Just a word

SkorchZang · 2016-03-18T05:33:17+00:00

Been in the same boat a few years back. It was a great big shock for me as well, just as it was way back when for Napoleon, who famously quipped on record: "All women are filthy, lying whores. Except my mother. But then again, she is a woman too..."

Funnyman Patrice O'Neal explained this another way, in one of his better radioshow appearances: "Man, that's my Mom. My Mom. But, that's me, for my dad...I mean, when they met, my Mom was just another ho to him." It is not right or wrong, it's a question of understanding the natural distortions inherent in the individual perspectives.

I consider the whole experience, while certainly unpleasant, one of the most valuable lessons life taught me about AWALT. Until you go through stuff like this, you may think you understand AWALT, but it's a very insufficient understanding full of self-deceptions still.

All Women Are Women. All Women Are Like That. Only a bluepiller invested in the "women are wondeful" fantasy would think that this is Hate. Absolutely not, this is not hate, it is acceptance and love of women in their ridiculous fickleness and frailty.

ohsoentitled · 2016-03-18T06:24:50+00:00

Here's some practical advice, acquire the proof and tell your dad.

Your mother is an adult and is ultimately responsible for her actions. If she's cheating then it's on her to accept the consequences of being found out.

I empathise with you feeling like you're doing your mom a disservice by grassing her up. But you'd be doing your dad a greater disservice by letting him continually get cheated on, regardless of whether he is beta or alpha.

Finally I feel it's necessary to point this out:

I know that women cannot be blamed for something which is intrinsic in their nature and we need to accept their hypergampous afflictions, and still love them for who they are.

No. Classifying something as a natural female behaviour does not give women a free pass. It is not on you to forgive women for all their shortcomings and love them anyway. Cheating is not acceptable because women are hypergamous.

SureImShore · 2016-03-18T16:52:36+00:00

I know that women cannot be blamed for something which is intrinsic in their nature and we need to accept their hypergampous afflictions

Disagree here. I'm a dude, and violence and procreation are intrinsic to my nature. If I went around breaking shit and caving people's heads in whenever I encountered resistance, I'd be held to task for my actions. Same goes for if I went around raping bitches.

Red Pill Theory gives logical explanations for women's hypergamous behavior, but it doesn't excuse them. Irrespective of AWALT, shitty actions are still shitty actions.

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-03-19T02:24:13+00:00

Your dad needs to prepare for the coming Divorce Rape which if he isn't properly prepared will be even worse than the discovery of the affair.

Odds are your dad has no clue.

You need to tell him the truth here and get him into a mental state of mind to defend against much worse things likely coming later.

Help your dad through this.

The quicker he gets up to speed the better and you should keep it a secret from your Mom until your Dad adjusts to everything.

Advise your Dad to move money out of reach of your Mom if at all possible.

RP15 · 2016-03-18T15:32:59+00:00

I'm pretty sure that one of my brothers is my half brother. Thought about testing it, but what would I do with the results? Destroy my family forever? This is how things are. Let go of the anger.

probpoopin · 2016-03-18T18:32:11+00:00

Telling your dad could be the wake up call he needs. If your significant other was cheating and your kid knew. Wouldn't you want them to tell you? Also, no matter how you slice it, you're lying to your dad. He brought you into this world just as much as your mom. You said he came from a humble beginning and is now financially stable. Sounds like a really good guy who worked his ass off for his family. Whether you want to call him alpha or beta, he still took care of you financially for 18 years and you owe him something. Maybe your dad is beta because he has always been kept in the dark about stuff like this. So really, it's kind of your fault for making him beta and not letting him make the decision of what to do himself. I'm not going to be hateful, but this is really disrespectful for a guy who did so much for you and asked nothing in return. Youre kind of q douche bag son if I'm being honest. I would tell my dad in a heartbeat,because it's the right thing to do.

Rasalom72 · 2016-03-18T12:53:22+00:00

Common mistake... you don't owe your parents SHIT. You didn't choose to be born. You didn't have any say at all. Sure they raised you, but that's what they signed up for when they had a kid.

Don't equate parenting with a debt. Fuck that. You're dad needs to know the truth, and depending on his age, he might be able to find another (younger) woman who will actually respect him enough to not fuck other guys while in a relationship. Of course, this would be helped along if his son were to help him out a bit by offering him one of two pills.... be his Morpheus.

Overkillengine · 2016-03-19T11:05:33+00:00

You live in the Information Age. You have no excuse for not being able to give your father the information he needs to make an informed decision anonymously if you have to.

The only excuse left you have is you just don't want to.

Caucasian-African · 2016-03-22T08:21:29+00:00

Please take your time in deciding what to do.

This is an issue of your mom's creation, not yours. Just because you found out about it does not mean its your cross to bear. I believe that the only person who should bear this burden is the one who created it. Your mother.

Consider talking to your mom. Tell her that you know. Tell her that you think it's a pretty shtty thing to do to your father, who you love. Then ask her what she plans to do about it. In other words, put the pressure where it belongs, on her.

Of course, there may be consequences. She might just break off the affair, and not tell your dad. Maybe that would be best. Or she might keep on with the affair,and leave your dad. But I'd suggest pushing her, instead of dumping it on your dad's lap.

It's a tough one. i wish you the best.

Il128 · 2016-03-18T18:00:06+00:00

AWALT. There's no reason to tell him. Nothing good will come from telling him. She won't stop cheating. He at best will be heart broken and at worst he'll be left heart broken, penniless, alone, looking for a good woman when there are none and divorce raped.

Title	Just a word
Author	thickskinnedwhiteass
Upvotes	22
Comments	32
Date	March 18, 2016 5:21 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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