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More Rules for Men - GQ Magazine Social Engineering: How to Be Polite to Women Without Pissing Them Off

bgny

September 17, 2014
38 upvotes
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Title More Rules for Men - GQ Magazine Social Engineering: How to Be Polite to Women Without Pissing Them Off
Author

bgny

Upvotes 38
Comments 49
Date September 17, 2014 5:00 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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Comments

[–]SOUTHPAWMIKE 65 points65 points65 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

That last sentence made my blood boil.

Yes, this contradicts that whole women-don't-need-saving thing, but chances are, you're bigger than us—thus you have to be the one who gets killed first.

Disposable gender, gentlemen, disposable gender.

[–]joncho32 points33 points34 points 11 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

Since chances are a man is bigger than a woman he should get payed more for jobs that require physical strength

Misogynist!!!

[–]tombreck2 16 points17 points18 points 11 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

Let's be brutally pragmatic; who is going generally to contribute more to the future of society; a single man or a single woman

[–]phomaniac8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Is this single man Isaac Newton?

[–]1 TRP SupporterFred_Flintstone15 points16 points17 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That single man? Albert Einstein.

[–]DowntownSacramento 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That single man? Julius Caesar? Lincoln? Churchill? Jesus?

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Chances of a given man being Isaac Newton: 1/200,000,000,00. Chances of a given woman reproducing: pretty darn good.

The vast majority of us are disposable. Sperm's cheap, eggs are expensive. You have to make yourself valuable.

[–]loddfavne6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

The planet is overpopulated, we can import all the people we need. Without the work men does, a nation will not prosper.

[–]Dick-Tracy 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

This assumes that all people are equal, and that there is no value in our culture and that we should allow it to be overrun by other cultures.

The west ain't perfect, but goddamn, it's better than most of the places people move here from, and our culture is a big part of that.

[–]loddfavne1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Some immigration for fixing some problems getting labor might be useful. But, the immigration as it is today lacks direction. Much of the immigration we see today is just a negative influence on socitety. The time of no immigration has past, we need to limit immigration and avoid being stupid when we decide who we let in.

[–]Moridakkuboka1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If the West hadn't such low birthrates we wouldn't need immigration.

If we didn't live in such feminized Society we wouldn't have such low birthrates.. etc etc.

[–]loddfavne0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If women aren't able to perform their reproductive roles, they should not be that valuable to society. I still feel that men contribute more to society than women, thus are more valuable. Same conlusion, differnent argument.

[–]metallica11-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes newton died a virgin (supposedly). And nerds have negative sex appeal.

[–]Crackerjacksurgeon2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Unsexy people have negative sex appeal. Your assumption that nerdyness correlates to unsexyness 100% is silly, and Professor Feynman wants a word with you.

[–]DowntownSacramento -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

IF the pussy wasn't on a societal pedestal we'd recognize equal value. With today's technology you can scrape a bovine egg of DNA, throw a sperm in it and voila!

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Single man obviously. What is a single woman supposed to be able to contribute? At most she pops another child out of her pube hole that will never know its father. The single man will slave away at a job that benefits the rest of society and actually makes money for his employer.

[–]tombreck2 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is what I was trying to say; not stricly biological but who has more potential to help out mankind in their lifetime.

[–]loddfavne0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We have overpopulation and men work more, so... I think that single woman would probably loose in terms of utility for the good of society.

[–]VlaDeMaN0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

that's the truth tho isn't it?

man will take a bullet for her, she won't do the same for him.

it's like she almost said the same thing but in different words.

[–]tombreck2 48 points49 points50 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I tend to follow my own rules. I will open the door for a girl on a first date so that I can put my hand on her back to begin kino right off the bat

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's how it's done. Like a boss.

[–]AlfredTheGreatest21 points22 points23 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

These rules are a bit complicated. To avoid the risk of offending any women I'll be impolite to them at all times.

[–]1kick634 points35 points36 points 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

GQ used to stand for Gentleman's Quarterly, correct? Why the fuck is there an article by a woman in it!?

[–]AngraMainyuu38 points39 points40 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because it was sexist, duh! You're not allowed to have a men's magazine without a female overlord supervising your privilege.

[–]joaquim5616 points17 points18 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women have invaded the male spaces over the last few decades.

GQ is trash anyway. It's a shell of its former self and mostly carters to the fashion sense of gay men and metrosexuals.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

YUR TRIGGERIN MEH PATRIARCHY PHOBIA!

[–]AngraMainyuu1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because it was sexist, duh! You're not allowed to have a men's magazine without a female overlord supervising your privilege.

[–]WoahScienceCool13 points14 points15 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Yawn

More useless, conflicting, counterproductive female "advice" on dealing with entitled, spoiled, and hypocritical women.

Im done changing myself for women. Ive forced myself to change so much back in my Blue Pilled days that I barely even know who I am anymore. The last thing I need is more change. Maybe if women are so deathly afraid of being single, childless and alone in an apartment full of cats then perhaps THEY should be the ones to change. I, for one, am DONE.

[+]Force_Titan-6 points-5 points-4 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

The irony is, if you were formally "blue" and now consider yourself "red", you've likely changed for women.

[–]WoahScienceCool1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wrong.

Being blue pilled is unatural indoctrination since adolescence, plain and sample. To be red pilled means to look that past that and see things for what they really are. Theres no "change", its simply getting back in touch with your inner, true, masculine self, like nature intended all along.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Becoming redpill is something that is done for yourself, not women.

[–]VegasXLR2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

More like I went back to how I used to be before filling my head with BP nonsense.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Why is a woman writing for GQ and why is there a picture of some fag sucking a woman's toes?

More like gelding's quarterly.

[–]Dismantlement6 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

we still only make 81 cents to your dollar. Fuckin patriarchy

I'm trying really hard right now to not toss my computer out the window

[–]1gerwig3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What's sad is that the men who need the most help go to resources like GQ in order to get advice on women and manliness, but get the shittiest advice, pushing them down even further.

[–]Wraithwain0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And that is the very reason why we need to get more RP material out there: to battle these damnable things.

And to do that effectively, we need to improve ourselves first.

[–]LibertarianLibertine3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just hold the door because having it slam into the face of the person walking behind me is kind of a dick-move to make.

Also, it's very little effort and it can be a way to open a conversation later with the girl.

[–]Modern__Day__Pricus3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

More fuckery on how to be a "REAL MAN".

This shit only works once you develop the gun. And by gun, i mean the bullshit before just to get a broad's attention these days. You can't come to a gun fight throwing bullets and expect to win. That is why women can't fuck with a dude that just acts nice and gives away his resources AS SOON as he meets her.

This article and many others don't understand that the gun must be build first before you can pull the trigger and get a better shot. The game never ends when it comes to women these days. Starting from a old school position if treating them with undeserved respect will get your dick chopped off ad thrown in a blender as a smoothie shake for her, and her iPhone groupie hoe friends to laugh and drink on.

http://associationofchronos.com/2014/08/23/ill-always-be-there/

This shit only works once you showed her that you are not going to be easy and just fall six feet deep in her pussy trap filled with more dead bodies and orbiters holding on for dear life at a chance to climb the ladder back up for air.

To be a "REAL MAN" is learned from other men and, even SOME women that are so numb and understand the game at a certain age it doesn't even matter to them to expose the secrets of how these new age broads are.

http://associationofchronos.com/2014/08/06/your-man-no-be-a-man/

[–]definitely_hetero 3 points3 points3 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Jezebel writer Lindy West joins GQ as a Culture Writer

That pretty much ends the discussion on GQ.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRed_August0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

Henceforth known as Beta Quarterly

[–]Rogerdodger19852 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Gq and all of men's magazines have been out of touch for the better part of a decade. Trp has filled that void for me.

I don't even hit them up for fashion advice anymore tbh.

[–]Clauderoughly2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Google the author, and you can see she is just another sneering, hipster feminist.

[–]CornyHoosier1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It looks like the only one that changed was that you shouldn't order her food.

Also, why is a woman writing for GQ?

[–]cjmay131 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I didn't even note the authors name until the first example. Then had to scroll up, and realized why I wanted to punch myself squarely in the head.

[–]LittleCrazee2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This isn't even worth the time it has taken me to type this sentence. Pure, unadulterated, unfiltered, masturbatory, self aggrandizing, mental diarrhea.

This is what people with no real journalistic talent write about. Don't waste your time or energy getting excited over it.

It's like your child trying to tell you how to drive your car.

[–]Rogerdodger19850 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Gq and all of men's magazines have been out of touch for the better part of a decade. Trp has filled that void for me.

I don't even hit them up for fashion advice anymore tbh.

[–]TheObelisk0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Isn't chivalry just a fancy word for 'special treatment'?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why should we do any of that tripe?

[–]Rougepellet-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You might say egg is more valuable than sperm. That's true but at the moment the planet has a shit ton of people. Doubt we need that much more.

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