Context: Im a 20 year old fit male in college at the moment. Had a single girlfriend in the past and now realize that i was just her beta push over.

This girl labelled me as one of her orbiters 3 months ago before i found TRP and had no respect for myself. After i found TRP I stopped talking to her for 2 months. Ive spent that time in monk mode and have been lurking here and learning some ways to handle girls in general.

So this is my first 'step' if you will, towards becoming an alpha male.

This girl started texting me lately asking how i was doing and just giving me basic details of the past 2 months of her life. She eventually asked me if i wanted to go to a local festival with her and i recognized that this was a shit test and that if i said yes she would automatically label me as an orbiter once again. I said "Im not really a big fan of that whole setup". Almost immediately she said "never mind". An hour or so later i get a single sad emoji from her. I see that this is another shit test to see if i would cave, ignored that shit and went on about my day.

Now just a few minutes ago i get a text from her asking "Why don't you want to hang out with me? sad emoji". Im ignoring it.

And FYI i do not have oneitis for this girl. Im still partially in monk mode and want to further my knowledge of the game before i go out and try to spin some plates again.

So does this sound like I'm doing pretty well? Holding frame? Any and all advice would great!