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[–]redmountainpill 51 points52 points53 points 9 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Don't talk to cops without a lawyer. Don't talk to your ex-wife. Don't even talk to your daughter right now. Find a trusted friend you can go to. And find a very, very good lawyer.
You are not a nice guy any longer. You are fighting for your life. Your wife and your daughter are not your friends. Have zero contact with them.
[–]ethanmcni 8 points8 points8 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I don't have enough money to pay for a lawyer.
[–]Charlesthehamster 29 points29 points29 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You can afford to get a lawyer. There are payment plans, and sell your fucking car if you have to. Public defense sucks dick. It seems they have no evidence on you except for the word of a 7 year old at this point, no forensics and no previous complaints, e-mails, texts or anything hard. It will be difficult for them to establish any case. But get a fucking good lawyer.
[–]dooogie 11 points12 points13 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wait for a public defender if you have too. But don't ever talk to the cops without a lawyer. Do everything the poster above me said. Call in as many favors as you can to scrounge up the money needed for a good lawyer. It'll be worth it.
[–]Tallsmarthandsome4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Pay day loans, gofundme, pawn shops, you cant afford NOT to get a lawyer!
[–]MayDayBayBay3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you're in Texas, try TLPP. It's a law insurance. The hugest it goes is 45$/mo. If you don't live in Texas, see if your state has something similar!
[–]no_face1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What happened to your PC making business?
[–]the_simurgh1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sell your car and shit to fund your lawyer this works 2 fold because you get a lawyer and she cant get them in the divorce
[–]trippinallday16 points17 points18 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To be honest they're probably going to get a doctor or someone to do some in-depth interviewing of your daughter and I doubt any amount of indoctrinating would be enough to make a 7 year old hold a steady story. Hopefully this will blow up in your ex's face sooner rather than later.
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[–]ethanmcni 5 points5 points5 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I don't think I can...My daughter is only 7 years old.
[–]ethanmcni 6 points6 points6 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I don't think she was being malicious either. I also overheard her talking to my future ex-wife saying "daddy beats me" and all that other bs.
[–]NeoreactionSafe16 points17 points18 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
You have a tough road ahead.
Everything you believed to be true and gave you a sense of calm has been destroyed. (the Blue Pill Matrix world)
You are in shock right now.
Eventually that shock will turn to anger.
Somehow you need to calm yourself down so you can think straight and begin to fight this with the best of your ability. But you must fight using approved channels (like getting a lawyer) and cannot break the law seeking revenge. (which will be your desire once you get past the shock)
The Red Pill community is supportive and very understanding of your condition.
Pretend you just got into a serious auto accident.
Your life has been permanently altered and you need to begin to accept the enormous scale of this.
Be physically careful.
My younger brother got a divorce and then got into an auto accident (nearly died)... don't repeat my brothers mistake.
Focus on getting through each moment.
Protecting your health must be your #1 priority... even though that seems absurd right now.
As soon as possible you need to get some exercise and get your body healthy and thinking clearly. When you are in extreme shock it drains your energy and you can't afford weakness now, this is not a luxury you can indulge. Do not retreat into drugs or alcohol, this is the time to get clear headed and entirely sober.
[–]Jugglerwill 6 points6 points6 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
This is awful. I want to help you bro. This post fills me with rage. Your daughter can at least correct the record when she's older. My dad is a lawyer I'll talk to him for you.
EDIT: can't they test your daughter? If she is still ya know a virgin then they can't prove beyond a reasonable doubt that you did shit. Also prove that your wife cheated somehow.
[–]ethanmcni3 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thanks for talking to him for me. I really appreciate it. :)
[–]RPSnuggles1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she is still ya know a virgin then they can't prove beyond a reasonable doubt that you did shit.
Are women that conniving to think of this and, you know, undo that?
[–]jupc0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Normally, no fault divorce makes cheating a non-issue.
This case is an exception, if its discovery precipitated the false accusation.
In fact, false accusations can have a negative impact on custody for the accuser. In my jurisdiction, there is case law about the effect of false child abuse accusations in a divorce proceeding.
However, first priority is hire an attorney to get the rape accusation dismissed.
[–]redrockaby3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't give up, these false allegations happen alot in custody battles. There are some good legal forums for men going through divorce. They can help you formulate a game plan.
Don't give up, get back in your daughters life in whatever way possible (maybe supervised visits), concentrate on being super dad. Then work to disprove the allegations.
[–]Cobra_McJingleballs7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Either OP is an idiot or this is fake as fuck.
[–]Camberlain0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah. Don't make sense that you would post about something like this until years after the fact when all the dust has settled.
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[–]rpd3zen 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah it's likely fake since he was posting normally yesterday in the build a pc sub.
[–]KimJongUntzUntz0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How can he be locked up for 4 days, if he was posting in a computer sub only yesterday?
[–]trippinallday2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If he wanted a pull quote he could just inspect element and write it himself, it's not like anyone's gonna try and verify it with our reputation.
I doubt a guy who spends his time helping people build their PCs is gonna fabricate a story about his ex wife and 7 year old daughter accusing him of rape just to dig for misogynistic comments.
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[–]trippinallday0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'd like to give him the benefit of the doubt and just assume that he wouldn't make up something that fucked up just to get some snarky responses, but you never know.
[–]jzekyllandhyde1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It doesn't seem like it but we'll have to wait for OP to update us
[–]TheJedi_Lied1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry this is happening. Stay calm, make rational, thought out decisions, silence is your ally. Get the lawyer, cut contact.
[–]eccentricrealist1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They can test your daughter's hymen, see if it's damaged, see if she's lying through a psychological examination etc. Don't act on your impulses. Gather evidence of your wife cheating if you can. Remember she doesn't and won't feel any remorse.
[–]i4mn301 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How can they prove the rape if they do examination? She's gonna burn when that happens. And you better come down on her thundering with the power of a thousand cocks to make sure this bitch regrets those 3 years even beyond the grave.
[–]FilthMonger851 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its your wife who will end up in jail not you. Stay strong brother.
Goes from king lord of buildapc to here when times get rough. Only shows that the redpill is the only option for a man who realizes that women are the ones who do the fucking if you aren't.
[–]liftforaesthetics0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey man, I only have a little experience and advice because I'm younger than many people here, but stick through this. Times seem difficult but over time everything will get better.
The same exact thing happened to a family friend of mine, except he was arrested and spent a night locked up. He also thought his life was over because he thought he would lose his medical practice license.
It's been a slow process for him, but after a year, the charges have been dropped and I think he's going to countersue.
But please listen to everyone else's advice about NOT using a public defender or any other lawyer provided to you at no cost. They're always bad. Do whatever it takes to get a private lawyer. That was an integral role in my family friend getting out of this.
Best of luck. I know you can get through this, although it may be a slow process.
[–]jpowell1800 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is unbelievably horrible - I pray things work out in your favor and your wife is found out and charged for lying about this.
Is this true?
How could someone be so evil? Not only to ruin your life but to make your own daughter claim she was raped by you?
I can understand an evil woman lying about her ex-husband but I can't understand even an EVIL woman putting her own daughter through that.
[–]Grimsterr0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Obvious troll is obvious. You were giving PC advice just yesterday. Nice try though.
[–]ColoradoPI0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep your mouth shut, even though you didn't do anything.
Lawyer up. Find a good private attorney who will do a payment plan. Maybe put it on a credit card if you have to.
If a private attorney really isn't possible, then wait for a public defender.
Either way, insist on them hiring an investigator with experience in sex cases to talk to mom and daughter. I have good success taking to the alleged victim in sex cases and then they admit they made it up. Probably other investigators do.
Check recording laws in your state. If you're allowed to record your conversations without the other person's permission, record any conversation you have with your wife and daughter and anyone else who is close to the issue. This is for your protection. Better yet don't talk to them . But if you do, record if you can.
Trust your attorney.
Divorce that bitch after the criminal case is done and try to get full custody of your kids.
[–]istealalbums1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Look on the bright side. If you wait a while longer, GPU prices should start to fall with the new 1070 & 1080 being released.
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