Introduction

2 weeks ago I N closed a very nice HB 8/9. A quick chat at the bar followed by another chat at her table at which point me and my mates bounced to another venue.

The girl is question, is tall, very slim, keeps fit and has big brown eyes, great bone structure, and dresses well.

First Date

First date started well, she arrived on time and dressed very well, looked great. The date progressed nicely with some kino and basic escalation. No serious talk (I still don’t know how old she is) just fun, high fiving etc etc.

At the end of the date, I walked her to her car, we held hands and I went into kiss… but… she said that she doesn’t kiss on the first date.. I went ahead and kissed her anyway and she responded.. a little..

But it did get me thinking. Armed with my TRP knowledge, this felt like she was viewing me as BB or at least her aim was to find a Beta Provider.

Second Date

So, I realised at this stage I needed a plan. We arranged the second date, and I kept communication to a minimum - logistics only, with a little banter and jokes around our first date thrown in.

Again, she arrived on time, and again dressed well, the skinny jeans and high heels, making the most of those legs!

But, something had changed.. she immediately planted a kiss on my lips and held me. We sat down with our drinks. Her kino started almost immediately and kissing followed regularly soon after.

We then went for as bite to eat, she grabbed my hand as we went.

We ordered food and then the real fun started. She turned the subject to sex and we talked about things we liked to do, laughing about the couple sitting behind us, who could probably hear it all.

Then she asked me “Are you as hugger or fucker?” My TRP senses were tripped by this apparently AF/BB question, so I looked deep into her eyes and said “Fucker” She said “I thought so” and smiled.

I smiled and asked her why she asked that and she mumbled along the lines of “That’s why I said I don’t kiss on a first date, I thought you might be a hugger” (BB), “but I know now you aren’t... I didn’t think you were really”.

It turns out she makes “huggers” wait, as per AF/BB. She currently has a Hugger on a 4 month wait, for a kiss!

At this point she was squirming in her seat and fidgeting, so I knew she was turned on. She very soon after said as much.

She then admitted that she had been on a date the previous night, I didn’t ask about it, and she quickly followed up with “So, its whoever fucks me first…”, laughing.

We went back to the bar and I basked in the glow of watching all the men in the bar stare at her as she went to get us both a drink.

Needless to say the night ended very well..

Lessons Learned

  • I saw AF/BB dualistic strategy played out before my eyes. Hot HB 8/9 seems to be looking for both and consciously adjusting her behavior accordingly.
  • She was happy to tell me how she treats Beta’s once she had decided I wasnt one!
  • It seemed that she liked me enough to want to continue to see me, but was hamstering whether I was AF/BB. Maybe the first date didn’t go as well as I thought?
  • She “tested” me for sexual compatibility with pre-meal sex talk.
  • Holding frame and demonstrating I understood what she meant by Huggers/Fuckers and passing the test, clinched the deal.
  • Throughout the second date and into the night, she kept saying how confident I was. It amused me that this seriously attractive girl was so amazed by
    how confident she thought I was. It just shows how far frame and confidence can take you.
  • Continued lifting and diet has enabled me to lean down further over the last 2 months, something that did not go unnoticed.. Lift!

Morning After Bonus Content

She has literally said that she isn’t a Hugger, meaning no “girlfriend” type behavior. She knows what she wants, from me, and I plan to give it to her. She also intimated that this could be short term, I am guessing until she finds a suitable Beta. But hey, it’s just my turn