Pickup As A Minority

LeftAndRed’s Guide to Being A Minority And Pickup

Disclaimer: This is stuff I’ve learned through well over a decade of PUA work. My current goal isn’t pickup, it’s making my LTR work, but I thought I’d share this as a topic I haven’t seen addressed.

Overview:

I’ve heard guys say that being a minority is a disadvantage or that some white women will never fuck a minority. This is bullshit, and disregards hypergamy and AWALT. I am black and most of what I talk about will be about how TRP principles apply to black men. It’s not exclusive to black men, the same analysis I use can be applied to any other minority.

Theory:

I am convinced that no woman is racist. It would make 0 sense with their sexual strategy. Invading hordes are always the other and still women spread their legs for the victors. Instead, women are hypergamous and will virtue signal to attain a Chad.

What does this mean? Racist Stacy is only racist because she thinks her Chad is racist. I once fucked a chick who was as ignorant as you get. She asked me as pillow talk if I could swim. I shit you not. Why would someone who was “racist” fuck me? Because no one would find out! She doesn’t actually care, she just believes fucking men of a certain race would damage her value to men of another race. It’s all about appearing a certain way for them.

This is why when actual racists (men) bitch about women being “race traitors” I chuckle. They were never enlisted in your faggot race war to begin with, you cunt.

What does exist, however, are stereotypes. I’m black and so that’s what I know, I can say there are negative stereotypes galore that I have to work with: lazy, aggressive, violent/scary, stupid, unable to commit, etc? There are also some more positive ones: having a big black thundercock, and physical dominance.

The goal is to be perceived as both warm and competent. Being black means you start at the worst spot, incompetent and aggressive. Asians start out as cold and competent. And I suspect most other races are warm and incompetent. DHVs are anything that moves you towards being perceived more warmly or competently. Racist Stacy will fuck you in secret when you achieve this.

So you need to focus on areas of SMV where stereotypes hurt you. They are kinda like a shit test, and if you push through them, it increases your SMV. This is an opportunity! If you pass, you become “exotic” (called “exemplars” in literature.) This is where you’ll occasionally get the condescending compliments about being “well spoken,” “articulate,” or any such variant. Those aren’t said maliciously, they are an IOI! As ignorant and insulting as it is, flirting with a cute girl is (usually) not the time to admonish her about it, its an opportunity to be cocky-funny. In general, all condescending compliments are IOIs. Fight ignorance another time, brother. You’re trying to get your dick wet right now!

Maximize The Power of Stereotypes:

So the good stereotypes are the easiest. If she asks me if I have a big dick, I smirk and tell her she’ll find out. I don’t consider this an IOI because its low-hanging fruit, but it does let me keep it sexual. The major takeaway is to get good canned responses to predictable questions.

As for the bad ones…

I am aware that I am intimidating merely because I got black skin, and I can see it when I approach! Some strange black man just walked over to her? While isolated? What does he want?! This is actually a good thing! I’ve always considered it a bit like the shaky bridge theory, where a little heart racing is good for attraction.

Buuut… You need to calm this hamster fast. The best way to bridge the race gap is to give a “Shit White People Like” demonstration. This makes her feel safe because she can connect. A white guy mentioning kayaking is cool, but as soon as you do, she’ll relax. The first hook into SWPL you can make, the better. Even if it isn’t alpha, remember that you get alpha by default, and you can afford a slight alpha deficiency compared to white guys.

Instead of working hard to display a strong frame, you may find yourself working hard to reveal that your frame is complex and not just violence. If you’re another race, she’ll have expectations of your frame just the same and you will need to bridge this gap all the same. As a black man, mine is focused on the physicality aspect, if you’re asian, maybe you need to show spontaneity.

I like sewing and find that speaking passionately about it helps demonstrate that I have a gentle side. White guys (thanks to manginas) have to spend more time demonstrating strength, we need to spend more time demonstrating comfort. I think a white guy would have to have a rock solid frame and be ripped as shit to talk about sewing dresses the way I do! Lol. Basically, spend time casually demonstrating the opposite of the stereotype ASAP or she’ll run. (Beta Bux is lethal for everyone, never talk about your income.)

Kino is a bit different too. It gives more thrills because it’s more dangerous in her mind for a black man to touch her than a white man. Keep this in mind. A triangle gaze will freeze any woman in place and give a false positive. Use other kino to give an advanced warning. Stroke the face first, put your hand on hers first, but you need something in addition. I once triangle gazed a woman too early. She had the deer in the headlights look that I took as an affirmative, so I went for it. Big mistake! She literally frowned as our lips touched and she looked like she would hyperventilate after. To be fair, this was also before I started SWPL as soon as possible, but I always used an additional kino before a kiss since.

Final thoughts on stereotypes…

Don’t be afraid to embrace the good of them! Don’t be someone who is ashamed of their race. You are pathetic, and smell pathetic to others. Hold frame. This means that your frame is aware of them, and casually disregards what you want. It’s funny to you.

Applying This To Other Races:

OK, so I promised this is for all minorities, and I’m a man who keeps his word. Whatever your flavor is, you need to incorporate it into your game. Ignoring it will be a mistake. Consider what women mean when they say “exotic.” They mean a Chad from outside their racial pool, and they will fuck an exotic chad over a vanilla chad any day of the week. I can’t definitively say whether other races will need to use SWPL, but try it. Look up your group's stereotypes. Yes, I know it's sad, but life sucks for everyone in different ways. Get over it, or regurgitate the red pill.

• Are you Asian? What’s the stereotype? Too controlled, boring, weak? Counter this by lifting, showing spontaneity, and confidence with physical interactions (maybe). When you kino, move her. As a black guy, I kino gently, asians should probably do the opposite. Play up your intelligence and joke about how easy it is.

• Are you Latino? What’s the stereotype? I don’t know what latinos face. Maybe over friendliness? You definitely got the “spicy” latin lover stereotype to work with.

• Are you Indian? What’s the stereotype? Needy? Be aloof and exude abundance. Work on your DNGAF above all else.

And the plethora of other minorities I didn’t mention? Suck it up, and figure it out. Think it through, and do TEST RUNS. You wont see these women again, so you can afford to take risks and fuck them up. At the end of the week, they won’t even remember the pickup that was “weird,” desirable women get literally dozens and dozens a month. Even if you practice on a HB5, her reactions to a fuckup don’t matter. This literally took me 2 years to figure out. Take the mindset of a scientist and try these things out. Don’t feel constrained by following TRP religiously, it works differently for each race and each man.

This guy says many things I agree with, though I disagree that we work at a disadvantage. Managed well, being a minority allows you to gain the exalted “exotic” status, a status that gives you a +3 to SMV if no one will know, and +1 if they might.

Conclusion:

• No woman is actually a racist. They are hypergamous and will fuck the right guy. AWALT and watch what she does not what she says. I have fucked racist Stacy.

• Overcoming stereotypes successfully leads to an “exotic” status which increases your SMV.

• Being a minority is an advantage when picking up a white woman if done right. All things the same.

• SWPL to cross racial apprehension.

• Your actions will be perceived according to the stereotypes. They will come off stronger or weaker depending.

• Do your own tests, be scientific about it.