First time poster to RP. Been cramming my head with information for the last 3-4 months.

Seen massive improvements since. I'm now starting to get what I want out of the relationship.

Story from yesterday I want some insight into. One of the girls at work baked me cupcakes. (IT Bribery, but hey, she's cute too) Put little hearts and shit on them too. Brought them home in the evening and was immediately questioned about them. "Who's making you food and putting hearts on them!?" I replied back with, "Other pretty ladies trying to win my heart through my stomach" and laughed. She wasn't real impressed but that was that. About an hour later she's talking about cooking me dinner. This wasn't normal though. Usually it's a "I'm cooking dinner, do you want some?" Last night it was a "You need dinner and I need to take care of that." followed by something along the lines of, "If that's the way to your heart, I need to get on that."

The rest of the night was her pampering me really. I did what I needed, I took care of a project I needed to get done. Every opportunity she was touching me and wanting to kiss me. I finally got comfy on the couch and she is all over me. It's obvious she wants the D. We start making out and getting hot and heavy. I pull her up and start leading her to the bedroom. I look her in the eyes and say, "You're going to suck my dick and then you're getting ravaged." She giggles.

We get into the room and continue making out as her shirt comes off. Within a few moments, you can tell her hamster is running because she's no longer caught up in the kisses. She's holding back. I look at her and tell her to "Stop it. Kiss me." She comments that she feels there are expectations now. (dick sucking)

This is where I think I went wrong and looking for suggestions for next time.

I told her there are expectations and if she's not willing to oblige, I can find something else to do" She pouts and I drop it. Put my shorts back on, go into the other room to take the dog outside. That was that. Got ready for bed, she was still all lovey, trying to cuddle next to me. I was done though. Went to sleep with her on my chest. This morning you could tell the hamster was going. Haven't heard much from her today.

So... suggestions? How should I have handled that? No doubt I could have gotten sex. I wanted sex, but I also wanted my dick sucked first.