How do i start?

Datanami · 2021-01-12T22:21:40+00:00

Bro chill. You'll make mistakes and that's ok, just learn from them. Good luck

mostafa1022 · 2021-01-13T00:50:19+00:00

Breathe.
All new red pillers go through a preacher stage.
Also, you confronting women with RP theory IS a feeling. You feel the need to reconcile your views and verify reality with them. They can't give you that. For women to admit to these truths they must be cornered and have run out of any other possibility.

To explain the game kills the game.

Don't try to red pill women. Their solipsism makes it impossible for them to recognize unflattering truths.
Don't try to red pill your friends also, very likely you will push them away. People's beliefs are part of their survival toolkit. If you challenge them, you challenge their means for existence. No wonder they need severe traumatic experiences to question their beliefs themselves.

You are 19. I don't want to sound patronizing, but you are very lucky to find this information at that age. Many men live, suffer and die ignorant to it.

MRPTriangle · 2021-01-13T02:17:55+00:00

How do you start?

Forget about women for a little while, any tail you land at this point is going to be pitty tail and that's not worth a damn.

Lift heavy weight until you can't at least 4 times a week. You're not going for gains, you're not doing it so chicks like you, you're doing it because it's good for you and puts your perspective in the right place. Don't be a pussy, keep doing it, when you don't want to, do it anyway. Master your body, master your mind.

Read the redpill handbook. The whole thing. Then do it again, and don't pretend like you understand it because right now you don't and that's going to take time. When you're done with that, hit the wiki, hit the sidebar, just pick something that's recommended and read it. You should be putting away at least 1 book per month.

Get off social media. All of it. If you want to be social, do it in real life like an actual fucking human. Stop watching tv/youtube/tiktok/whatever. The things that you do when you're bored are just pumping dopamine into your skull and leaving you with nothing. Stop eating like shit and learn how to cook your own food. Set aside 8 hours a day to sleep. Drink water.

If you get bored, read or lift, if you still have time to kill, get on something like skillshare or lynda and learn something useful that builds value in yourself, doesn't matter what it is, don't be a bitch with choice fatigue, just pick something.

Allow yourself to get extreme with it, and you'll avoid the heartbreak you just went through. If you don't learn, that heartbreak will be a repeating pattern your whole life, this is the way out. Be a monk, read, lift, learn, build value in yourself, for yourself.

Do that for 6 months, take it seriously, then come back here and figure out how to deal with women.

ClickKlakk · 2021-01-12T23:19:30+00:00

You sound just like me at your age.

From the “built in philosopher” to the being excited and sharing everything, every thought, every feeling.

First, you just need to chill out and read. Filter for the top all time posts. Read the top 200 and all the comments. You will get such a wide array of experiences to draw on you’ll begin to recognize the patterns.

Read the sidebar over and over and over again. Read Book of Pook. Read TRM. NMMNG. Just dig in and enjoy the wealth of experiences to build your expectations off of.

Then at some point begin experimenting with your knowledge.

Start being very withholding. Find a good friend or two and share all your thoughts, ideas, aspirations and problems with them. Be playful with women about yourself. Women love games that they’re trying to win, as long as you make it fun and playful.

Just take some time and take a deep breath. Get your shit together. Lift weights. Eat healthy. Within a few months you will feel like you’re leveling up quickly. Consistency is key.

ShrekthCharge · 2021-01-12T22:34:30+00:00

It’s a hard mindset to grasp if you’re new to the redpill. It took me a long time to get in the right mindset to even start to understand everything around me. I’m still learning too, and I have some beta defaults at times. There’s really no end to it all, you just KEEP at it, and when you look back you’ll see how different/better you are vs when you first started, and you’ll notice that you have red pill habits only because you internalized it over time, not because you memorized everything on the red pill subreddit.

In its truest form, it isn’t habit building, it’s internalizing truth while keeping yourself at the top of your priority list.

bachbozo · 2021-01-13T03:32:46+00:00

Pursue a sport involving nature, the carnivore diet with strategic use of fruit before exercise (90% of serotonin is in small intestine; avoid grains/sugar/lectins at all costs), Magnesium Citrate/Gylycinate + Potassium + D3 + K2 + dried mushroom supplementation (a multivitamin here n there as well), microdose Psilocybin or go for heroic doses if you can handle the fear, retain semen (master orgasming w/o ejaculating with kegels to still have sex, feels the exact same), listen to Bach, and utilize the Buteyko breathing method. The rest should come naturally once your neurochemistry is at its full potential; give her a month tops.

Best

Goon_Into_Troon · 2021-01-13T22:36:28+00:00

Pick up something heavy and put it down.

Sukadadddy · 2021-01-12T23:16:58+00:00

Okay so you like to talk a lot, and analyse things. My advice would be to first look at the sidebar, and then watch this

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLh8oUx_ONafXHhcA45m43A7eNGf9vIrpX

The comedian Patrice is kind of similar to your analytical side so I think you will be able to learn a lot from him.

d3g4d0 · 2021-01-13T07:35:54+00:00

Comment no matter what, okay. My suggestion is this, don't write a wall of text because no one wants to read it. Break your post into paragraphs. And quit being a bitch, it's really that simple.

It's really THAT SIMPLE.

guccibans · 2021-01-13T07:42:32+00:00

48 laws of power:

Law 3. Conceal Your Intentions. Law 4. Always Say Less Than Necessary Law 9. Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Argument

Also read “Talking with Women - Always DARE, never DEER” from archives.

Tl;dr: Sharing all your knowledge and explaining too much shit makes you boring and predictable. You cannot make any man swallow the pill, they must find it on their own.

BrownGummyBear · 2021-01-13T19:24:22+00:00

Stop proving yourself to others, the only person you have to prove something in this life is yourself. You will find mostly pushback if you’re outspoken about the red pill, prepare to lose friendships and be shunned by other blue pills if you talk openly about red pill theory

Angry_runt · 2021-01-13T21:42:25+00:00

“A laser is assigned to find the darkness. Since it lives in a room without doors, or windows, or any other source of light, it thinks this will be easy. But everywhere it turns it sees brightness. Every wall, every piece of furniture it points at is brightly lit. Eventually it concludes there is no darkness, that light is everywhere.”

mostafa1022 · 2021-01-13T00:39:11+00:00

Unfortunately, most people on this sub are beta's who think they are alpha and aren't the best at giving advice. Stop giving a shit about women, get a purpose. This means stopping a lot of negative/toxic things from your life including masturbation (a sign of weakness).

People will say "read the sidebar". In reality, that isn't going to solve your problems unless you understand the true and most important thing to being redpill, which is not being reliant on women or anyone else for your happiness/success. Please, focus on your life and redpill philosophy will naturally come to you. Obsessing this much and asking this many questions about Red Pill shows that you value what women think of you too much and are still in a beta mentality.

ahackercalled4chan · 2021-01-13T00:10:17+00:00

my biggest weakness is that I'm very sensitive it's a part of who i am

how do i fix myself and get to where i want to be?

fucking lift you pussy.

and learn grammar, paragraph spacing, and fucking punctuation.

you want to become the best version of yourself that you can? start there. and then start reading the sidebar.

Vegas_TP · 2021-01-13T05:32:42+00:00

Hit the gym. Find your purpose. Plenty of good coaches on YouTube depending on who you resonate with. 10% Theory / 90% action. Good luck!

Sharmanix · 2021-01-13T12:25:50+00:00

I can relate to you man, take a deep breath and chill for a second.

First things first forget about women. Look at yourself and examine what you want to achieve with your life. What goals you have and what is the life you want to live. Once you have found that idea or drive that pushes you, just pick a direction and go with it.

I'd recommend lifting weights as well, nothing beats stress and beta feelz like picking up heavy shit. I'd recommend learning to meditate, journaling or some other kind of introspective deep work that allows you to examine and compile your thoughts.

Wish I had found this out at your age bro, only swallowed the pill properly last year at the ripe age of 25. You'll be fine and stay the path!

ChurchOfAnimeFeet · 2021-01-13T20:35:37+00:00

I could have wrote the same thing once upon a time bro, it starts as a simple thought though dude, as for over sharing and being a lil sensitive I’m the same it isn’t something bad dude, just don’t share and giveaway anything to people you don’t trust because it’ll come to fuck you in the ass one day, I learned that at a young age.

Title	How do i start?
Author	mostafa1022
Upvotes	11
Comments	29
Date	January 12, 2021 9:57 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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