We are approaching 8,000 subscribers and you all have helped make this community one of the top 100 fastest growing subs on all of Reddit. As we continue to grow we are going to get more and more noise, and it is up to the moderators, EC members, and everyone else to keep this place from losing its signal. Reported comments are showing up regularly, and I am seeing several people calling out rule violations. Continue reporting people who are plugged in and they will be handled, swiftly. For that we thank you. I also wanted to take a minute to discuss Trigger Warnings. No, these aren't words which are going to offend sensibilities - these are words and phrases which are going to get you banned immediately.
Misogyny - Don't even type it, pretend it was removed from the English language. 99% of the time it will just trigger my ban hammer because no one in here hates women, we hate feminists. If we find out anyone in here truly hates women they will be removed with extreme prejudice, and some already have been.
"As a woman..." No one here gives a fuck. Your advice is terrible and it is one of the main reasons this community exists in the first place. This is one of those rare spaces where the fact you have a vagina will work against you, instead of for you. Our experience based theories rely heavily on what women respond to instead of what they say they respond to. This shouldn't come as a surprise but the two rarely line up. You might be sitting there all calm and collected while you utter some useless trope which sounds good, but the second some high value man makes your pussy tingle all that nonsense goes right out of the window. Please spare us your self-righteous indignation, or don't because seeing you blow up in modmail after we ban you can be entertaining. Women don't take rejection very well, weird.
Concern trolling. "I feel this place is too bitter, inexperienced, <insert worthless stereotype here>" If you have a valid concern use modmail, otherwise keep it to yourself. Instaban, no questions asked.
Link/Comment baiting. We realize you probably think you're pretty clever, but I can assure you there is nothing our moderators have not seen. We spend half our time on Reddit in your comment history deciding whether you're a troll or not, and throwaway accounts are almost universally banned at this point. If we see an abundance of RP buzz words in a situation that is too good to be true, it probably is, and you're probably banned.
Now that the unpleasantness is out of the way. It is Friday so you better be heading towards a lifting PR, reading up on RP/Game theory, closing one of the numbers you've recently acquired, or rewarding a long week of work with some moderate self-indulgence - perhaps a new watch or sport coat. If you're not doing any of these types of things get the hell off the internet and increase your status. MAN UP.
Also, flair your threads appropriately.
-SoftHarem
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