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Interesting TwoX rationalization thread

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April 12, 2013
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Title Interesting TwoX rationalization thread
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Date April 12, 2013 9:29 AM UTC
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[–]RedSeddit[S] 28 points29 points30 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It seems most of the posters seem to see it as normal and ok behaviour but make sure to never tell any future boyfriend about it.

[–]Ethan47 17 points18 points19 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Makes me shiver to think about what I didn't know about my exes pasts (when I was blue pill).

Now that I spin plates, girls will often divulge their sexual history when they realize I'm not going to commit (weird tactic, I don't get it). I've had multiple girls put on a sweet act and then later tell me about their ride on the cock carousel.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They're trying to make you jealous.

[–]p3ndulum 30 points31 points32 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I feel like my head is going to cave in on itself.

Feminism is all "don't objectify us/use us for sex" in one breath, and then it's all "there's nothing wrong with fucking 14 guys in one summer, having orgies on the side of the road, and sniffing coke off of dicks" in the next. Idfgi.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points23 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Theres nothing to really understand. They want a world without consequences.

[–]Lakey91 14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

I'll point out that if she is bipolar then she is mentally ill. Part of it is having periods of having almost no inhibitions (amongst other things). There's rationalisation in the thread, but there's a difference between being a common or garden slut and having a mental illness that amplifies any intrinsic sluttitude.

[–]Modredpillschool 25 points26 points27 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You know, there was a woman who was drugging her child and posting pictures on facebook. Everybody on reddit pointed out the disorder's name. There's a name for doing this. There is a diagnosis for a woman that does terrible things to her child.

You know what they call a man who does terrible things? An abuser.

He doesn't get a medical scapegoat.

Explain to me why there's a mental illness diagnosis for just about anything that might hold a woman culpable for her actions.

[–]TehGinjaNinja 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's because the stereo type of women as inately good, harmless and nuturing is so ingrained in our culture that people need to have a rationale for female abusers. Without an explanation for why the abuse happens they can't confront the reality of it. This is especially true when mothers abuse their children.

[–]Lakey91 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Never said she wasn't culpable, but certainly BPAD is a mitigating factor. Bipolar Affective Disorder won't turn a chaste loving wife into a slut. It reduces inhibitions and inhibits fear; if she's interested in having sex with strangers, but doesn't because of social pressure or fear of pregnancy, BPAD will act against the social pressure and fear, allowing but not causing her to sleep around.

Background is also a factor. I took a history from a guy with BPAD who had a loving stable family but moved around a lot (dad was military). His hypo-mania made him one of the best men in his field of work. He only had a breakdown when external factors built up a lot of stress on the job.

I'm not saying BPAD is an excuse for anything, rather it's a partial explanation.

[–]thelostapostle 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I've seen all of this nonsense typically come with either women that are bipolar or BPD. How would a guy go about realizing this and avoiding this. In almost everyone of these fucked up headcase cheating, slutting up scenarios they end up being either bipolar or borderline. Like I can tell when someone is recapping their actions, but how would you tell IRL?

[–]TehGinjaNinja 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The same way you tell if a woman is into you in the first place; watcher her behavior closely. If you're worried, read up on the symptoms of these disorders and watch for indicators in the women you are involved with.

[–]r_rships_account 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This article and others on the same site may help.

BTW, many girls diagnosed as bipolar are actually borderlines but are given the bipolar diagnosis for insurance reasons.

[–]soapjackal 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

As someone who suffers from this affliction I am still responsible for my actions.

[–]Lakey91 -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Then you agree with me

[–]soapjackal 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I actually think you're ignorant, and have no right to talk about something you do not fully understand.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]soapjackal 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Considering I don't have to read an entire thread of other things you've responded to to validate the comment I was replying to, here's the thing.

Manic-depression makes you desire certain things at certain times much more than your avg. person.

I may crave excessive amounts of alcohol at one moment, and then crave sweet relief via the jump off a tall building.

That does not absolve responsibility for any of those actions. That woman, like myself, as agency. When ever I feel the alcoholic super-urge coming on I keep myself in my apartment and I write and listen to music so that the substance doesn't control me. She could act with agency and not go out or call an ex, it's that simple.

I did notice that you mention that someone in that position should get help and therapy to get past thier problem, and this is true.

The problem was your initial comment which acts as a way of giving her an excuse. You may not believe that as a person, but your initial comment did communicate that. It makes you seem ignorant and it's counter to helping people get past it. I may misunderstand the initial comment when in the context of all the other comments (which I'm not linked to) but you still wrote an ignorant comment. From my perspective that's not a misunderstanding I'm reacting to emotionally, that's you poorly communicating.

[–]r_rships_account 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Labels like bipolar and borderline are given to sluts to protect them from the consequences of their sluttitude.

[–]Lakey91 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Indeed, but there's a difference between that which is self-diagnosed, and that which is real. One woman may slut it up and claim to have a disease, another may actually have it and slut it up but only during her manic phase.

How to tell the difference:

Someone with real BPAD will suffer manic and depressive episodes periodically. She may or may not slut it up during mania, depending on whether she has those traits normally. She will be generally uninhibited as well, having little personal space, talking loudly and changing subject often. During the depressive phase, she is unlikely to want to have sex at all, even with alphas.

Someone with real BPAD will most likely regret her actions during mania (it contributes to the depressive phase). She is unlikely to say that she thinks it's fine to sleep around or rationalise it away and unlikely to claim BPAD is a get out of jail free card.

Someone with real BPAD will receive a diagnosis from a psychiatrist with a medical degree and be on treatment (Lithium works very well)

BPAD is not a gendered diagnosis; men get it as well. Sexual inhibition is a symptom, but it depends on the person's personal traits. If she's not a slut, she won't be more of a slut during her manic phase.

I'm not suggesting it's a good idea to get into a relationship with a girl with BPAD (it's not), just that it's something beyond general sluttitude. There are plenty of euthymic women who rationalise promiscuity enough. They are the ones saying what that girl did was perfectly fine. If she listened to their rationalisation, then she wouldn't seek psychiatric help. Only by pointing out the absurdity of her behaviour can she wake up to it.

[–]r_rships_account 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The problem is that most female bipolars are borderlines in disguise.

[–]shamanbard 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know a few bipolar women and this episode isn't something she can lock away or sweep under the rug. It's not if, but a matter of when she goes on another drug fueled cock binge. Hopefully she avoids marriage or kids, because the hubby will get cheated on, and is she's a single mom, the kids will get taken away by the state.

[–]be_tru 27 points28 points29 points 13 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1c2tdv/ive_done_things_in_my_past_that_make_me_feel_like/c9citq6

-10 downvotes for simply saying he would want to know about it, in a much nicer way than I would have. What an awful subreddit TwoX is.

It must be amazing to have a vagina and suddenly feel free of any accountability for my actions.

[–]TRP Vanguardss_camaro 22 points23 points24 points 13 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Sheeeet:

From age 18-20 my partner number went from 1 to almost thirty. I snorted coke off some guys dick because it was free.

This happens to Nice GuysTM.... all the time.... not.

Now I don't do any drugs, I watch my drinking, and I have only slept with 2 people in 4 years.

Translation: "Now I shamelessly use sex as a beta bargaining chip in exclusive relationsh*ts."

[–]be_tru 10 points11 points12 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

At least she's getting advice from some real quality women there.

[–]TRP Vanguardss_camaro 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

If opinions are like a$$holes, then TwoX is equivalent of toilet stalls during playoffs.

[–]annul 10 points11 points12 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

this is the internet, yo. we can curse here.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, TwoX is a lot better than SRS.

[–]RedSunBlue 17 points18 points19 points 13 years ago (49 children) | Copy Link

I wouldn't even call this rationalization. The girl knows what she did and she doesn't seem to be trying to absolve herself of responsibility for her actions. Quite the opposite, actually: she feels terrible because of how people will judge her based on her decisions.

If there's anything to be learned here it's if you inquire about a chick's sexual history and she says, "You don't want to know," it may be better to remain ignorant.

[–]silent_regard 20 points21 points22 points 13 years ago (45 children) | Copy Link

She may not be rationalizing but all those commenters are surely doing it for her. They strongly imply that being that promiscuous is a perfectly reasonable path for a women to take, but that lifestyle is "just not for me," after having ridden the carousel of course.

[–]be_tru 18 points19 points20 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

My main problem is their "hush hush... he doesn't need to know!" attitude.

[–]Ethan47 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't get upset with it, just internalize it. Just remember this the next time you date a seemingly sweet-innocent young thing...

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's how they behave with their current boyfriends when they're fielding new "guy friends" as well. The boyfriend either doesn't need to know or be mentioned, or "you're just friends".

Many women are adept at this sort of deceit even if they come across as entirely cute and innocent. It used to blow my mind but I have some dates scheduled with "taken" women, yet again. It's becoming business as usual.

[–]TehGinjaNinja 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (41 children) | Copy Link

Why isn't it a reasonable path?

I thought the RedPill philosophy was about recognizing the realities of human (and in particular, female) sexual psychology and using it to your advantage; not condemning it.

[–]Endorsed Contributorracontemoi 11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (39 children) | Copy Link

You can't wife a whore, so it's good to be able to spot one.

[–]TehGinjaNinja 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (38 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough, but that presuposes that the only "reasonable path" for a woman is to become a wife. Is that part of the RedPill perspective?

Serious question as I'm still reading through the background materials in the sidebar

[–]silent_regard 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

I'm not saying girls can't sleep around and have a little fun, but having unprotected one night stands with a dozen+ men at the age of 18 is not something most men find attractive in a woman and it doesn't really bode well for her prime years. It's her prerogative, sure, and it might suit some women fine, but I think most red pillers recognize that biology dictates that most women will want to settle down and have children some day. There are exceptions for sure, but you can't really fight biology without hormone treatment.

When a woman focuses on her career and sleeping around until she's over 30 she's most likely going to price herself out of the market. She's about to lose her ability to have children, she's losing her youthful looks, if she's been sleeping around a lot she's most likely at least a little bit jaded. I'm simply saying that strategy is not optimal. She might still land a good guy, but compared to what she could get a few years earlier, she's settling. This was a bit short and possibly not convincing, but there's a really good article around here that explains it better in a few more words.

To answer your earlier question... we are using sexual psychology to our advantage. We aren't condemning sexual psychology, we are condemning the current culture that DENIES sexual psychology. We are working within the system as it currently exists to get the most out of it. That means a lot of us are sleeping around, because it's easy, and our culture is not pumping out wife suitable women. In the absence of a meaningful long term relationship, sex is better than no sex. That being said, I would much prefer to find a keeper and keep her, but I don't really expect that to happen in this climate.

[–]TehGinjaNinja 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

having unprotected one night stands with a dozen+ men at the age of 18 is not something most men find attractive in a woman and it doesn't really bode well for her prime years.

Granted, but if we're going address that specific case lets not lose sight of the fact that she was in the middle of a manic episode. Her mental illness is what doesn't bode well for her future, not simple promiscuity.

When a woman focuses on her career and sleeping around until she's over 30 she's most likely going to price herself out of the market. She's about to lose her ability to have children, she's losing her youthful looks, if she's been sleeping around a lot she's most likely at least a little bit jaded. I'm simply saying that strategy is not optimal. She might still land a good guy, but compared to what she could get a few years earlier, she's settling. ... We aren't condemning sexual psychology, we are condemning the current culture that DENIES sexual psychology.

Ok, I can understand that. The thrust of the critique then is not so much at the girl (who, to her credit, now recognizes her behavior was unhealthy) but the other women in the thread who were cheering her on without warning her about the possible consequences to her future.

[–]Modredpillschool 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

When all negative actions of a woman are pathologized as mental illness instead of simply her choice, all women are victims and none can do wrong.

[–]TehGinjaNinja 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

This isn't like excusing her behavior because she "has low self esteem" or "has a hormone imbalance". I had a friend in highschool who was bi-polar, he would do crazy, stupid, reckless crap when he went off his meds. He got arrested more than once. This chicks sexcapades are realtively tame by comparison.

And we should note, she's not letting herself off the hook. She knows that her behavior was reckless and stupid and took responsibility for it.

[–]Modredpillschool 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

This chicks sexcapades are realtively tame by comparison.

So why do we talk about it like her "episode" was somehow controlling her?

[–]TehGinjaNinja1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I'm not talk about it like her "episode" was controlling her. I'm acknowledging that her mental illness compromised her judgement and thus reduced her culpability. That friend of mine who got arrested; he never did time anytime because the courts recognized his reduced culpability.

A bi-polar individual in the midst of a manic episode will often believe they are infailible and/or invincible. To them it seems like nothing can ever go wrong, and even their most stupid ideas seem like brilliant plans. Be honest; if you were invincible and nothing could go wrong for you, what would you do with that kind of power?

Having a crap load of unprotected sex with willing partners seems a fairly harmless use of that sense of power. My friend from HS commited acts of vandalism, tried to evade the police and then tried to fight them off. If you or I hit a cop we would probably go to prison. He got probation, a court appointed councilor and put back on his meds.

[–][deleted]2 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

the problem is that she wants to hide her past and is being cheered on. like its not his business. thats a far bigger problem than anything else.

would they like it if a man would lie to them that way? i dont think so. so, her past may or may not be a dealbreaker. but you should at least know and make your decision.

[–]TehGinjaNinja1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

her past may or may not be a dealbreaker. but you should at least know and make your decision.

I wouldn't dispute that.

However, you may be maligning her a bit by assuming she wants to "hide her past". Yes, she's clearly embarrassed about it now, but the very fact that she asked whether she should tell a future boyfriend about it or not indicates some desire on her part to be open and honest.

The problem again seems to be more with some of the women on the forum who were asserting that her past is not the business of a future boyfriend.

It's also important, that she be open about being bi-polar with men in her future, at least in the context of a LTR.

[–][deleted]2 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

look, you are trying to defend this one person. i am more interested in the bigger picture. ( the genral attitude you see from women)

i dont care if somebody makes the decision to fuck around and have sex with 1000 people directly after meeting them. its their life, they can do what they want.

BUT, its entirely my business on what merits i judge her and everybody eslse. nobody has the right to dictate what i can find attractive and what i cant. which is what they are doing.

what i also cant understand how a person can be a total slut (again, i dont even care. i wouldnt hate her or treat her any less then anybody else if i met her) and then later act as if they are not.

how does it make sense for a woman to fuck around until one day to decide to settle down and act as if she is a conservaive virgin and let men wait for months until sleeping with them. so that they respect her for not being easy. never mind she spend a decade being easy.

or when a woman lets a men wait for months to "build" a relationship and AT THE SAME time have one night stands with other man and think that it makes sense. that she will be respected by him. when i read shit like that i just dont ...

[–]TehGinjaNinja1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Easy brother, I'm not defending her (I ain't no white knight). I'm just trying to keep our conversations accurate and objective. I place a high priority on maintaining my personal credibility. I'm not going to ignore relevant facts in a debate in a public forum just because they are inconvenient to our shared perspective.

I completely get where you're coming from on "the general attitude you see from women" i.e. the hypocrisy you are addressing here:

how does it make sense for a woman to fuck around until one day to decide to settle down and act as if she is a conservaive virgin and let men wait for months until sleeping with them. so that they respect her for not being easy. never mind she spend a decade being easy.

or when a woman lets a men wait for months to "build" a relationship and AT THE SAME time have one night stands with other man and think that it makes sense. that she will be respected by him. when i read shit like that i just dont ...

The hypocrisy of slutting it up with some guys, while making others wait. A hypocrisy which is especially infuriating when the men they slut it up for are assholes they claim to hate, and the men they make wait are nice guys they claim to want. Trust me brother, you are preaching to the choir with me.

The reason I keep trying to focus the conversation on the fact that this girl was mentally ill, and that our critique should be focused on the women cheering her on, is because that's the most fucked-up thing about this. This girl engaged in a bout of extreme promiscuity as a result of her illness. She recognized her behavior was aberrant and undesirable after her manic episode passed. Yet there were women on that forum, cheering on her aberrant behavior.

They weren't supporting her. They were supporting her disease. They were applauding literally crazy behavior. Frankly, that to me is far more damning than just the standard sexual hypocrisy we've seen on other occasions. It's one thing to try to rationalize and excuse hypocritical behavior. It's quite another to try to rationalize and excuse mentally aberrant behavior. It's like a sexualized version of this.

[–][deleted]1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

She recognized her behavior was aberrant and undesirable after her manic episode passed. Yet there were women on that forum, cheering on her aberrant behavior.

yes i agree with this. even if you have no problem with promiscuity, she does. but instead of acknowledging that and helping her cope and move farward she is advised to continue doing it and to lie to her future partners.

so yeah, i didnt see it at first. i agree with you. promiscuity in itself may is not a problem but is to her. and if you are right that its the illness that causes her behavior its not even her choice. well what can you do.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

what confuses me about women: they behave like "sluts" fuck around, do drugs have plenty ONS. until some day they realize they are done with it, turn around and pretend it never happened and they are "good" girls now. realy? as if it doesnt matter what they did in the past.

i wouldnt judge a woman for fucking around, its her business. but then to complain that men have a problem entering in relationship with a woman with that history... i dont get it.

[–]FAwhy 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Whats even worse is how they judge men who didn't have much sex or are complete virgins. Just because its easy as pie for her to sleep around doesn't mean its as easy for a guy. Guys actually have to do work to get laid.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

if a guy doesnt get laid hes pathetic and gets shamed, if he does get laid hes a player and a misogynist and objectifies women.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Right. It's fine for you to slut it up. Go right ahead and do it. Just don't expect a man to keep you around after you're "done". Any man who does is in for potential devastation.

[–]cheezy8 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

How old are you? From your comment it kind of comes off like you might be a young guy. If that's the case, RUN. This subreddit is full of bitter neckbeards with an axe to grind because women find them repulsive. This is NOT the place to look for relationship advice or whatever you're looking for. Save yourself.

[–]Modredpillschool 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol. Nobody would ever take you seriously. You use the insult neckbeard in place of an argument. It's like saying "don't eat meat... because only pissfaces eat meat."

Great argument. You've really added intellectual value to our sub.

[+]Modredpillschool -10 points-9 points-8 points 13 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

Oh don't get me wrong, I love to fuck them. I just won't be settling down with them.

The reason we criticize is simple: They're making poor choices that will make me happy short term while I find a mate, but will make them happy short term while they use up their remaining time to find a mate.

I will fuck a 20 year old slut. And I will eventually settle down with a 20 year old conservative girl. Win/win for me. Not for the slut.

[–]cheezy8 32 points33 points34 points 13 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

LOL

don't worry, nobody's lining up to sleep with you

[–]LadyCrawley420 22 points23 points24 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

He thinks he's such a stud.. It's funny

[+]Modredpillschool -11 points-10 points-9 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Ryan Reynolds and Jesus Christ had a baby. I ate him and became me. Fear me for I have consensual sex with women against their wills.

[–]Hayleyk 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Fuck Ryan Reynolds. Why do people like him?

[–]sicarim 15 points16 points17 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

that's what makes all RPers funny. They think manipulating people makes them more desirable, when it just makes them sick fucks.

[+]Modredpillschool -12 points-11 points-10 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Question, are women able to make decisions for themselves like adults?

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

how would you know?

[+]Modredpillschool -8 points-7 points-6 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Thing is cheezy, you don't know who I am in real life. I could be the next guy you meet and you'll never know because I pretend to be nice. To be sure... you should suspect all men are me and avoid us entirely. Last thing you want is an accidental consensual hookup against your will.

[–]-HarrietPotter- 11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I'm not worried. PUAs typically aren't very good at blending in...

[+]Modredpillschool -9 points-8 points-7 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Seven photos and not one of them is me! I thought for sure you'd figure me out.

[–]-HarrietPotter-14 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I like to imagine that a RedPill community meetup would look like the set of a Tim Burton movie.

[–]Sword111 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Oh harrypooper give it up

[–]redpillschool-9 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I was really saddened to see that despite your claims, you actually couldn't avoid me. Of all the pictures on the internet, you have absolutely no clue what I look like! Be careful, you might fall in love with me.

[–]HarrietPotter3011 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Wow seriously, you're just gonna remove my comments and say nothing? Pretending you got the last word when you didn't isn't very Alpha, bro.

[+]Modredpillschool -8 points-7 points-6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh and if you're a dude, stop acting like a chick.

[–]chikinpickle 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Well this chick openly admitted to being diagnosed as mentally ill. Is she? I suppose there is no way of knowing for real, but she clearly has fucking problems.

[–]FAwhy 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

the number of girls who claim to be bipolar is astounding. Every poor decision can be explained away by some sort of disorder...

[–]chikinpickle 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bipolar or not those chicks are a still crazy. Not an excuse for their behavior, but there is a reason why I don't stick my dick in them.

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[–]gotsickfromweed 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bliiiind the bitch

Bliiiind the bitch

[–]_Molon_Labe_ 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the culmination of the modern woman. There are no consequences for her actions. Every action is justified by her own whims, and by the rationalizations of every other woman around her who has done the same thing.

Who cares if you get pregnant? You can remove the problem any way you see fit.

Who cares if you have a child [or four] out of wedlock. You have the state and unwilling taxpayers to back you up, as well as the poor loser you chose to fuck.

Does it matter that you are ruining your life by being unable to fulfill your dreams? Does it matter that you are ruining your children's lives by denying them a father and sending them down a path for mental illness and crime? Does it matter that your sons will be taught the way to treat a woman that was not the way you wanted to be treated? Does it matter that other people, and society as a whole, will suffer for the millions of women just like you that choose to act like this?

No. It does not matter. You will find any number of rationalizations to justify your behavior. You will have a chorus of women singing the same tune to back you up. You will have an army of beta men ready to supplicate for you. You should be shamed, but you will be praised.

And Rome burned quickly, until only the ashes remained...

[–]p3ndulum 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

That post by i_h8_men is satire, right?

[–]TehGinjaNinja 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Brand new user account. Post dripping in stereotyped feminist messaging. Clearly a troll.

[–]annul 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

it seems like an obvious troll to me

[–]RedditBlueit 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's either real, or brilliant satire. Since it's hard to tell which, it doesn't matter.

[–]itsmehobnob -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Poe's Law

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Every top post said don't tell the boyfriend, but if she posted something about finding out that her boyfriend was hiding some shit from his past he would be the devil incarnate.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's the typical "What's mine is mine and what's yours is ours."

It applies to divorce and it'll apply to information.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Not sure what is wrong with her beheivior from a red pill perspective. A bunch of guys laid. She got laid. Win/win imo.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

the problem is that the women believe that they should be able to do whatever they want and men are not allowed to know or care about it.

[–]Modredpillschool 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She got laid as her prime years wasted away. We got laid as we approached our prime years to settle down.

There are quite a few posts on here regarding what positive validation does to a woman's ego. Cock carousel during her twenties? You can believe she's not going to be grounded enough for a meaningful relationship. It ruins chicks.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]TRP Vanguardss_camaro 21 points22 points23 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'll take number 3 for a hundred: "Honesty in Advertising."

[–]Endorsed Contributorracontemoi 14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's both. If you want to procreate, stick to tradcon values. If you want to masturbate into a meat sock, try not to waste good coke on dumb sluts like the one in this post.

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