So here is a field report that has been bouncing around in my head for the last couple of months. It's my experience with getting myself a sugar babe, and I would highly reccomend it if you're an older guy.

Disclosure - I have nothing to gain in any way for reccomending SeekingArrangement, this is not an ad. This is my honest experience.

Background

Currently I am guy in my late 30's who is money rich and time poor (relatively speaking) and I am married to a woman who is a fantastic red pill wife. Sadly she has medical condition that kills any and all sex drive and renders her chronicly fatigued. Rather than see me climbing the walls with need, we mutially decided that me having a lover on the side would be the best way for us.

While that worked well in theory, we had a stupidly painful time finding said lover for various reasons. Most of the women you'd find via conventional dating means wanted NOTHING to do with a married guy, even with my wife's enthusatstic approval that they should go and fuck my brains out. I wasn't comfortable lying to potential partners and saying I was "cheating" on my wife, even though on the few times I did, I got a much better response. (That's a whole other post)

I filled the gap (heh) with escorts when I was really struggling with the lack of sex, but I always found that to be cold and impersonal, despite the best efforts of the escorts. Plus it was usually only a couple of hours here and there and I wanted WAY more, but didn't want to bankrupt myself in the process. For reference the escorts I was seeing were in about the 300-500 / hr price range.

So on a whim, I created an account on SeekingArrangement, on the off chance I would find a sugar babe for about the same as what I was spending on escorts a month. Turns out a sugar babe is EXACTLY what I needed.

Babes in Sugarland

I had heard about SA from a couple of articles I had read online. I set up my profile with an honest blurb about my situation, my income and my expectations. I browsed the girls on the site, sticking to the 18 - 21 yr old section, left a few messages and didn't really expect much to come of anything based on my previous experience with dating sites. While I have been lifting and getting fit, I am pretty average looking, and I still have a gut on me, despite my best efforts to lose it.

Within the hour I had, not only responses from the girls I had messaged, but messages from other women on the site. Some of them were completely laughable (30 yr old, fat, high allowance expectations) but the majority of responses were from cute girls in the age range I was looking for.

So I chatted with a few about what they were looking for, their expectations (both money wise, and bed wise) and after a couple of days I arranged to meet up with my first potential babe, for a coffee and an "in person" chat to see if we had a spark.

Jane (Not her real name) - Met me the next evening for a drink and she was everything I had hoped for. She was 19, had a fantastic body and was fun, flirty and generally fun to have around. We very quickly hit it off, and that weekend I arranged for her to drop around for a Saturday afternoon of fun in bed, also to meet my wife. She was a little aprehensive, but I assured her my wife wasn't going to claw her eyes out.

When she came over, all three of us hung out for a bit and once she realised my wife was really a ok with everything, she relaxed a lot more and got flirty with me, so I lead her off to the bedroom, and as soon as the door closed I had her pressed up against it, she was super into it, and we spent the next few hours in bed, fucking like bunnies on meth. She was more than happy with a "per visit" arrangement, and money wise, she was way better value than seeing an escort both in the experience and in the $ / hr metric

I was curious about meeting some of the others I had been flirting with, so the next girl I met was Kelly (NHRL), who was a nerdy, cute nerdy 18 yr old cosplay girl. Again her and I hit it off, we had a bunch of similar interests, and she loved the idea of being with an older married guy. She dropped around the next night, and from then on Kelly became my regular babe. She has a 9/10 body and is kinky in all the right ways. She loves that I am dominant, as she is a submissive. She also gets along with my wife like a house on fire.

I still hooked up with Jane for a bit, when Kelly was unavailable, but I had to say good bye to Jane, as she now has a steady boyfriend who has no idea that she was a sugar babe for men twice her age. I almost feel bad for the guy.

Almost.

Lately Kelly has let slip she is Bi, and this weekend we're meeting up with a friend of hers who is up for a 3some with the both of us. Another cute 18 yr old, so my weekend is going to be interesting to say the least.

I have met up with a few other girls off the site, and while they are after an allowance, that seems secondary to the fact that the really like being with older guys. They could ask for double or triple what they do, and likely get it but really they are happy to have an older guy to mess around with an be spoiled a little, and made to feel special. Spoiling Kelly costs me around $500/month, and for that she comes over almost every weekend, stays overnight, and we have a fantastic time.

Summary

If you are an older guy, and you don't have the time or inclination to mess around with dating sites and Tinder and don't mind the idea of trading a little money for a world of fun with a sugarbabe, I highly reccomend it. It's more than worth it for me, beause the sheer aggrovation and annoyance of trying to find a lover via other means is well worth giving Kelly a bit of pocket money, and the occasional present.