How tall are you?

Tmick_wtg · 2014-12-15T15:41:12+00:00

I think the biggest problem you'll face from your height is that you measure it to quarter-inch precision.

Watermelon_Salesman · 2014-12-15T15:37:51+00:00

I'm 6'7" and not bad looking. Terrible with women all my life, but much better in recent years.

Height might help if you know how to use it. If you don't - as was my case - it's actually worse. I would notice that no one would ever forget me, that people are always looking at me and remembering my face due to my being tall and drawing attention, and that gave me anxiety. I was afraid to do bold things like cold approaches, because I knew people would always remember me.

For the past 5 years, though, I just don't give a shit.

Now, I've seen way shorter men charm women into doing the most ridiculous things. I've known men who were not that much above 5' handling girls and people, overall, like they were movie stars.

As many, many, many others have pointed out in this forum, height (or penis size, or money, or whatever) might help, but being short is not a dealbreaker. Remember, this is a place where people tell the truth. We're not feminists. We're not the kind of people who will say "you go girl" to obese losers. We're not saying this to make you feel better. It's a fucking fact.

There are things in life that you can do nothing about. Those you simply have to accept and own them. As for everything else - like losing weight, getting fit, or having better game - you do your best and results will come.

NeopolitanAfterglow · 2014-12-15T14:46:47+00:00

"Only" 6 feet tall? That's above average. I'm 5'10, which is average in north America (still above average world wide) and I've never felt my height was a problem.

tombreck2 · 2014-12-15T14:37:49+00:00

Height is only a factor if you let it become one.

williamwilliam2 · 2014-12-15T15:03:22+00:00

A 5' male gymnast teacher, buffed, tattooed, hot-camaro-owner, mohawk-haired, just landed one of the hot moms in my daughter's gymnastics class.

Hokuto199x · 2014-12-15T15:42:48+00:00

The height matters some, but at 5'7" I've done better than taller men I've known. However I will say I've almost universally done better than any man shorter than I am. I think there is a certain point where it gets ridiculously difficult to overcome.

MasterBaiterX · 2014-12-15T14:37:45+00:00

One of the most confident successfull guys I know with chicks hanging on him is 5'8 on a good day.

I think it matters, but not as much as everything else does. It especially doesn't matter if you're basically 6'0.

Granted the dude has a rocking body a nice car a well paying job and a sometimes overwhelmingly gregarious personality. If you go into the field without having good qualities you're gonna blame the height and it will bring you down even more.

Manghamon · 2014-12-15T14:56:55+00:00

6'1 reporting in.
Height has nothing to do with it if your other aspects are on par.

I've seen numerous guys 5'11 or even shorter pull 8's and 9's with their game.

Danedina · 2014-12-15T16:12:39+00:00

It's just an excuse like any other. Not rich enough. Losing my hair. Short legs.

You are 6' tall. Even in Holland you could score.

No excuses. Get out there and fail like a man until you succeed.

TheLife_ · 2014-12-15T16:50:34+00:00

Your height only matters to others as much as it matters to you.

Basically, the only reason your height will be a problem is if you let it get under your skin and put chinks in the bulwark that is your frame. I'm pretty tall by most standards (6'0"), but I play the short game all the time, because I just have to chase a hottie if she stands over 6'3".

Being muscular will more than make up for this, especially with your height not actually being an issue.

taw127 · 2014-12-16T02:53:13+00:00

I'm 5'9".

Best shit I ever did was stop calling myself "5' 9" and a half". It just wreaks of poor self-image.

As far as success with women (or more importantly frame in general) goes: I am good at my job and constantly get moved up / listened to based on (a) the quality of my work (b) the certainty and confidence with which I present it.

I am currently in an LTR with someone who is 5'5". She has no qualms about wearing heels that bring her to 5'10" on special occasions (most women fear bruising their men's egos by being taller. I take it as a reflection of my own comfort with my height that she doesn't feel the need to worry about that).

I have in the past dated/fucked girls ranging from 5'3" to 5'11" (maybe even 6'). One of my longest relationships prior to this one was with someone who was at least my height (if not a hair's breadth taller). Hell, I once had a one-night stand with a 5'11" girl who literally told me "My ideal man is very, very tall." literally an hour before she was deepthroating me.

And hey, if my experiences are insufficient to qualm your worries, listen to Al Pacino (start at 0:45): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tdQ3aXO4gys&noredirect=1

edav786 · 2014-12-15T14:53:46+00:00

I'm a 5'4 15 year old. Being short sucks

exit_sandman · 2014-12-15T16:29:02+00:00

6'-6'1 here.

Having alone doesn't really help you, but it's nice not having to worry about it.

Title	How tall are you?
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Date	December 15, 2014 2:33 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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