Height, my meditations

freshdesuka · 2017-03-05T02:44:43+00:00

Shit like this is just retarded hamstering. It took me years to get over shit like this because of fake "inspirational posts" like this. Being short is fucking retarded. It's literally like being fat as a girl, but even worse. That being said, you can still get laid and have a happy life. But it's a huge disadvantage. It's not a "different rock face." It's literally like taking your attractiveness and subtracting 2 points on the 10 point scale. More if you're below a certain height.

There is a HUGE difference -- and yes, that difference is purely negative -- between being short, average, and tall. Average has no effect. Tall has a highly positive effect. Short has a highly negative effect.

JFMX1996 · 2017-03-05T09:06:19+00:00

I believe you should just work with what you've got. You may have to tweak your approaches, but all around just be happy with yourself. If you cannot love yourself, no one else can. Stop carrying the whole shortness issue around with you everywhere in the back of your mind.

Self-doubt is the biggest enemy of men striving for greatness, short or tall.

Learn to just rock what you've got, brothers.

abbafishhead · 2017-03-05T11:25:36+00:00

The only short people who bitch about their height are those who aren't getting laid. Those who get laid don't even notice their height.

Source: I'm 5'6", majority of girls I sleep with are taller than me.

Wolffy93 · 2017-03-05T21:13:34+00:00

Read through some of the comments and definitely agree with some.

I have many tall friends.

They will never be able to fathom the world's of difference their reality is compared to mines, nor is it important. Who cares.

I'm 5'0" (4'11" but do people even count below 5'5" for short guys?) on a bad day, 5'3" if / when I wear combat boots. Absolutely cannot stand the various reasons "tall" dudes, for me Anyone over 5'6", of course 5'6" is "short" in the real world, give for X , Y, or Z when it comes to women struggles.

I have just accepted that dating and women, lest Pay an escort, will be on Hard mode, if that, compared to guys women naturally flock to. Neither goid nor bad, just Is.

Will have to put in considerably more effort to get the same results, if it Isn't an outright "No"

However, this does not bother me anymore.

Have been told by just about everyone I maintain the confidence of someone 6 foit tall, etc. Great(?)

My idol right now is Kevin Hart. He is short, as am I.

He is black, as am I.

He is making it fucking work. He worked his ass off at his mission.

As such, putting effort into workibg out, health, mussic career, sleight of hand magic, charisma etc, the whole 6 feet for myself.

If it means to have Great success with women I need to Sky Rocket my Attributes that cam be changed while Average men can Coast because their height affords them that luxury, so be it.

Short Guys Dont Have The Luxury Of Being Average, in anything

Even more so with women.

sickofallofyou · 2017-03-05T15:34:22+00:00

I have a friend who is about 5'3" tall, 115-120lbs. Alpha as fuck, he's had girls 6'4" on his arm.

It's all mental bro.

Yodamdamn · 2017-03-06T03:18:06+00:00

I'm 5'7 and most of my friends are taller then me but lack game and can't get laid. One friends hamsters by calling girls I sleep with ugly or whores ( even though before he would trying to bang but failed).

But I agree if your SMV is high height isn't a factor for some. I have another friend same height as me, we both try to bang the same girl. After I bang her, I ask her why not my friend, she said he was too short. When I told her we are the same height she took a good look and said oh wow!.

justhereforthelaughs · 2017-03-06T23:53:17+00:00

I see this slot on this sub, "if you're short you're not getting laid", "the ladies love me, I'm 6'3" and sexy as hell," blah blah.

Look, I know PLENTY of short guys who get laid, a lot, and I know plenty of tall dudes that couldn't pull in a room full of women. It's like anything else, sure, it's better to be taller than shorter, more fit that overweight, have more money than none at all, but honestly, how many of you know some short weasely dude who lives with his mom and gets laid all the time? I know a few. It's a sum of the whole, not one thing or another that gets you laid.

I'm 5'6, bald, and I don't make a lot of money. I don't have "game" or any bullshit like that. I'm in my 30's, I routinely date women 5-10 years younger than me. The biggest factors are confidence and being able to approach a woman and not sound like you're demented.

douchetinc · 2017-03-05T13:09:24+00:00

I'm 5'3. I'm short, even in Asian standards. Every girl I'll date will always want to bang some tall dude, that isn't me. In the same way tho, I'll always want to bang a chick with nicer tits than whoever I'm currently fucking.

Yes, it's a disadvantage, but it's not the only factor that's on that equation. Seriously. I'm short and poor, but I've never had trouble getting laid.

Yes, it would be so much easier if I was 5'8" or something, but I'm not, and I never will be, so it's not something I dwell on.

brotherrl · 2017-03-05T18:57:57+00:00

I'm 6'4. Trust me, it's not that important.

[deleted] · 2017-03-05T02:47:55+00:00

6.5 isnt a great height if ur bone strucute is not made for it - 6.2 if ur lean . 6.3 if muscular and 6.4 if ur muscular + nice wide shoulder big frame genetics.

a skinny 6.5 guy idk if girls rly like that. 5.8 is playable its ok i dont know why ur insecure bc of that

[deleted] · 2017-03-05T23:50:06+00:00

We all get something in life. I've struggled for a long time being basically socially retarded but I'm 6'4 and good looking, definitely not jacked. My game consists of showing up basically. It's definitely a huge advantage but my lack of social skills hurts my career tremendously so there's that on the other side.

One thing I've noticed is during job interviews and such I always ask for more money than whatever the going rate is and I usually get it even if the other guys are more qualified/dedicated than me. Maybe that's just a confidence thing though

Title	Height, my meditations
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Date	March 5, 2017 2:27 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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