Has TRP changed anyone's interaction with female siblings?

SoftHarem · 2013-09-27T22:52:20+00:00

It should affect your interactions with everyone.

milesarcher2013 · 2013-09-27T22:22:55+00:00

my older sister has tried unsuccessfully to shame me into continuing relationships with girls i have seen when i had no desire to. she has also tried to use shame to make me take casual relationships more seriously than i want to.

it was rather strange to see her reaction the first few times. it took her a while to register that she could not control me with her disapproval.

Takincharge55 · 2013-09-28T03:10:33+00:00

I have two younger sisters, the closest one to my age is a new stay at home mom (had her first son 6 months ago) and is slowly coming to love the aspects of being a Red Pill woman of which she had no previous knowledge of and still doesn't it comes natural to her... Who'd of thought?

My youngest sister is the complete opposite.... Entitled teenage brat. Being new to TRP I started slowly integrating this into my interactions with her, which don't go over well. Last time I visited home she demanded to borrow my brand new truck to go to the store... That was 3 fuckin block away. Normally I wouldn't care but she straight up said "takingcharge55 GIVE me the keys to your truck I NEED it." In that condescending tone.. Looked her straight in the eye without raising my tone (unlike my past self would've) and simply said no. She flipped her shit and started yelling and screaming... Border line cryin on the floor and yelling at my dad to make me give her the keys.... She is 17....

Needless to say she didn't get her way and Became much nicer through out the day

TL:DR middle sister is becoming a shining TRP example of a woman and my youngest sister is still a bitch.

mo_dingo · 2013-09-27T23:29:11+00:00

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Justus222 · 2013-09-28T05:15:03+00:00

It has impacted my relationship with my whole family. I have an even greater level of respect for my dad now, even though he is not a fully Red Pill man, and has his flaws. This is because I now see the Red Pill qualities in him more clearly, and I am thankful for what he raised me with. I also set frame with my mom and sister more. I do this is in a loving way, but pretty much all females will shit test you, I think. It's not a bad thing once you understand it (as long as it's not constant). Shit testing is a challenge to make you better. So I set frame by giving my little sister space, but also being clear where I stand on issues. If I don't agree with her behavior I will say it. If my mom brings up some feminist rhetoric, I will let her speak, but be clear if I don't agree. You need to let Red Pill affect your interactions with everyone. Sometimes this looks like being more assertive and DGAF, sometimes this looks like humility and grace.

damnyouresickbro · 2013-09-29T05:53:40+00:00

I have two older sisters and they would always gang up on me when I was younger. They always hated on me and asked why I couldn't be "normal". This led to my low self esteem and confidence issues during my teenage years.

They're the typical feminist types. The one was approaching 30 and always thought she deserved better but then realized she was hitting the wall and married an out of shape beta provider. The other doesn't listen to anything my parents say as she realized they gave her empty threats and she walks all over them. She's dating a guy that she totally disrespects, she tells him to shut the fuck up over the phone and borrows his truck and makes him pick it up from our house.

I'm in my early 20's now and I swallowed the red pill 2 years ago and I haven't allowed them to disrespect me since. I'm physically much bigger than them now so they can't even think of physically hitting me as I have warned them of the consequences and have gone about it when they felt they could hit me, which is something I'm not proud of but feel was necessary in order for them to understand the consequences. It's funny now too because they always used to say I was "weird" yet now my social circle is massive, my confidence is through the roof while the married one only hangs out with her husband while the other one has 3 friends, her boyfriend included. My relationships are not very good with them anymore after I swallowed the pill but that is the reality I have to accept and the one best for my future.

new2RP · 2013-09-29T05:01:09+00:00

I have 2 sisters, but about 13 years ago I went from being an introverted fat nerd, to an outgoing thin nerd. My sense of humor is incredibly over the top sarcasm and cockiness, I treat my friends this way, as well as my sisters. My parents were a bit weirded out when I started to call my sisters whores and sluts, but my sisters would do the same to me. It wasn't an attempt to shame each other, but more of an expression of "who give a shit what anyone else thinks"

Both my sisters are married to extremely RP men, and on occasion will give me shit for dating younger women, to which i tell them that I don't give a damn, and that the younger ones tend to have less baggage and be more fun. It's funny though, none of this RP cocky behavior translated to anyone I had an interest in dating. I'd white knight the hell out of women, and my friends on more than one occasion were asked by women if I was gay.

I think what i started to develop 13 years ago was an amazing foundation for RP, but it took actually swallowing TRP to realize that it's the way I need to live my entire life, not just the part of it without women I'm attracted to. My sisters respect the hell out of me, and know that even though I may come across as misogynistic and an ass at times, it's really the assertive personality men require for a good dating life.

semigod_ · 2013-09-27T22:00:08+00:00

i remember a conversation with my (younger) sister (20 y/o), in which she was shocked to hear that i value looks much higher than education.. and that in fact dont even really care what education she has. but that was even before i discovered TRP.

shamanbard · 2013-09-29T20:57:33+00:00

My younger sister is a walking Red Pill reminder. I love her, but she's a total slut who's close to the wall. She was living with a supreme beta (or even Omega, though I hate using those complicated hierarchal terms) loser boyfriend for something like 5 years while still banging many different guys who never gave her an offer of a relationship. She likes to party and drink, she's loud and boorish, and so on. A guy she works with straight up told her why she doesn't have a committed boyfriend and hadn't met the families of any guys she dated. It was something to the effect of "a man wants to bring a lady home to his family, and well, you aren't one". Hit her like a bomb. She's actively working on improving herself and has a great new job after she came to me about the whole thing. She's always looked up to me, and has self esteem issues because I always let her know that I thought her actions and decisions sucked, even before I had come to the red pill way. I see my mom, grandma, aunts and cousins in a totally new light, though.

mclorie · 2013-09-27T22:06:23+00:00

No. Family is something that I won't let get affected by my actions and mindset changes.

elheretic · 2013-09-28T20:04:40+00:00

I remember there being post here with a study that confirmed males with female siblings are naturally more red pill.

For me nothing really has changed. My sister has a lot of attractive friends and really talks me up to them.

Having a sister is great. You always have access to women in her social circle.

AlmostRP · 2013-09-27T22:36:27+00:00

I am worthy of respect. So I demand respect from anyone around me nowadays. I expect much more from my family than strangers, and before I didn't. So it has definitely changed my relationship with the women in my family.

If they feel like they can disrespect me in front of a family reunion, I first take them aside separately and explain how that's not okay. If they do it twice, I respond immediately, telling them that it's not okay to talk to me in that way.

It's happened a few times now and the males in my extended family have said how they think it was a good idea to do that and the females respect me more.

gekkozorz · 2013-09-28T01:02:49+00:00

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Date	September 27, 2013 9:51 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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