to be friends with you. If you want honesty, then look at yourself as the source of the problem instead of ascribing the problem to women in general. At a certain point, if enough people don't like you, then it's probably something you are responsible for.

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