Instagram is the main place i use to meet girls. I just find it easy, comfortable, and the options are endless. Different things work for different people, and Instagram works better for me than anything else.
Now, what i find quite intriguing is that most of you here have a real bad impression of Instagram and think Tinder is the way to go. My experience tells me exactly the opposite.
Tinder matches are rare, even if you're not that bad looking. You can't message a girl and try to charm her with your personality. Either she likes your looks or not, and there isn't much you can do about that.
On Instagram looks also matter a lot, but what i found is that you do have a chance to win her over through your personality, just by sending a message, which is something you can't do on Tinder. I can guarantee you that girls on Instagram have ignored my first couple of messages, but iafter insisting and teasing them a little more they ended up responding and talking to me. This is a possibility you just don't have on Tinder.
A lot of you say girls on Instagram get too many messages and because of that they'll just ignore you, etc, etc, etc. My take on that is that this is definitely true to A LOOOT of girls, but certainly not to every girl. Even girls who are cute aren't necessarily bombarded with messages everyday. And i know this for a fact because i've asked this to many girls and i've also had direct access to some girls account's(with their permission) and i've seen with my own eyes that they don't receive nearly as many messages as a lot of you may think.
Now, this has nothing to do with them being hot or not. In fact, i know pretty hot girls who rarely receive messages and extremely fat girls who receive tons of messages on a daily basis. Not sure, why, but this is what i've seen and been told.
Is it maybe a geographic thing? Maybe in some countries every single girl gets dozens of messages everyday while girls from other countries not so much? I don't know. Maybe. But the whole "they have 200 messages in their inbox" narrative is just not true for everygirl. Not where i live.
Also: a girl might receive a lot of messages, but 99% of those messages are more of the same, which gives you a nice opportunity to stand out, and that's exactly how i've landed a pretty solid number of dates. And they directly tell me exactly that.
I find that Tinder girls, on the other hand, are a lot more used to this whole online dating game. They're more used to talk to guys who wanna fuck them, and because of that, they're a little more difficult to impress. These are girls that pretty much every single day talk to strangers that wanna fuck them. This is not every girl's reality though. A lot of girls receive these types of messages once in a while, but they find them lame and don't engage.
I understand a lot of you won't agree with me or relate with what i'm saying. I'm not here trying to say other people are wrong. But i just find it very curious how some people look at a method that i use with decent success and classify it as worthless. Maybe in different countries the situation is different, but for me it works better than anything else. And i'm not even great looking. I barely have any pics of myself, and i still number closed over 30 decent looking girls in the last year.
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