I go out almost every weekend and I always try to be friendly with bouncers so next time when I am there I can cut the line, dont show my id or maybe dont pay any cover...

This time a friend of my friend asked us to join them (Lets call him Feta) Feta knows that I go to clubs a lot.

I arrived Feta's place to pregame, we are 4 guys and he also invited a girl (lets call her Bagel) and her friends to join us so turned out we are 4 guys and 5 girls pregaming at Feta's house.

Bagel and her friends are Au Pairs in other words they are foreigner nannies. Au pairs usually stay in the US for 1 year and go back to their home countries.

I have railed a lot of Au Pair girls so I know their characteristic based on what region they are from.

Bagel and all her friends are from western europe, western european au pairs usually come here US right after high school or they freeze their college to come here.  Usually most of these girls are just under 21... And also since they are young and they want to have fun and experience new stuff so they are usually dtf, and for some reason girls from that specific country love black dudes.

Bagel and her friends were not exceptions; two of them were 21 years old and rest of them were 20 years old.

Bagel is the most attractive one I would say an 8, and rest of the girls are 6 or 7. All 4 guys including me trying to attract Bagel and just being friendly with rest of the girls during the pregame.

Feta told us he wants to bone Bagel, they have been hanging out for 3-4 weeks now and he has not gotten lucky so far but tonight he wants to get lucky.

So Feta brought up the topic that he want to reserve a table to "impress the girls" , I told him I dont want to reserve a table because it is not a special occasion. (a table is around $1500 with two bottles of drinks). He agreed that he is going to pay the table as long as we can get the girls in the club because three of them are 20 years old.

I am not interested any of the girls at this point, all I care is use them as pivots and since we already going to have a table service I should attract other girls in the club...

Anyways we went to club I told the bouncer that we want to get table service; he called a hostess. Since I know the bouncer he didnt check ids of anyone in the group. We got a table next to dance floor, hostess opened two bottles of vodka for us.

Guess what happened next?? After preparing themselves a drink, Bagel and rest of the girls disappeared in the crowd. Thru the night when they needed a drink they stopped by the table got their booze and continued to grind on other dudes. Until there was no more drinks left on the table...

Meanwhile Feta sat on the table with a sad look all night, I have seen some of the girls grinding and making out with black dudes. I didnt see any of the girls rest of the night, I tried to pick up some random girls and bring the to our table. I ended up getting two numbers that night but thats not the point.

Point is dont be Feta! Feta paid $1300 that night, his female friends used him to enter the club and to get free booze. He sat there all night while a random dude making out with Bagel and getting free drinks via Bagel, and most probably railing her that night.

When you feel you are being like Feta, call yourself out and stop that behavior! *unless you are rich, dont try to impress girls with money; Feta probably makes around $70k a year so $1300 is his monthly rent!

*Dont reward bad behavior! If your date or a random girl you are hitting on is not showing any interest to you dont buy them drinks , don't make them any favors! Don't be the nice guy.

*If things are not going as you expected DO NOT QUIT, I can't tell you how important this is; Feta had the upper hand; we didnt wait in the line, nobody checked our ids, we had table service and we entered to the club with 5 girls, lots of "high value"  and "social proof" there. He could have tried to approach other girls in the club and use the opportunity.

*try to merge people! If you are in a club and you see bunch of dudes sitting alone in a vip table use that opportunity to raise your value, you can approach 2-3 girls introduce yourself and eject, you can go to vip table you can introduce yourself and then you can bring the girls to the table and merge two groups. If you do this right it can be a powerful skill set in your arsenal.

P.S. I referenced the word "Black Dudes" few times in the post because girls I banged from that specific country told me they are into black guys because they want to try sleeping with them at least once before they leave US so I guess black guys have a reputation in their country. So sometimes I see some of these girls approach to black guys rather than waiting guys to approach them.

-Spacedust