Preface: This is a very long rant due to experiences/thoughts relating to TRP and some of the members who complain about their "genetic SMV disadvantages"

 

Over the past few months I slowly started realizing things similar to what The Red Pill says about how women really are different than men. I discovered The Red Pill about a week ago. Over here I started hearing more fledged out concepts of thoughts I had begun to have, and now I can't help but notice patterns with women everywhere

 

It really makes me feel like what I'm looking for in a woman (emotional support, a little bit of kinky-ness, and most importantly, someone who will be my teammate and stick through things and work through life together) is impossible to find. I've found the second a couple of times, the first rarely, and the last never. Women just love to branch swing. At first I thought it was just white women, but then I tried dating a Chinese girl and the same shit happened. My close friend just got his engagement screwed over by a Korean chick. AAWALT (All Attractive Women Are Like That, cause I still believe some of my ugly lady friends know better than to just drop their men haha). It's frustrating to say the least

 

I'm gunna take a second here to mention I haven't fully swallowed The Red Pill, I just agree with a lot of what you say on how women act, but not about how men "should" act. More about that later

 

My roommate (I live with two women in their mid twenties) recently asked what would be my preferred profession for a woman I'm dating. I had never even thought of something like this before in my life, so I told her it doesn't really matter what they do, as long as I enjoy being with them. I don't really like talking about work too much anyways and that's how it's been with my prior LTR ladies too. She then told me she'd love to be with a CEO cause that's sexy. I was very confused on how that specifically is sexy… But it makes sense since many women find "status" sexy. Then our other roommate chimed in talking about how she really likes to get into the artsy types of circles and how finance dudes kinda suck (we live in NYC, there are a lot of finance bros), but she always ends up hooking up with finance dudes… I hate recognizing this bullshit now, it's starting to become predictable which makes talking to women about some things really dull

 

Also, why is it that American women are so PC? I don't get it. To me offense is in the eyes of the offended, and people are way too trigger happy with the term racist these days when others are cracking jokes. American women are not only are the first to dismiss someone for saying stereotypical jokes/remarks about people, but they're the first to ACTUALLY dismiss someone based on appearance and status. I don't like hypocrisy… But maybe it's not hypocrisy in their eyes as it's only bad to jokingly voice remarks that segregate people, and it's fine to quietly push them aside… So dumb…

 

Another thing, to all you insecure folks out there, man the fuck up. If you wasted half the amount of time as you did bitching about your insecurities on actually improving yourself, you'd actually have things to be proud of and not care about whatever stupid insecurity you have. I'm sick of hearing about people complain about their disadvantages and shit, especially if they complain about things that I could complain about, but don't

 

For reference, I'm an early twenties 5'6" brown dude who dates women in the HB 7-9 range that are my height or shorter, but makes out with women in the HB 6-9 range who are less than 5'10". I also find things have only gotten easier as I get older, but that might be more due to me expanding my circles of people/getting more confident. Would things be easier if I was taller and white? I don't care, cause I shoot for my maximal potential as should you

 

I'm not saying you shouldn't acknowledge that a majority of women have a common preference regarding men, but just cause most dudes like pretty white/tan women with big boobs, doesn't mean we don't go for others. Don't let others make you feel ashamed of yourself. Especially the media

 

Go to the gym, get hobbies you like, and learn to socialize in different circles of people. I think social anxiety is bullshit for the most part, it's really just your inexperience. The circles you become comfortable in all around are the ones you'll find it's easiest to pick up women you're interested in (by circle I don't mean close knit group of friends, but circles formed over common interests/activities that are variable with their people). For me it's always been work, friends of friends, or concerts/clubs. I'm currently trying to become more sociable in climbing gyms and see where that takes me

 

In a way I guess I am just saying some blue pill shit like just be yourself and do things you like to do. But also red pill it up by making sure you're the best damn self you could possibly be

 

My disagreement on how men should act. I personally don't like this whole plates thing. I, for whatever reason, have never enjoyed the aftermaths of sex with strangers/people I'm not close to (that being said I still do it on rare occasion). Maybe it's some blue pill brainwashing, or maybe it's genetic, but every time I sleep with someone I don't know or dislike, the first thing I want to do after I cum is pass out/have them leave. I feel like I become very vulnerable post ejaculation which is why I think I don't like strangers around. Plus sex just gets better as you get to know someone's body more and actually enjoy cuddling with afterwards. I'm curious if any of you have also felt this way, said fuck it and overcame it, and were happy with said decision to sleep around more with strangers?

 

I don't need a unicorn, just my hobbies and a horse I can saddle up and keep in line (I look forward to trying y'alls methods for keeping one in line. I never realized there are things such as shit tests and comfort tests). Nice thing about horses though is you can always find another one you have just as much fun riding if not more (not saying losing a horse doesn't suck, but you'll get over it if you let yourself get over it and get back on the saddle). I still think I can find a horse that will work with me as my teammate, so with that I'll say I have not completely swallowed y'alls red pill. At least not yet…

 

Your thoughts, opinions, and criticisms are not just welcome, but encouraged. Just throw some logic in there too like men do