Perfect example why you shouldn't get married to an older chick, or when you're in prime.

atl30313 · 2013-10-31T18:53:10+00:00

Textbook part is she's only interested in his wants and needs when she's worried she is losing control of the relationship.

Costafarian · 2013-10-31T23:10:20+00:00

At this point, I have learned through TRP that marriage is the safe zone for women. The guaranteed trust fund for life, even through divorce.

All one has to do is be a great girlfriend, make the guy believe he could never find anyone else better. And then push for engagement then marriage.

Once she has the ring, she feels there is no danger to her relationship. No danger to losing the man who can pay for her needs as a woman. She births kids if she wants them. Has sex when she wants to if at all, and thinks she runs the show.

Since many men think the key to maintaining pussy is to let them run the show, this is how many divorces seem to happen.

The bottom line of all this is: if you do get married, don't ever think your quest for pussy stops there. And never let her feel safe in the marriage.

kudosxv · 2013-10-31T22:48:43+00:00

Classic "woman gets comfortable once man settles down and she no longer feels she needs to try" syndrome. Very common even amongst girlfriends after pro-longed periods of time. Best way to fix is keep them on their toes at all times and show them other women will value you also.

updock · 2013-10-31T21:50:36+00:00

If "married women don't do that stuff" is her excuse to not have sex with you, then it's time to file for divorce. That's a pretty telling statement from her.

HarleyWalker · 2013-11-01T06:10:59+00:00

I saw that thread earlier. The worst part is the betas acting like he is in the wrong and that there is more to marriage than sex.

He just needs to embrace it though. She obviously needs other women to validate that she has a guy that "deserves" her so he should give her that validation. He should befriend girls down to 27, nothing makes a woman shit herself like another girl ten years younger.

TheeRyanGrey · 2013-10-31T23:47:35+00:00

1.Never date a woman older, more famous, cooler than you are. Can't stress this enough.

2.Fear is the world's great motivator. If your wife/girlfriend/fuck buddy isn't afraid of losing you, you're gonna lose sex pretty quickly.

through_a_ways · 2013-11-01T04:44:31+00:00

http://i.imgur.com/lqKow.jpg

wakethfkupneo · 2013-10-31T23:53:58+00:00

That's exactly what Athol Kay was talking about in "MMSL Primer" book. The guy, without even knowing the theory, successfully executed what Kay calls "Man Action Plan". By working on himself - less neediness (alpha) and appearance he upped his SMV to the point that he became attractive to his wife again (implying she betaized him after after marriage, as usual). And let's not forget SMV aging chart. What Kay argues is that cases like this (women losing sexual interest) are not due to wives being bitches or something, but they just naturally/subconsciously respond to DHV, it directly affects their sex drive (hypergamy effect) and most of them do not even understand what happened and how it works - they just react.

OTOH the guy in the OP can also feel that his new Sex Rank is above her's likely by more than 1 point -> as long as it's within 0-1 range in man's favor it's harmonious relationship, but once above 1.5 or 2 the man can't help but feel she is bellow his league and naturally starts thinking about some other women in his league.

Working as intended. (seriously, read the book)

floor-pi · 2013-11-01T12:15:25+00:00

This is a sucky situation to be in, but to be fair, of course you're going to become more attracted to someone, your partner or otherwise, when they start taking care of themselves. It's not 'magic' as he says, it's just regular old attraction.

thedangerboy · 2013-11-01T12:53:31+00:00

what do you guys think?

I think you married th wrong woman.

cossackman · 2013-11-01T06:16:04+00:00

The honeymoon period has never lasted longer than six months for me. I honestly get bored of the same woman jumping on my pole.

Title	Perfect example why you shouldn't get married to an older chick, or when you're in prime.
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Date	October 31, 2013 6:41 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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