Living with betas.

bl33dingr3d · 2015-09-28T00:48:42+00:00

Good call on moving out. Either live with guys who will push you to improve yourself or live on your own and be selective with who you associate with. Life's too short to try and coax Billy Beta to stop playing SkyRim and do some burpees.

RedPillJax · 2015-09-28T02:14:41+00:00

Cool. Not really post worthy, but cool.

Yeah, it's cool to be a big fish in a small pond, but if that pond stinks like shit - you're still going to get less fish coming to it.

Remember - frame means you are the environment. Work with it as long as you have to, and move onto greener pastures.

moosevice_dot_com · 2015-09-28T17:23:09+00:00

Oh look it's Mr. Cool Guy posting again.

TeflonDon3000 · 2015-09-28T05:16:49+00:00

I live with a beta as well. He makes our house the absolute pussy drying Mecca.

From White Knighting, to becoming passive-aggressive with my treatment of women, his beta ways are making every social move I do that much harder. And it is absolutely true that who you associate with not only affects your own image to women, but it also affects your own attitude towards life.

Many of you will say that simply overpowering his beta with my alpha ideology shouldn't be too difficult. That's just bullshit.

Every attempt at masculinizing him has backfired with disastrous results for our friendship. I actually feel my alpha attitude is pushing him further down the beta hole.

He doesn't work (legitimately gets disability), doesn't have any income, relies on his mom for emotional and monetary support, spends most days smoking an absurd amount of weed and watching Netflix. Got dumped recently and has expressed no real interest in meeting new women.

What do you do in a situation where who you live with is the type of person who you wouldn't associate with if you didn't live with them?

You fucking move out and move on. To live an Alpha lifestyle, you either have to live with Alphas or live alone.

oldredder · 2015-09-28T00:33:37+00:00

The alpha's job is to form all the betas to make the entire environment/camp/station his kingdom. Your job is incomplete. It will work better once you have the betas working better and keeping a good image, doing what they're told.

They have to know when women come over their place is to leave or serve. Not to try to get pussy. Not unless they're soldier-level beta (which most soldiers are).

Betas don't know how to have real fun other than doing drugs and watching t.v.

That's not beta. Plenty of alphas do the same. Beta's quality is needing leadership. Alpha naturally is the leader. There's also plenty of alphas that have zero ability to have fun, only to lead others in business or combat.

TX_Man_ · 2015-09-28T15:27:35+00:00

What's that phrase "You are the company you keep" or something along those lines. Another statement would be "birds of a feather flock together". This is true of men and women. There was an article about how overweight girls are more likely to have friends who are overweight. Similarly whores of a feather fuck together (alpha sharing) and beta bitches play WoW together.

Women are much more attuned to social cues like these than men are.

Betterthanuatlife · 2015-09-28T19:53:00+00:00

Move in with the frat boys or the football dudes if you want to be around alphas. However don't forget about school either, a lot of these college alphas end up being losers after college due to the fact that they never studied.

CZ-75 · 2015-09-28T18:14:12+00:00

Doing drugs isn't beta. Also, get over yourself.

"I imagined myself being the alpha of the group, the strongest, tallest man of the house, so that whenever women came over, they would fall for me".

RedPill115 · 2015-09-28T03:59:01+00:00

Alpha / Beta isn't the way it's described. I prefer the Alpha / Beta / Delta / Gamma / Omega model:
http://alphagameplan.blogspot.com/2011/03/socio-sexual-hierarchy.html

You can be an Alpha in a house of Betas. Hell, you're ok being a Beta in a house of Beta's as long as you're not the lowest Beta.

Move into a house of Gamma's or Omega's, no girls is coming within 100 yards of the house. That's what "other than doing drugs and watching tv" sounds like to me - closer to Delta / Gamma's. Maybe Omega's if they don't care if women exist or not.

fromdario · 2015-09-29T03:46:15+00:00

"Women don't want to come within 100 yards of this house, no matter how attractive or how many parties I throw."

I appreciate that you are exaggerating....

Still you are always responsible for your own abundance of pussy. You can live with a group of betas/nerds/whatever and score. Your place may not be the party house, but you can go out alone or with a buddy and get some tail and the girls won't really care about your roommates as she is being taken to your room to get fed.

Asoka11111 · 2015-09-28T03:24:44+00:00

Thank you for posting this. I was about to make a terrible mistake out of a sense of surrender, but now I know what I have to say to the offer.

yungkillah · 2015-09-28T04:19:59+00:00

best to live with people who are really into banging girls if that's what you're into. I've lived with 0 women beta men and with dudes who get around a girl every weekend. If you lived with a skilled man like yourself you'll pull way more tail

zuperfly · 2015-09-30T06:09:05+00:00

no matter how attractive? wtf r u talking about. if u were hot they dont give a fuck about anything.

sir_wankalot_here · 2015-09-28T03:46:49+00:00

There is no such thing as bad soldiers, only bad officers.

I was wrong. Women don't want to come within 100 yards of this house, no matter how attractive or how many parties I throw.

That is because you are a loser, and your parties suck. Put all the betas to work organizing your party. And then get the betas to serve you. I have not had a party for ages because they are emotionally draining. As host you have to keep on circulating among the groups keeping everyone entertained. So you notice one group is short of food or drink you get a beta to fetch it.

And women like it when men boss other men around. They will call you a bully and an asshole but it is just hamstering.

Title	Living with betas.
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Date	September 28, 2015 12:24 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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