Sexmaxxing : how to

Based on a recent TRP sex post

I think sex, especially very good sex is still taboo in the redpill community. So here my opinion to improve that cheatcode who outforms money and frame.

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Imo there are 3 important factors to learn and master asap :

1st : All the things during sex where women's genitals aren't involved

2nd : Being able to makes her cum without using your dick

3rd : Being able to makes her cum using your dick

1/ Foreplay : Dirty Talk, Dominant Frame and touching/kissing her whole body.

In order to increase her arousal into oblivion and increasing the woman's genitals sensitivity. She needs to be relaxed and thinking about you and imaginating the sex interaction with you. The orgasm comes from the mind.

Massages, touching, kissing her whole body and the erogenous parts of her body, while telling her with a deep voice in her ear how much she is sexy, beautiful, she smells good etc.

Don't rush it. Women like that, and can even cum from it.

In a dominant frame, she is here to relax, you take the control

2/ Being able to makes her cum without using your dick.

While transitionning foreplay into oral sex, you need to focus on the clitoris and the G-spot (even the anus). Don't be affraid to focus on her for a long time, because she need to cum first.

(Edit : She don't "deserves" it if she isn't a good girl or if she didn't treat you right. But just bust your nut in few minutes without taking care of her 1st, and hoping she will see you as the "alpha" or "Chad" is delusional af. And relying on her toys to finish the job is the best way for the frustration, and searching for that man elsewhere, able to do the job you didn't want to, because it's not "alpha" enough)

Don't hesitate to tell her she can guide you, if you want.
She'll probably have a refractory period after an orgasm, but she will go crazy for you after that.

The only book i recommend for oral sex techniques is "Jouissance Club" from the author June Pla. Everything is explained.

3/ The most complicated one : Being able to makes her cum using you dick

It depends on multiple factors like :

A/ If you are in shape : How good is your cardio, did you master the high intensity thrusting ? Try 30min H.I.I.T cardio while using exercises like Hindu Squats, Hindu Push-ups, Kettlebell swings, Jumping Jacks, Sandbag carries etc...

The goal is, being able to have a healthy heart and blood flow, for harder erections and fucking for a long time, without to being tired while maintainning crazy positions.

B/ The curvature of your penis : A upward or downward curve, is the best tool to reach and put pressure on the sweet spots of the vagina without hurting the cervix

C/ The length and the girth of the penis. You need to be around 6x5 to 8x6 to meet the ideal penis standards for most women. Past that size this is too big imo, too much prep, less benefits.

Women tend to focus on girth for the filling sensation.

If you lack of size, you can try penis enlargement methods like pumping, with a safety careful attention.

D/ The Stamina : How much time can you perform without blasting ? You need to train that as well by : 

--> Doing erect weighted kegels and reverse kegels, for a strong pelvic floor, useful to perform dry orgasms and continue the deed. And a relaxed pelvic floor to perform longer.      --> Stamina training, on a impopular opinion, by using a Fleshlight and "cock hero" non p.i.v porn videos. There are instructions and a tempo to follow.

The ideal stamina time is around ~30mins for most women.

Using a fleshlight increases the sensations, and using soft porn make you less likely to cheat and lasting longer than expected real life, because IRL you will be exposed to a naked woman right in front of you. 

--> Short term solutions like blasting a nut before the date or pinching your inner leg before the non-return point of ejaculation.

You need to be able to control your excitation, even under a high stimulation

E/ The Erection Quality : Eating vegetables like cauliflower and beetroots soups, eating healthy fats like olive oil, cutting sugar, doing cardio, using cialis or L-citrulline, abstinence, stopping unrealistic porn, mindset, arousal, anxiety etc.

D/ What did you do during thrusting : Moaning, dirty talking, kissing, choking, rubbing her clitoris, her butthole, using her favorite toys, etc

What other tips we can add ?