Going to the bar alone: just do it.

FormlessAllness · 2017-07-17T03:42:42+00:00

Don't drive drunk man. Fuck sacks. You can fucking die or kill someone. Lost friends to that shit. Get a fucking uber.

imn0tg00d · 2017-07-17T08:37:25+00:00

I almost NEVER go out in a group. Flying solo is the way to go. If you go with a group, you will probably end up only talking to members of your group the whole night.

Some advice though, put away your damned phone. Forget it exists. Don't even look at the thing. I usually just grab a seat at the bar and talk to whoever comes up. Most of the time a conversation comes out of it. Sometimes they even invite me over to join their group. If you're looking at your phone you won't have a good read on the room. GET OFF THE PHONE.

FiveStarTendieDinner · 2017-07-17T03:04:36+00:00

Exactly how it should be. Let it flow. Fuck all this prescribed red pill theory crap. Just do it and leave the rest to chance.

SirenPhase · 2017-07-17T01:55:20+00:00

Completely agree. I'm 30 years old, I have many close friends in my city, but they don't want to go out like we used to in our twenties. Sometimes it is hard to get motivated to get out of the house when you're going out by yourself. I just tell myself; go to a bar and have one drink and if it's lame then leave. The goal is to go out and have one drink. Forget about anything beyond that. So I go out with that goal, end up chatting with people, making friends, and having an awesome time. More often than not I meet girls and get dates as well.

RedPilledGodEmperor · 2017-07-17T14:16:00+00:00

But that's ok, I still have my friends, right? No. Although we hangout a lot, they are not available any time I want, so it's not okay to depend on them to have fun.

I'm coming to this realization. I live with three roommates who I have been friends with or whatever since college. All three are now in relationships and obviously spend time with their girlfriends, so I don't really have many other people to hang out with, since a lot of people from my college I was friends with moved and all that. I think I might start doing night outs alone. I would rather go out alone and maybe have a good night, than stay home and do nothing, because I don't have someone to do it with. Definitely gonna put effort into making friends though.

As an FYI, definitely use uber instead of driving for nights out

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-07-17T11:23:49+00:00

Erase from your mind the idea you need others to go out.

I've been doing bar, beer garden, and festival things for about 25 years (I'm 56) and I regret that it wasn't until I was 30 before I became comfortable with the idea of "being my own man" and doing things indpendently.

Go out on your own.

Obviously if you have security fears (truly dangerous neighborhoods) then get a gang to provide some mutual protection (though in truly dangerous areas even that won't help) but if you are in an urban upscale area with tons of hot young babes your crime will be low.

Wherever the hot women are the crime is low... that's by design.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-07-17T04:23:19+00:00

Going to the bar alone is fine. If you can't go to a bar alone and meet people you need to work on being more fun.

wheel_ · 2017-07-17T04:55:29+00:00

Good stuff. One thing, though: if you're going solo, it's a low expectation night. So I don't see the point of getting trashed. I bet you spent more money and pushed your liver more than what the night was really worth.

Other than that, good job.

glox87 · 2017-07-17T14:39:19+00:00

I've been going out solo for years and prefer it over going with a group.

kingofshapes · 2017-07-17T03:14:14+00:00

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maxrp · 2017-07-23T04:00:10+00:00

whats with the posts getting removed!! ffs

idontfkinknow · 2017-07-17T12:52:25+00:00

What a great way to show you have no social circle. Go get some fucking friends and go out with them. Don't ever go alone unless you're new to a city or in a similar situation.

Title	Going to the bar alone: just do it.
Author	RACCBL
Upvotes	45
Comments	59
Date	July 17, 2017 1:28 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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