I want to learn

Unf1air3d · 2021-05-02T00:41:06+00:00

Start with top of all time in this sub, then read the sidebar. Read 'The Book of Pook'. After reading the basic things, get out of these forums and figure things out by yourself by trial and error.

GambinosDisciple · 2021-05-02T03:03:53+00:00

This is not what is usually posted in this sub, but when you're looking for personalized situations you refer to a sub called "asktrp" (can't link it).

Two things I'd like to add to the convo

1) It is vital that you read the sidebar. Personally, I've made the progress I have thanks to it. I find the side bar on asktrp easier to digest (sidebar is the "about" section in the sub)

2) That ab scar is gonna look extremely badass when you get ripped :)

javierlh96 · 2021-05-02T00:55:01+00:00

this may not be redpill per se but my best advice for someone your age? to truly don’t care what people think of you. i mean truly live life by your own rules despite what society tells you.

hiktaka · 2021-05-02T01:20:27+00:00

If you are not sure if your growth is already stopped yet, better maximise your last few years of height growth. Buy supplements, eat expensive good foods etc.

Second, be good with money ASAP. Never going into consumptive debt.

iluvhermione · 2021-05-02T01:48:59+00:00

sup dude, I'm pretty sure phimosis is fixable- just get a prescription for the steroid cream and stretch that thing out every night after a hot shower. should be loose enough within 2-3 months of daily stretching

theabstractengineer · 2021-05-02T04:39:20+00:00

Most guys here are just trying to get laid.

They dont know shit about TRUTH.

Take everything here with a spoonful of salt.

Boring_Twist_ · 2021-05-02T05:07:16+00:00

My big thing I am gonna throw your way is mental health is very physically based. Get your diet, exercise and VITAMIN D, in order.

Secondly, a lot of trp can make women out to be bad, and the such. Remember, people are all going through their own shit and we are all basically kids at heart. Stupid and dumb with little understanding of strangers at the end of the day. You don't have to be angry at life for setting you up in a shill. Just make the best out of you and your situation and you will attract wealth and a mate, or whatever you are trying to attract. Just always have an improvement mindset and you shall succeed. I promise you.

zino193 · 2021-05-02T06:50:49+00:00

You are one entitled SOB - thinking you can ask for a special dedicated recipe. But - you are romanian - first one I've bet over here so here's my advice:

Stop refering to yourself as middle class and being of higher status - that is at best autistic, at worse you actually think people care that your parents work hard and they will slap you for it when you pull a "respekt muh middle class authority". Status is felt - how you carry yourself, the jokes you say, the way you party. Also, it's a relative advantage - if you party with UMF students whose parents dish out more than a years income for school - you might be the poor kid. If you go pick up the cute barista that is doing work & school - she might not be able to relate to your toughts as she has real imediate needs or worse look for you to be a paycheck.

Romanian women are great, if they don't suck - you just need to get away from the prim and proper social circles where they behave like strong powerfull successfull women and get to know them behind the scenes. This is espectially true in small towns in transilvania - stay away from middle class romanian girls there - the milk is not worth the squeeze. Magyar whores are where it's at. They are feminine but firm - they are perfect for training frame. They also do not fuck with slobs. Once you can get a hungarian chick - the whole eastern european slavic woman market gets opened up as from Croatia to Siberia - all women work on the same patterns.

Scars are fucking cool and that won't stop you from losing weight and being fit. Phimosis - if your dick works and erections aren't painfull - it will be a interesting quirk that will frame who you are for women. Whether you are someone that she talks excited about or giddy with her friends or someone that she shit talks - will not be dependent on how your dick looks but what you do with it. Don't let that be a excuse. If it works, it needs to work well. If it is painfull - surgery - get it fixed ASAP - no shame, no excuses - it's a fixable medical condition.

You don't have depression, you have comfort and a brain that is struggling to find things to solve. Get out of your comfort zone and get a fucking job in France. Become a bartender and just grind. I promise you that after 6 months of grinding daily like a real man - all your feels that you feel right now will wash away. I promise you that the things you think and worry about will seem childish. I promise you you will gain a perspective that will make you more likeable, more relatable and funnier.

Tell me your actionable points, not your wants - everyone has wants motherfucker - but what are you doing today to get a little bit closer to the want?

VDKay · 2021-05-02T07:21:45+00:00

You are middle-upper class. Laser eye surgery and braces are relatively inexpensive and will go a long way improving your looks and confidence. Dick can also be fixed with surgery or medication. That ab scar story is gonna be more powerful than any abs. I trust that you are already dressing well. Getting orthopedic shoe bottoms to give you 3-5 more cm can also help a lot

About the approach, getting ripped is a noble goal if you want to take that path, but in terms of girls I can tell you that you are already good enough.

The thing now is to work on your confidence e and your game and expand you circle as much as you can or at least lay the foundations in order to do so in the future (college and post-college). Getting a social hobby is a must.

If you are okayish on the looks department, confident and flash a bit of expensive clothes, car or jewelery, many girls will be respond positive to your approach. As you begin bringing girls home, make sure you give them the best absolutely orgasms they had. Lick them, finger them, nail them against the wall, whatever. Have them shaking. That's the way to get them to come back. Rinse and repeat

Lastly, I wouldn't worry too much about the exchange. In the long run, it will do you more good to just relax, try to have ad much fun as possible and meet as many new people and cultures you can

meerita · 2021-05-02T07:37:36+00:00

My first advice is hit the gym with discipline and consistency. You will see results in one year. 6 months you will start seeing noticeable things but one year will fit.

El3CtRiiCcZ · 2021-05-02T07:49:50+00:00

Don't get stuck in reading too much/theory in general and start taking action.

special_k_5 · 2021-05-02T01:17:27+00:00

Read the rational male by rollo Tomassi. It’s undoubtedly one of the best books in the sphere. Will really help you unplug from the lies

WARNING: It will change your worldview, and leave you slightly angry (“anger phase”) but imho it’s well worth it in the end. Good luck young cadet!

shaggy1452 · 2021-05-02T01:23:34+00:00

At 17... if i could go back and do it all over again, i wouldn’t give a fuck about girls. Almost every girl i fucked in high school led to drama and problems that i really didn’t need. That being said, when you’re 17, all you really want to do is fuck, so do that. Fuck them, and let them know in advance that you are not in a relationship, if they don’t like that idea then tough shit, you don’t have time for a relationship, on to the next one.

rookieMale · 2021-05-02T05:58:27+00:00

Scar could be used as a childhood fight story. Chicks dig that

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WisdomPilgrim · 2021-05-02T04:21:05+00:00

trp equips you with the cold, hard truth. the most import thing is how you act upon this truth

AlfredKinsey · 2021-05-02T04:27:00+00:00

Romanian women are some of the hottest, you’re lucky. From what you’re saying, understand the idea of outcome independence and grow it in you. You sound desperate with expectations. Instead, have fun and will yourself into a happy person that women want to be around. Expecting to get laid abroad, which is fun and easy to do, will dry up pussy fast. Focus on improving yourself and reading what /u/unf1air3d told you to read. Where are you at with your French? I am learning and in my second month of study, if you want a Francais accountabilibuddy. 5’7”, n-count over 70 at 31 y.o. Currently running four plates from ages 21-31. The strategies on these forums will transform your life if you put in the effort.

btt069 · 2021-05-02T05:36:53+00:00

Brother, every advice you see here, take it with a grain of salt.
With that being said, this is what you do everyday to make your life better overtime. These things will have compound effect on you:
Sleep 8+ hours
Clean Diet
Lift, Lift harder, Lift heavier.
Meditate 30 mins a day
Talk to everyone holding your frame(socialize)
Have a hobby
Study/learn/Read

Grooming, cold showering, no fap, no porn are extremely good things to do.
Get your Braces as soon as you can. Have a dressing sense, there is a Malefashionadvice sub.

Books to read (my order):
No more Mr. nice guy

Models

How to win friends and influence people

The book of Pook

The rational male

The Charishma Myth

The 7 habits of highly successful people

What every body is saying

The Like Switch

Never Spilt The Difference

The art of Seduction

48 laws of Power

The Art of War

Mastery

The sex god method

SIDEBAR, Read TRP posts Daily.

I want to learn

Brief presentation

Physical Health

Mental Health

Game

The exchange

Goals for the future

Advise me, please. Tell me where I am wrong.

Comments

Title	I want to learn
Author	mindsanitizer27
Upvotes	56
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Date	May 2, 2021 12:26 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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