How a Dark Triad Man would come off

vandaalen · 2014-07-04T07:04:14+00:00

If he or she is naturally dt you might even not notice it. That's the whole point about it. They had to learn proper social interactions by extensive observation because of their lacking emoathy that they've become nearly perfect in it.

In extreme situations as death of closed ones or such they could come off pretty odd though.

FrontTooth · 2014-07-04T08:20:27+00:00

Let me tell you of this friend I have. Once in my stupid very youth, me and a friends wanted to blaze some hotdogs so we needed to find a dealer. My bro was a total well connected addict so he got a number from a friend, and this is how I met "gal".

When we arrive at gal hes sitting on his sofa, he doesnt even rise to meet us becuase apparently hes right in a CoD game. He is as young as us, not even legally mature. He tells us the chorizos are in the bag and we can pick any bag we like theyre all the same price. The apartment is filthy unclean and theres shit everywhere, kitchen is overflowing with rotten dish, the toilet room is a smelly catastrophe and the dinner table is filled with random shit and burnt out sausages. His hotdogs were shit but he was always in supply so we would visit him over and over again. He was always playing Call of duty, never at work and never in school. A total drug dealing loser if u please.

But Gal wasnt any guy. I would come to know him and this was in my early days of the manosphere so I immediatly started recognize the triads. He was the son of a billionare, but thrown out becuase apparently he didnt work to well with his father. Ive never met Gals father but apparently he ran an illegal alcoholfactory, got in jail for two years, came out and "solved everything". Stories from other tells me he joined the estate buisness and was completely ruthless. For example gals father was planning to build a hotel, his then best friend gave gave him a good price with his construction buisness and they wrote a contract. When the hotel was finished, gals father put his company in bankruptcy, went to hongkong and bought it up with a new company from there, and suddenly didnt need to pay the construction costs for a mayor hotel. His best friend lost everything.

Gal is named after his own father, by his own father. We started going out, and jeez, this fucking guy. He was short, barely average looking, and he would fucking rek home chicks. He had this ice cold demeanor to him. He never took shit, he thought of girls as children and never took them seriously. Apparently he was famous for "all the shit he pulled" when he was still living in the rich suburbs. Once, this girl went upp to him and challenged him about these rumours. Was it true hit x with a champagne bottle in the head? And put him in a coma?Was it true you told y that she would either fuck you or you would throw her off the boat? Trust me this was some serious fking allegations. He just stands there and responds to every one with an ice cold, irritated nodding "yea". When she was finished and he still wouldnt give a shit, she instantly turned a highpitched "Gaaal your so ice cold!!" hitting his shoulder. "Yea". She leaves and he turns to me " maan that girls so obnoxius". For what I know, the allegations were true. I would learn later he is well known by the city police when a common friend found his face in the register while looking for another at the station.

I would challenge him regularly just to watch his evil do its workings. We would stand at the bar, I would point at a girl and he was suppose to pick her up. He hailed her in with his fingers and those ice cold fking eyes, I swear they were worse than Ramsays from GoT. They stood there waiting for the bartender, he didnt conversate, he just stood there in silence with her next and didnt give her the slightest attention. Others would surely engage in conversation. Not Gal. Becuase he doesnt give a fuck. They went home later. Of all my friends, which include some pretty fucking skilled casanovas and athletes, Gal is leading by a long shot in chicks aquired. He stopped counting at 60, mind you this was before the fucker was 20, and its minimum 7.

He was a great pokerplayer aswell. One night he won 300 dollars by playing bad as fuck and failbluffing over and over again, bought himself in, and then won by suddenly having the cards in his bluff. He built up our expectations of him as a sucker and then fucked us with it.

Every winter he goes to Miami with his father and brother to drink and take drugs. One winter, his brother had some LSD leftover he didnt wanna leave behind unused so he took it the evening the day before the flight take off. Gal found him in a tripping mess that morning. He got him trough the airport onto the plane, but their seats were separated so gal calmly went to sleep. He was awoken on a plane having landed somewhere in kentucky becuase a passenger had obstructed the flight and gone bananas. It was his not equally pschotic brother whom had lost it thinking the hole flight was a fake (I mean who goes flying while tripping balls?).He winds up in the hospital directly in front of an FBI agent who spoke of all the shit they were in for about ten minutes and how they costed the company hundreds of thousands of dollars and delayed the flight system. They could face jail. Gal responds with an combination of those ice eyes and "I'll just pretend you didnt say that." the case was closed with his brother being drugged by someone else. FBI was nothing for fking Gal. I read this story in the papers later when he told me about it.

Ive received many pictures the next morning of some great fking chick he coerced into posing naked for the camera, including some real nasty shots. It sure was enyoyable to behold. He would just walk up to girls and talk with them, never break eye contact, never fail a shit test by either ignore or counter, and always, ALWAYS keep frame.

Becuase to Gal there is no other frame but his own, where he is king and the world is his servant. There is no doubt in his mind that he is the best in the world and that he will overtake it, and deserves everything. His thinking doesnt go further than how anyone or anything relates to him.

Its funny though becuase hes still very easy to manipulate, atleast for me. You just have to appeal to his ego. "Gal, wouldnt the best wing man in the world be able to get me that brunette over there?", "Gal, your the best of the two of us you should open that set"

He is loyal to his friends however, that should be noted. I eventually stopped going out with him, it was fascinating but it was dangerous and in the end he was still a billionareson loser, just with next level natural game. We would end up in fights alot since gal never takes shit, his natural killer instinct did the most of it but I can only live dangerously for so long. Ive never net anyone with such game since Gal.

kingintheattic · 2014-07-04T07:10:48+00:00

I know it's a joke But Glen Howerton's character, Dennis, from its always sunny is what I imagine when I hear dark triad. Obviously he's the "blown out of proportion so that it's funny" version.

cray-cray-cray · 2014-07-04T05:29:27+00:00

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hairaware · 2014-07-04T06:54:04+00:00

I feel like dark triad people honestly would come of as incredibly friendly but quite volatile.

tallwheel · 2014-07-04T07:23:08+00:00

He may appear to be the nicest guy you ever met, but only if he needs to be on your good side for his own ends. If you ever find out his true nature, you'll most definitely see him as an asshole.

hohamocha · 2014-07-05T18:48:05+00:00

Summoning /u/illimitableman

Would really like his insight on this since he is a DT expert

mr_throwz · 2014-07-04T03:50:45+00:00

Erm, only a small percentage of people who have "psychopathy" are able to maintain functioning lives.

kanaduhisfruityeh · 2014-07-04T21:37:42+00:00

These are sociopaths/psychopaths. They're scum, but women love them.

fluviant · 2014-07-06T20:36:46+00:00

Amused Mastery is the manifestation of Dark Triad applied to seduction/sexual strategy.

PeteMullersKeyboard · 2014-09-22T01:33:59+00:00

You won't know until it's too late. They're far too insightful and observational to just crash and tumble through life being an enormous asshole.

Instead, they finesse their way through, getting ahead where they can and ensuring that almost all personal interactions have some sort of tangible value to them. They don't make enemies on purpose, and if someone does come to hate them/dislike them, the dark triad individual likely wouldn't care. They are too busy with their master plan to get caught up in someone else's petty emotions such as "hate" or "jealousy".

Charm is necessary, and again...you won't know who you're dealing with until they've already entered your life. After all, you don't just enter a DT's life by accident, or by chance. Not past a certain stage at least. Almost every interaction they make, at least initially, is for a purpose.

I don't know that I'm arrogant enough to proclaim myself one, but I certainly score high on the test that exists online, and I've noticed an increasing tendency towards displaying these characteristics as I age.

BorMato · 2014-07-04T04:35:09+00:00

Check out Illimitable Mans shit on dark triad.

Dubsland12 · 2014-07-04T13:26:48+00:00

Just look at the top tier of WallStreet.

senore_wild · 2014-07-04T03:32:45+00:00

This realm of sexual strategy is not for the faint of heart. Cunning, manipulative, play against all structures and rules including TRP concepts. Deceiving. A master at human emotion and being able to emotionally control every scenario placed in. It transcends theory.

Ever since I've heard of such a concept, I've related with it but I'm not going out of my way to describe it.

It's not something you learn; it's intrinsic, natural. Off the beaten path. Neither Alpha or Beta.

valesauce · 2014-07-04T12:51:45+00:00

It's not cruelty it's just the act of being unapologetic in your actions and motives. I'm an empath = the exact opposite of a psychopath, but, when I first got into my new passion about 2-3 years ago, I definitely adopted dark triad traits in my blind pursuit of knowledge. I met a woman during this time, and my unapologetic and single minded pursuit of my craft attracted her like a fly to me. My dark triad tapered off after several months because well I'm not a dick on purpose, and she started shut testing me, went as far as to say I was soft. It's not about being born with it, it's about emulating the traits in a realistic and truthful manner. While I was not particularly manipulative(just a tiny bit one time), I was quite narcissistic in that I thought I was the fucking shit for what I was accomplishing cuz most people grow neckbeards in their basement, and i was also a bit psychopathic in that I didn't give a fuck unless I was doing what I wanted to do (it's as simple as telling telling a woman to shut up because it's time for you to go to the gym and you need to focus). Elliott hulse is a prime example of dark triad, he's manipulative with his marketing, he's narcissistic in that he thinks he's the shit when he has probably a 90 iq and his every accomplishment is mostly because of the environment he was raised in (great family, next to no trauma of any kind), and genetics that allowed him to compete In high level sports, and he's psychopathic in the sense that he gives some of the most retarded, backwards advice at times, unapologetically, possibly doing more harm than good to impressionable youths who trust him and look to him as a father figure for guidance, and sells them overhyped products whose material you can learn in a 20 minute google search and takes their money and doesn't give a fuck. Yet despite all this, and his transparency with it, he's worshipped as a hero. Just my 2 cents.

EmanuelGold · 2014-07-04T06:49:32+00:00

Are there any books on this type of behaviour, and social dynamics anyone would recommend?

Killigraphy · 2014-12-01T07:27:10+00:00

Off the bat, manipulating people to get what you want, is deemed "asshole territory". By its own definition its underhanded. You can still be a generally "nice" person, and still be controlling and narcissistic. Especially since words like "nice" are often used in blanket terms to describe people.

Ultimately, does it matter? Being called an asshole or douche means absolutely nothing to your own goals. A DT isn't appealing because of charm, its because he gets the best results. Whatever provides the most yield, is worth the effort and or sacrifice, fucking farmers know this.

FallenHighSchoolJock · 2014-07-04T06:05:25+00:00

If you're not living the Patrick Bateman lifestyle, you're failing at life at least a little bit.

asd1100 · 2014-07-04T11:41:17+00:00

It is deeper, the simplest answer is : like a predator.

Now this either nauseating or panty dropping. The thing is you don't care either way.

This is not a different game, this is just a MLG level of the same game. And like any professional level, just training is not enough, you need some inate skills, you can cultivate them but unless you love the game, the benefits are not really enough to justify the work and the consequences resulting from your "training".

circlhat · 2014-07-04T02:55:31+00:00

Dark triad is bad and not recommend by trp, a Dark triad would hit a women to pass her shit test. They are abusive and not to be glorified we only reference it because women love bad boys.

A dark triad is a good way to land in jail with no money and no friends , but hey there is a post where a girl left her 3 kids to meet a convicted felon so yeah it works but its not a life style you really want to live.

Title	How a Dark Triad Man would come off
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