So I've been attempting to follow the advice I got in this thread:

r/TheRedPill/comments/2fd2th/need_red_pill_advice_on_marriage/[1]

But I think I might be doing it wrong. I've gotten a bunch of new clothes, started going out more, doing my own laundry, etc. Wife seems generally unaffected so far, (it's only been about 2 weeks so far since I've started implementing it so it might be too soon to tell?).

So I'm not sure about what my general attitude should be. Indifference? Should I still be trying to initiate sex? What are the mistakes I could be making here without realizing it?

EDIT FOR NEW INFORMATION:

So shit really hit the fan last night and this morning. She went to go hang out with her friend again last night. Told me it was just the two of them and her kid. So I stuck a recorder in her car. I get a text saying how she's drunk and really needs to stay the night there at bff's house. To which I reply that she needs to figure out a way to get home. I go to bed and she wasn't here in the morning until after I woke up. She comes in and I tell her that I expect my wife to come home at night, so she goes into the whole "you're not my parent" bullshit that I ignore.

So I get the recorder, and it picked up a conversation between them talking about how bff's brother thinks my wife is hot, and how bff wouldn't have told her about it if "she didn't want to get her hopes up". Further on in the audio, when they are at bff's house, I can briefly hear a male voice saying something. Other than that there isn't any audio that I can make out anything yet.

So I can basically assume at this point that they fucked last night..... Not 100% evidence but close enough I think.