I was recently called a "filthy bastard" and a "slut" by the girlfriend of a friend. The lady that made these lovely comments is a successful mid 30s career woman, who meet my friend when I opened their 6 set a few months ago.

She stated that everyone has their time being a slut, that she had done her, everyone does it. I think she ranted for the length of time it took me to drink a gin and tonic. I was a terrible person and would be lonely, etc. She also had her boyfriend and another male friend agreeing with her.

This is the second time I've had this telling off by a friends girlfriend recently, has this happened to anyone else? It's usually after their boyfriend has shared something I might have been up to.

However, her body language was the most interesting part of the conversation. While telling me off for trying to enjoy what she herself admitted to enjoying once, she is throwing out a mountain of IOIs; looking for heavy eye contact, smiling, laughing, feet and shoulders facing me, leaning in my direction from across the table, occasionally reaching across at me.

During the conversation I've been looking around the bar, making eye contact and smiles with some girls, flirted with the barmaid when she collected some glasses from the table next to us. The only time I make eye contact is when I decide to respond to what she just said. At one point she is informing me that I need to grow up and settle down, while bouncing on her chair, playing with her hair and running her fingers around the front of her top and fanning her face with it.

Always maintain frame and ignore what a women says, pay attention to how she acts.